 | Just so it's official. If you come to me later I point you to this thread. I tried to keep Bella from insulting other members in forum, but eventually those same members started to insult her, using words bitch, cunt and so on. As long as I have not seen it when you did it in private or closed groups it was OK. But you brought it on forum and indeed Bella reported it to me several days ago. I don't know what else you expected.
I gave her my explicit permission to insult you back. So don't whine that I protect her. Same to Bella - if you get your ass served to you, don't whine to me that I protect others. I always protect peace on this site, not people. But since almost no one else left on the site, I don't care anymore. Bring it on.
Still, I reserve my right to move some threads to dumpster if I stumble on them occasionally (I don't read most thing here though) and find it too disgusting. Not because any of you, you deserve each other, just because I may feel queasy about them. |
This site is looking healhy to me - plenty of paying members by %. The blacklisting rule when it comes to the forum is kind of shitty though - fighting etc is fine (not many of us visit the serious & non-sexual forum topics anyway), but people should be able to stand up for themselves and not be blind to cowardly behind-the-back sledging of them
Bella does the same as Johns or Monted before her. She tries to control as many members as she can and if someone ignores her or disagrees she tries to attack them. She's just more subtle than those two.
i was with friends with those 2 on & off too. I think bella! is a very important member. Yes, she stands up for herself and yes she's opinionated - but so are a lot of us (just like in real life, that is going to lead to enemies and the occasional fight). I just don't like it when public fights aren't fought fairly (when people hide behind their blacklist or use dummy accounts)
What you've done now is no different then whenever the group was formed to discuss lix. The group was created by one member who passed it off to another member. That member brought the grievance into the forum and YOU decided to blame me for it.
First, she's friendly.
But later she turns against you for no apparent reason.
She claimed that she wants "her" thread
/forum/thread.php?id=26613#4037
to be nude-picture free.
But this is not true. If you click the image below you will see that when aoneeyedmonster /member.php?w=383363 posted a pussy pic, saying Merry Christmas, Bella said nothing. I responded with Merry Christmas to him, also posting the pic of a Chinese pussy I fuck, Bella got upset and blacklisted me.
HERE IS THE PROOF, a screenshot from her thread with aoneeyedmonster's Merry Xmas, followed by my Merry Xmas:
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But the REAL reason she got upset is because I pointed out her total lack of logic and consistency in whatever she says. When she could not respond to my "challenging" remarks, she just launched an ad hominem attack. She basically said "I'm the SITE POLICE" and I aply my own rules and do whatever I like. Here is her declaration of being the Site Police.
HERE IS THE PROOF, with a screenshot of a message she sent to me with her declaration:
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Even though she states
"Just remember the rules, you can't be rude to members in public places, ie the forum AND members cannot call other members derogatory names"
she, herself, uses all kinds of foul language
"No, this asswipe is not offended in that manner, I suspect that IT is referring to when I refer to them being an asswipe.
This asswipe is like no other asswipe, IT is a major asswipe, like the GRAND DOUCHE of ASSWIPES. IT is the fart in an elevator."
"She's such an asswipe!"
[excerpts taken from the current thread that she thinks she owns and which, unlike others she had started in the past, have not been thrown to the dumpster]
and is also good friends with many trolls.
Incidentally, it's not English.
Even your friend Bella would recognize it. Capisci?
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😎
But it was alive, people were reacting, asking for improvements and additions and I kinda hooked up on it. It's always nice to see that what you do is needed. So I developed the site, but the question of making money remained. As the site grew it required more and more resources.
At one moment I realized that people do not want to pay for the site, most people think all the world is eager to see their dicks and I make a lot of money from ads so that I have to pay them and not they to me. But as I said - it's not true. On both accounts. First, there is so much free porn and quality one that barely anyone wants to look at some amateur dude's average dick. And second - there is no money in ads on a site like this. Almost nothing converts.
But, I realized that people are willing to pay to feel superior over others. So, my bad, I kinda encouraged this. Not directly, but by making site features that allowed people to do this. And for some time it was good. Regrettably, later it turned out that this model is not sustainable. They eat each other. Bella is not eaten by now only because the site dropped in search engine ranks and started shrinking. There is no one new now to eat her.
In your mind, I seem to be your only "problem" here on the site. Nah!
But with you it's like talking to a wall anyway, you only notice what suits your current agenda. I'm writing this reply not so much for that you read it, but mostly for other members to read.
Several weeks ago, I noticed bonbon52 trolling around and I believed it to be just who it turned out to be. Yes, I came to you and asked you if the IP/ISP was similar to any other members. You said it was but would not divulge who it belonged to because it was a "premium member". At that time I mentioned being called a "cunt" in the forum and having more than one dozen memes referring to me as "a bitch" or "the bitch" spammed into the forum. Yes, I mentioned those member's names to you because you turn a blind eye to their shit but keep a watchful eye on me. Let me post something where I'm calling someone a bitch or cunt or create multiple accounts. You would not permit that from me. Whatever!
