I just wanted to collect some wisdom here, if anyone cares to reply.
What are your clues that make you suspect (or convince yourself) that a member (well, female, say) is fake?
I'll try to think some myself and post below.
It looks like some members will establish many accounts for different reasons. Some like to have different personalities. Others like to spy. Others like to be really nasty, I've experienced some myself. I think that people with multiple accounts are worse than those who have a single fake account. At least, the latter ones adopt a fictitious persona and stick to it..
At any rate, I still can't understand the need to pretend to be something else of what you are.
l can understand wanting to be someone else, and that's ok if youre shy and the only way you can come out is by using anonymity, its a good way to pretend to be more confident and normal, but using it to be a cunt, well that says a lot about your real life *lix*
many are just disgruntled members that cant get enough of others after they've been blacklisted, l had an anonymous comment and it tracked the IP address to a member here, lve checked it a few times as there are 6 or 7 accounts all from the one ID and 2 are female profiles .. seems like he just cant get enough from one profile and then tried to use anonymity to make a disgusting comment... one person here can be many, and lm sure he's not the only one.. they're just pathetic excuses for humans and theres no need to be on so many different profiles unless youre doing something wrong or nasty... *lix*
wow, after being given the keys to the abuse report page for fakers, l thought 'what a fucking joke that is', it says if you don't have any COMMON SENSE not to vote, yet the most stupid and tolerable person here has a say, and gets to makes judgement on others, go figure??? l couldn't care less what others post, so long as theyre not hurting anyone, or degrading them, or being cunts to other members because theyre butt hurt over 5 lousy points and having a 'generic' comment deleted..they need to get a life ... a REAL one *Lix*
When you ask them to send a pic of what they are doing rite now and all you get is pics from their page same ones. And they start acting stupid when you put them in check.
Another clue is this: if I ask a female member to send me a pic, typically they may refuse, or decline. But if they immediately get angry that you may be questioning their femininity then that's suspicious.
what do you think if a woman just sends you a private pic out of the blue leo??? would you consider her a fake???
l find women that message my boyfriend telling him they have a tight cunt fake...especially when they spend all their days telling everyone lm fake..*lix*
yeah l get that men do it, but girls aren't so forth coming when it comes to tributing or sending personal shots...l always think, if looks too good to be true it usually isn't..*lix*
Best thing is on pc just to right click on the image and click "search google for this image". on smartphones its just hold click in the select "searh google for this image". As simple as that.. --------------------------------------- added after 5 minutes
Youll be amazed by how many people are fake.. and how many females on this site is actually a male posting pics of theyr wife slash girlfriend acting as her.. true % of females chatting on this site is really low
Through personal experience, I have learned that the best way to tell if a person is fake is to look for a little rubber nipple-like thing somewhere on their body which allows air to be blown into them for the purposes of inflation. That's a dead give-away.
And with all due respect I don't like a fake as much as the next person. But at this point. Does it really matter. If your suspicious of a member. Them leave them be and move on. Too many people have the need to be a private investigator and waller in the drama. It's not like new members are pouring in. If they keep deleting members their will be none left. Incase no one has noticed it's getting boring looking at the same 120 members day after day. But we do enjoy our friends that we have made on here.
Nice post. I don't know if you know, there is an evaluation panel which is comprised of ANY member that has had two years or more of continuous membership. Personally, I think members are deleted too quickly, i.e. they're reported for copyright, posting something benign and they're often deleted before they sign back on and POOF! Sad! Sad! Sad! It was suggested to admin that he place a 24 hour hold on voting, that a private message be generated from him directly, stating what the "abuse" is and who referred them. My opinion, these options sound good to me.
There seems to be a number of members that cannot tolerate copyright infringement, while others want to afford the reported member an opportunity to correct the problem. What I personally have an issue with is someone that will use another member's picture or pictures as their own. It's like when you steal from a SYC/SYD member, you're stealing from "family". I don't like members posting compromising pictures and title them with "si.ster", "mother", etc. I'm quick to vote to delete when there's the tone of the picture appears to be besti@lity. And when it is detected that the member was under.age when they opened their profile and began posting pictures. It's been a while since that type of situation was reported, however it was dismissed because the member was now over 18.
This community is like our real, everyday life, what can you do.....sometimes "we" get it right and sometimes not.
Well if we follow the 11 or 12 rules ( however you count them ) that you have listed. My wife and I are guilty of the first 5 or is it 6 (lets not forget about #4b). And #8. As far as that #11, were thinking of giving that a try. Is there really a possible solution to ridding out fakes. Yes some are obvious but others are not. We know of a member recently deleted cause her pics were found elsewhere. We know she was not fake through exchanging personal pics. And not one time did she not produce the pic we asked for. But was still deleted. Are we to believe that syd/syc is the only amatuer site where you can share your pics. Who cares if members have had pics in the past on other sites. 6 months ago a member from this site stole pics of my wife as well as 5 other girls who are still members. He started a Tumblr account with the stolen pics of our girls. Administration acted right away and that member was deleted. God knows how many sites those stolen pics are on by now. However, if someone sees those stolen pics on external websites. Is the rule of thumb that those girls are looked upon as fakes. There has to be a better system.
It's like other members have said, just use common sense and go with your gut feeling. Sometimes just looking at a profile will give you a sense whether the person is real or fake.
Real members who want to chat or start up a real friendship here, will not ask for your credit card. That was never the purpose of this site.
As far as attractiveness goes, there some very beautiful female real members here. Part of this site was to show your body, and if you're hot show it off, also part of it is to celebrate all sizes, shapes, and figures. So to think that a member is not real, because they are too "attractive" is not accurate. "Real" can't be defined as one particular body type.
