Recent Posts of member spermkiss


Of Interest to Mature Men (Like Me) 28,Nov,21 17:11
Are Masks Required on Nude Beaches? 28,Aug,20 17:40
The Gay Nineties and the Meaning of Gay 16,May,20 15:21
Short Pants -- An Encouraging Sign 02,Jun,18 19:09
"Relationship Goals", "Cute Couple", "Perfect Couple" etc. 24,Dec,16 13:12
The King of Thailand 14,Oct,16 14:33
Norway 12,Jul,16 17:06
Hong Kong 19,Oct,15 12:24
Gay Men in Military Service 24,Sep,15 14:05
Victory in Ireland 23,May,15 23:04
A Note about routemaster 29,Mar,15 14:18
The Evolution of Gay Sex 07,Mar,15 19:16
Things Every Man Should Do at Least Once 19,Dec,12 19:34
A Heartwarming Story for Christmas 17,Dec,12 15:26
Same Sex Kissing 18,Apr,11 18:13
Fishing for Compliments on the Forum 23,Mar,11 01:28
A Note to Japanese Members of SYD 16,Mar,11 18:08
An Appeal for Civilized Conduct on the Forum 07,Dec,10 01:52
A message from spermkiss 30,Oct,10 14:01


By spermkiss 29,Jan,23 13:15
Many years ago when I lived near the downtown area of town I was passing thru downtown on my way home. Just out of habit, I decided to go around the cruise block a couple of times. The first time around I spotted a guy who I could tell was a hustler. The second time around he got in my car without any encouragement from me. Right off I told him I knew he was hustling and that I wouldn't be paying him anything. He said that was OK and that he didn't expect any money. I figured he really wanted to get off the street, perhaps the police had been on him.

Back at my place I learned he was 32 years old and that he had been selling his body since he was 16, half his life. He spotted some handicraft items I had made and he went ape over them. So I gave him one and he said he was going to give it to his girlfriend. Then he said "Now I'm going to thank you." He opened my pants, took out his upper plate and gave me a gum job the likes of which I hadn't had before or since. I could tell he had done that before. And yes, he swallowed. I wonder if he told his girlfriend what he had done in exchange for her gift.

Interestingly, he never got out his own dick. He wasn't even crazy about having me feel it thru his pants. His attitude was that his dick was for his girlfriend and when he was with a man, he gave oral service.

By spermkiss 15,Jan,23 14:20
Dream on. Most women are not that much interested in seeing pictures of dicks.

But men are. All men, not just gay men. Men like to look at other men's dicks. It's a guy thing.

By spermkiss 04,Jan,23 15:40
It would be our pleasure.

By spermkiss 02,Jan,23 13:10
With the advent of a new year I thought I'd look thru some of my old posts. Even though the incident described was twenty years ago and this post is ten years old, it still resonates.

By spermkiss 26,Dec,22 12:28
The cocksuckers of this world thank you for making your cock available and for giving them [us] your loads of man juice.

By spermkiss 26,Dec,22 12:26
It's been nine years since you posted this. Have you sucked a cock yet?

By spermkiss 26,Dec,22 12:24
The truth is that there are some men who are so absolutely heterosexual that they could never ever have sex with another man under any circumstances. But not vey many. And there are some men who are so absolutely homosexual that they could never ever have sex with a woman under any circumstances. Again not very many. So the vast majority of men fall somewhere in the middle between gay and straight.

So when an ostensibly straight man views gay porn (by the way, much of which is produced using actors who are ostensibly straight) it helps him to realize that men CAN have sex with each other and have a good time doing it. And in many cases he is viewing straight men doing it and having a good time. So he says to himself "Hey, I could do this too."

To answer your question, it helps to release inhibitions but it doesn't alter a man's orientation.

By spermkiss 26,Dec,22 12:03
Perhaps readers will have heard the expression "knock your socks off" to mean an experience that was exceptionally good. This comes from porn. Actors in that art form often performed wearing only their socks. If they experienced an especially a very good orgasmic climax it was said to "knock their socks off".

By spermkiss 23,Dec,22 12:07
What if jacking off was your work? I mean porn stars.

Think about it: they arrive at the job, punch the clock, take off their clothes, have their ass make up applied and spend the work day fucking, sucking and jacking. It's a tuff job but somebody's got to do it.

By spermkiss 11,Dec,22 13:37
This is why underpants should never be worn with short shorts. Hanging out from time to time is one of the joys of wearing shorts.

By spermkiss 07,Dec,22 12:58
So kick it up a notch. Get a standing up and throbbing erection and stroll around the room nude and erect.