Nov 28, 12:37 bella!: Hello. Would you be able to determine whether this member's IP is similar to any IP for another member? Or if the location of the user is located in the Miami, Florida area? /member.php?w=572871
Nov 28, 12:37 bella!: Thank you.
Nov 28, 12:49 admin: I don't know where it's located. Yes, it's similar to other member IP, but I can't really say who, cause that's a premium member.
Nov 28, 12:57 bella!: Thank you. Is it possible that the premium member and I have had our differences?
Nov 28, 13:28 admin: probably. I think it's easier to count members who you do not have differences with than all the others
Nov 28, 13:41 bella!: C'mon, you know who you think this is. Are you going to allow the premium member to troll me? You have allowed lix to call me a cunt and TWOWARMTTS2 has spammed the forum calling me a BITCH. Why do you knuckle down on me and allow others to do whatever they want?
Nov 28, 13:54 admin: That's not how I see it. Aside from initial outburst Lix does not write about you in forum for a very long time, I think it's more than 2 years, yet you keep mentioning her in degrading manner here and there occasionally. I do not like it.You are still free to write about her anything in your blog, I won't stop you. I just don't want to see it in the forum. As for TWOWARMTTS2 I did not really follow what's happening between you two. I mostly don't care what members say to each other unless someone bother me too much with complains. Don't even watch the forum or blogs most of the time, just occasionally.
Nov 28, 13:59 bella!: bella! has sent a private pic to admin:
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Nov 28, 14:03 bella!: bella! has sent a private pic to admin:
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Nov 28, 14:22 admin: I think it's fueled by recent EvilFairy's rant about her in your thread which I did not delete. Anyway, if you want to continue to degrade yourself in public I don't really care anymore. The site is almost dead anyway, I don't think it will scare away anyone at this point.
Nov 28, 14:24 admin: However, I think you made a way too many enemies here and it may not play out well for you if they join their forces. I can't protect you outside of this site even if I wanted.
Nov 28, 14:26 bella!: WOW! Thanks for making it an even playing field for all.
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I may be did not say it very clearly, but from your last remark it is obvious that you understood it as a permission to insult them without consequences. But later people complained to me that I let others insult you and don't let you insult them. Because of that I made this very topic. So that everyone know you know I allowed you to insult them but you still tell your friends that I don't. I.e. that you are a liar and manipulator.
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And, FYI, I don't care if you call me a Bitch. I've been called a lot worse. But I'll make your life miserable if you do. I'm not like the Aussies. I like to fight and I don't stop.
Yes, people will be people and yes words do hurt!!!
I have been around for almost 70 years, I've seen death and destruction. I've seen abuse and hatred.
Maybe it is time to step back from these conflicts and we all consider how we should conduct ourselves in a civil manner.
There is enough civil conflict going on today in all aspects and levels of our society, (think about our political situation).
Everyone insists they are right and everyone else is wrong. So be it.
If this is to stop someone must be the first to stop. Someone must be the first "peacemaker".
"I will fight no more forever" - Chief Joseph
Chief Joseph led the Nez Pez tribe through an exodus to join the Lacotas in Canada. He, and the tribe, tried doing this while fighting a war of retreat against the US CAVALRY. He did not succeed. He was defeated just short of the US/Canadian border. Instead of being returned to their reservation, he was kept semi prisoner in reservations all over the southwest. He was considered a statement and peacemaker. However, his life was full of war and disappointment.
I can agree to not start crap on purpose but, sometimes, without intent, we, all start crap. Or, someone else does. Either way, we get embroiled in a brujaja that ends up causing a lot of ill feelings. No one likes that. On the other hand, no one likes to be taken advantage of or made fun of or be disrespected. And that is why there's always going to be fights.
I held/hold pony-girl in high esteem and felt very strongly that she was wrongly treated, that's why I'm posting this
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one more question,
" But since almost no one else left on the site, I don't care anymore"
Are you saying the site is almost dead???
I must declare an interest and say that in my experience bella! has been and is a true friend and someone whose opinions and views I respect. Hers are some of the more interesting threads and some of the few that I read. I certainly don't recognise the person that some members attempt to portray her as.
Anyway, this thread was not meant to discuss Bella. I'm just stating that you all are free to swing your monkey crap at each other. Whether you wish to join someone or stay aside is totally your choice.
And in the comment I'm replying to someone who mentioned you first. This is called conversation.
From such reactions when you pretend to conveniently do not understand what's really happening, sometimes I begin to doubt that you are full of shit and start thinking that nay be you have a schizophrenia. Mental disorders are quite often among the members of this site, regrettably.
So that there is no doubt or question about mental stability, I'm going to post our conversation on my page.
Fair enough, this isn't a site intended for serious discussions etc, but it's become more of a social place for me rather than just a pics site. I defend anyone's right to view their opinions regardless of whether or not I agree with them because that's how we all should be if we want the same right. If some of the discussions here took place face to face, people would be beaten up for the way they speak to each other! Such a shame.
And people want to throw insults/names at each other... it's the nature of the web...
One person's muck is another person's gold...
But I do have to say,I find it hilarious that people can get offended by the word "cunt" especially when part of the site is called showyourcunt....
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