By spermkiss 07,Nov,22 12:43
If you've got it, flaunt it.

By spermkiss 30,Oct,22 12:11
Well then, she's not the gf for you. Sucking cocks is part of your life and the desire to do it ain't gonna go away. You've got to be able to incorporate it into your life in a safe and controlled way or it could push you to do risky things to get a taste of cock. It would be best if it were with her full knowledge and approval so you don't have to sneak around.

Many females are just fine with their beaus being cocksuckers, indeed they find it to be a major turn on. Just as many, perhaps most, heterosexual men find lesbian sex stimulating (or so I am told, I ain't heterosexual so I don't know from experience), many or even most heterosexual women find man on man sex exciting.

So turn her loose and start looking around for a gf who's more open minded.

By spermkiss 28,Oct,22 12:30
Man, it's time to play Truth with your gf. Tell her you like to suck cocks. There's a very good chance that she will not be bothered in the least, indeed she may think of it as a turn on and want to watch. Many women who'd be upset if their beau were with another woman are not bothered in the least if he's with another man.

And if she is upset, then she's not the gf for you.

By spermkiss 26,Oct,22 16:33
I'm guessing that glory hole sex is something you've never done. That's too bad because it's the ultimate in anonymous sex. And that makes it the purest sex there is. See my earlier comments made years ago on this topic.

By spermkiss 20,Oct,22 11:55
There is nothing like a spur-of-the-moment blow job given to or gotten from a total stranger in a public place. I've done this hundreds of times.

By spermkiss 20,Oct,22 11:52
I do some of my best work on my knees.

By spermkiss 16,Oct,22 17:40
As the fister or the fistee? From your name I presume the fistee.

I know it's possible because I've seen the photos. Indeed, I've done it; see the next paragraph. And on some level I can see the satisfaction of taking big things in the ass. It's a challenge, like climbing a mountain. See how I've stretched out my asshole! I can take a hand, wrist and forearm all the way to the elbow and beyond up my ass. I can take a two liter beverage bottle up my ass. I've got the biggest asshole in the world!

But I don't see the satisfaction for the fister. True confession: I once fisted a guy, not because I wanted to do it, but because he wanted me to do it to him. Yes, it did satisfy a certain intellectually curiosity I had about what it would be like to put my hand up someone's ass, but I didn't find it erotic. Sure it's fun to finger a guy, prior to tongue fucking him and then dick fucking him, but a fist? No.

OK you fisters in the SYD membership (I'm sure you're out there) fill me in.

By spermkiss 28,Sep,22 11:26
First dick I remember quite well but I don't remember how old I was. Less than 8 years.

First pussy I also remember quite well. I was 23 years old and it was with a neighbor on my living room floor.

By spermkiss 29,Aug,22 12:24
This reminds me of the old joke: Why do dogs lick their genitals? Because they can. There isn't a man in the world who wouldn't suck his own cock if he could. And some men can. Check out tee tee.

By spermkiss 10,Aug,22 11:25
A wise addition.

By spermkiss 02,Aug,22 11:46
I'd say I was between six and seven inches. (That's hard.) Not monster size, but bigger than most, even by adult standards. And of course on a skinny hairless 13 year old it looked really big. Did I ever get hard in the showers? Yes, a couple of times, but mostly I was semi-erect, big but not standing up.

By spermkiss 26,Jul,22 12:02
Men? And you identify as straight. But, hey, a bit of switch hitting doesn't mean you have to turn in your Straight Membership Card.

By spermkiss 13,Jul,22 12:32
Who hasn't? Isn't that part of growing up?

By spermkiss 03,Jul,22 11:38
Well, porn stars job is to masturbate. It's a tough job but somebody's got to do it.

By spermkiss 22,Jun,22 18:05
" So I stay in the closet and suffer..."

Man, what's wrong with this picture?! Come out of the closet and live!

Concerning your wife and friends, there's a very good chance that they already know, or at least suspect that you like to suck cocks, so you very well might be creating a problem where none exists.

First, concerning your wife. If you have a happy marriage based on love, respect and good companionship, there is a good chance she'd be fine with you sucking a few cocks now and then. Many women who would be very upset if their husband were to have a sexual liaison with a woman have no problem if he were to be with an occasional man. Indeed, many find it titillating. She might even want to watch. And if your marriage is not a happy one, then why try to save it?

Now about your friends. You have such doubt about them that you even put the word in quotes. Now-a-days a man being gay, or even being straight but liking to suck cocks is pretty much a nonissue. Most men consider it a badge of honor to have gay friends. You underestimate them if you think they will abandon you if you come out. And if they do, then they weren't really your friends.

Yes, coming out is a monumental step and it ain't easy. But it's worth it. Every one who has done it has reported that it feels like a great burden has been lifted from their shoulders. No more hiding. You can do it! And you'll be glad you did!

By spermkiss 10,Jun,22 11:59
What's wrong with be labeled a cocksucker? Yes, in much of society that word is used as an insult term. But I wear that label with pride as a badge of honor.

After all, what do we cocksuckers do? We give sexual satisfaction with orgasmic release to our fellow men. What is more honorable and noble than that? And we are rewarded for our effort with a rich creamy load of man juice. Yum. It's truly a win/win situation.

By spermkiss 29,May,22 18:53
Man, you've been a member of SYD for a year and a half now. You must know by now that dicks come in a huge variety of sizes from micro up to jumbo. Sure, the jumbos get attention, but many times a micro will make it to the most popular page. So a lot of people like them.

You have exposed yourself on this site but you say that you never expose yourself in locker rooms or changing rooms. But I know you want to, so do it.

Here's how. When undressing don't cringe and cower as if you are ashamed of your small endowment, but drop your pants with flair and bravado as if you are unveiling the most spectacular cock in the world. Maximize the time you are nude by postponing putting on you gym wear or swim wear until you are ready to leave the room. Circulate about the room nude and socialize with the others to give everyone a look. Seek out the guy with the biggest cock and make friends with him so everyone can see the contrast between his jumbo and your micro. After you have done this a few times you'll really look forward to putting your micro on display.

By spermkiss 23,May,22 19:33
Of course there are.

By spermkiss 23,May,22 19:28
Consider that thousands, yes thousands, maybe tens of thousands of men have shown their faces sucking cock, licking ass and getting fucked. Have all of these men, many of whom are straight away from a camera, had their lives totally destroyed because they did porn? Porn has gone totally mainstream and lots of regular guys do it. And many nominally straight men like to step away from their usual sexuality and be gay for pay. They find it exciting. Considering that, posting face showing nude photos on this sit seems rather tame. There is life after porn.

Because porn is so mainstream, it's become a rite of passage for young men to post nude photos. It's the thing to do. For young gay men, and many young straight men, they like to kick it up a notch and do a sex video.

By spermkiss 08,May,22 11:41
Well, you have a plethora of dick photos on your page and now you've turned around and shown us your ass. Indeed, your ass being digitally stimulated. I'm guessing that your dick has gotten the attention it needs and now you want some ass action.

So, do you want to be fucked?

By spermkiss 21,Apr,22 11:55
Only every man in the world.

By spermkiss 19,Apr,22 14:06
Tough call to know what ladies think. But it's easy to know what men will think. They will approve. The bottom line is that men like to look at other men's dicks. All men do, not just gay and bisexual men. All men. The popularity of this site proves that.

I had a look at you wearing the blue patterned swim brief and your equipment is indeed rather visible thru the fabric. But if you're comfortable wearing it and if you're fine with putting your goods on display, I say go for it and enjoy yourself. And you're still hot stuff at 50+.

By spermkiss 09,Apr,22 13:50
This is an oh so common refrain from straight men. They find so difficult to score with women. They have to wine them and dine them, say all the right things and do a lot coaxing just to get a whiff of their Precious Pussy. But men are easy. Just say "sex" to a man and he'll start opening his pants.

The truth is that by-and-large gay men are sex pigs. Like me sucking twenty or thirty cocks in a hour in a steam room. Sometimes other gay men call me out for saying that, but it's mostly true. And it's true not because we are gay, but because we are men. Straight men would do the same thing if they could (hello, leopoldij).

And some straight men can. Certain celebrities have women flocking to them and tossing their lingerie at their feet. Film actors, musicians, athletes (hello, Tiger Woods), politicians (hello, Bill Clinton).

By spermkiss 29,Mar,22 10:51
This exchange is reminding me of that old canard: "Beauty may be only skin deep, but ugly goes all the way down to the bone". Donald Trump is living proof of that hypothesis. Ted Cruz too.

By spermkiss 28,Mar,22 11:15
Isn't that fun. Years ago I liked to sit on the floor next to the door of the steam room room and suck the cock of every man who came it. Sometimes to climax, but mostly it was just a quick in and out. It was fulfilling to have had twenty or thirty or more cocks in my mouth over an hour's time.

By spermkiss 23,Mar,22 12:00
You got that right. Putin ha no need for toilet paper as Trump will lick his asshole clean whenever he wishes.

By spermkiss 21,Mar,22 11:48
Could be. And perhaps the reason he and Donald Trump were so chummy is that Trump did blow him.

By spermkiss 16,Mar,22 12:28
An interesting post.

One reason it's interesting is that you got penis growth so late, at 22. Mine grew to adult size when I was 13. When I started high school two months shy of my 14th birthday and I began seeing other boys' dicks on a regular basis in the showers after gym class, mine was bigger than most. But I didn't have any pubic hair. So there I was with my skinny, hairless boy body with a man size dick. You mentioned it was awkward in locker rooms because of your small size, in my case it was lack of hair. Most other boys had at least some, and many had impressive pubic bushes. I was sometimes kidded about that, but never about my dick size. Even when hair did begin to grow, I didn't get very much very quickly.

A second and more powerful reason it's interesting is that you seem to have gotten over any discomfort about having a small dick. On your page you have a fine portfolio of photos showing your handsome face and your small wonder. Sir, I salute you.

By spermkiss 10,Mar,22 11:36
I tend to prefer the ones that are in my mouth.

By spermkiss 19,Feb,22 12:42
Yes we did have that phase and it's a normal, healthy and wholesome part of growing up. And alas many men do indeed grow out of it, which is really too bad. If guys would get together now and then for a little show and tell, the world would be a better place.
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Some further thoughts on where we are now, and I hope I'm not getting too heavy duty political.

From the number of times Vladimir Putin has been photographed shirtless, one has to conclude that he really wants to show off his dick. If western Europe and North America were to show some interest in seeing it, perhaps we could take a big step toward world peace. After all, what is the big military buildup along the Ukraine border but a giant phallic symbol.

Just imagine President Biden calling him up and saying "Hey Vlad, how 'bout dropping by The White House and taking off your pants. I'll take mine off too and we can check each other out."

'Just sayin'

By spermkiss 18,Feb,22 12:13
No, all guys are not "ever so slightly" interested in seeing other guys' dicks. They are VERY interested. And this is not just gay and bisexual guys, but ALL guys. Guys like looking at dicks; all guys do. This is a guy thing not a gay thing.

By spermkiss 12,Feb,22 12:38
Oh for those days of youth when every young man's worst fear was getting an erection in a semi-public place like a gym shower. When one gets to be my age one realizes that there are a lot of things in life that are worse than having an erection. One of them is not having an erection. It's one of the cruel ironies of life that we men spend the first forty years of our lives trying to keep our dicks soft and the rest of our lives trying to get them hard.

So what do you do if you get an erection in the gym shower? Don't do anything. Neither should you attempt to hide it nor should you flaunt it. Just keep on doing whatever you'd be doing if you didn't have an erection. Erections are normal and natural and nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. In all likelihood everyone will pretend not to notice.

By spermkiss 07,Feb,22 12:10
I think you want to be fucked.

By spermkiss 23,Jan,22 14:47
What man hasn't?

OK, Darthshame, it's time for you to take a dick in your ass. Try it, you'll like it. And you don't have to turn in your Straight Membership Card. A lot of straight men like taking it in the ass.

By spermkiss 07,Jan,22 15:53
I didn't know that there was an "official definition" of bisexual.

By spermkiss 05,Jan,22 17:05
Yes, the skimpier and more transparent the better, but with one condition: they've got to be for men. If a guy were to drop his pants revealing that he was wearing lady's underpants that would be an immediate deal killer.

On this subject, does anyone remember a SYD member named jumpramp? He had a huge wardrobe of sexy briefs. Everything from the basic tighty whitey to the tiniest g-string and he was kind enough to post photos modeling them. (He also looked good nude and he posted those photos, too.) I crowned him the Underpants King.

By spermkiss 05,Jan,22 12:15
Yes, yes, yes! Sucking a guy off and receiving his load is fun. Doing it with other guys watching is enormously more fun.

By spermkiss 02,Jan,22 12:44
An interesting thread here. Who has heard the old expression for something that was exceptional (good or bad) "It really knocked you socks off"? That dates to the antique pre-internet days of porn when it was 16 or 8 mm movie film. Often in those movies the men would have removed all of their clothing except their socks. Then they had sex that knocked their socks off.

By spermkiss 20,Dec,21 11:38
I love a man who is devoted to scientific research. You have dedicated many hours on your knees collecting data relating to the size of men's copulatory organs and the flavor of their ejaculate. The things researchers do to advance the boundaries of human knowledge are amazing. Sir, I salute you.