Also those who have face pics, especially women are not necessarily fake. The jury is still out on whether that is a good indicator for a fake. Many of us feel, that we will show our face, and try not to worry about it. But sometimes too many face pics coupled with other factors can make you come to the conclusion that someone is a fake.
Also, just because someone's face is blurred out doesn't make them real. Just because they don't show up in TinEye or Google doesn't make them real.
Also how they act in the forum. If they are going on and on and I'm like I am, there is a good chance they are real. But it is never a guarantee, however.
If they are a premium member, there is a good chance they are real. Because why would a fake member, buy a membership. But again, it's never a guarantee.
I think most people that I message think I'm a fake because I don't get many replies and I think it's because I don't have public photos I only send photos to people I talk to but I've been on the site for like a year and a half or 2 years I **** fake profiles not only do they piss me off but they make it hard for people like me to make friends
Everyone is fake....this is the internet,the land of make believe,where drama queens and dickwads come to play..
Where original thought gets stifled by compulsive liars and ignorance.
Oh,you were talking about here...
Male members seem to use the emoticons more freely. Don't get me wrong, I do use some emoticons but not with every private message I send or with every comment I post.
Your write. I hadn't thought about that. And to prove that, see my reply to Avillager below; he, too, was write in telling me that I did not use the verb "to right" correctly. I suspected it wasn't allwrite but I haven't studied grammar in ages... At least I know how to use some other verbs correctly, so, again, let me tell you bella that, although you're observation was brief, your absolutely write.
Yah I no but I'm da stupid kind and engrish is not my Forte I sumtimes mix punxuation and then I forget which words r correct or not becoz like I said first I'm a mann and third I can't to speak ingrish properly eve tho tu crois que je ne fais pas de bêtises mais je t'assures que tu te trompe b beaucoup.
Most are, if you want a fake that can't be found using TinEye or Google search use pics from an amateur site that you have to log into. Its an old trick known by most members.
The member that posts them then says "Oh... I'm on that site" its total bullshit.
You seem very vociferous in your defence of these people....Hmmmmm
What about how they type? Most legit women I know at least try to use proper wording/punctuation... Some on here send replies that are so wretched it looks like they did a titty flop on the keyboard...
But anyways, when I see a profile of a chubby 20 something with enormous tits as an avatar, has a couple pictures posted that are not those huge titties, seems to have way too many points to be accumulated by said non-titty pictures, and that can't construct a half decent sentence to save their ass... That's when I deem it a false profile.
There is a lot of illiterate chicks, regrettably. You can see it on facebook. But dudes write like dudes. I can not say what's the difference, though. Can't exactly formulate it. Their language is more simple and straightforward, may be. Not always, indeed. There are dudes whose speech is not distinct from women's.
Of course, if google images finds the pic, then is not immediate that the member is fake. But if it finds it on a porn site like thehun dot net then it is very suspicious.
Here's another thing: if someone wants to have a fake account then he must obtain (=steal) pics from the Internet. He does do once and then never again. He never publishes a new pic because he doesn't have any new ones
At any rate, I still can't understand the need to pretend to be something else of what you are.
l find women that message my boyfriend telling him they have a tight cunt fake...especially when they spend all their days telling everyone lm fake..*lix*
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Youll be amazed by how many people are fake.. and how many females on this site is actually a male posting pics of theyr wife slash girlfriend acting as her.. true % of females chatting on this site is really low
There seems to be a number of members that cannot tolerate copyright infringement, while others want to afford the reported member an opportunity to correct the problem. What I personally have an issue with is someone that will use another member's picture or pictures as their own. It's like when you steal from a SYC/SYD member, you're stealing from "family". I don't like members posting compromising pictures and title them with "si.ster", "mother", etc. I'm quick to vote to delete when there's the tone of the picture appears to be besti@lity. And when it is detected that the member was under.age when they opened their profile and began posting pictures. It's been a while since that type of situation was reported, however it was dismissed because the member was now over 18.
This community is like our real, everyday life, what can you do.....sometimes "we" get it right and sometimes not.
Real members who want to chat or start up a real friendship here, will not ask for your credit card. That was never the purpose of this site.
As far as attractiveness goes, there some very beautiful female real members here. Part of this site was to show your body, and if you're hot show it off, also part of it is to celebrate all sizes, shapes, and figures. So to think that a member is not real, because they are too "attractive" is not accurate. "Real" can't be defined as one particular body type.
Also those who have face pics, especially women are not necessarily fake. The jury is still out on whether that is a good indicator for a fake. Many of us feel, that we will show our face, and try not to worry about it. But sometimes too many face pics coupled with other factors can make you come to the conclusion that someone is a fake.
Also, just because someone's face is blurred out doesn't make them real. Just because they don't show up in TinEye or Google doesn't make them real.
Also how they act in the forum. If they are going on and on and I'm like I am, there is a good chance they are real. But it is never a guarantee, however.
If they are a premium member, there is a good chance they are real. Because why would a fake member, buy a membership. But again, it's never a guarantee.
Where original thought gets stifled by compulsive liars and ignorance.
Oh,you were talking about here...
The member that posts them then says "Oh... I'm on that site" its total bullshit.
You seem very vociferous in your defence of these people....Hmmmmm
But anyways, when I see a profile of a chubby 20 something with enormous tits as an avatar, has a couple pictures posted that are not those huge titties, seems to have way too many points to be accumulated by said non-titty pictures, and that can't construct a half decent sentence to save their ass... That's when I deem it a false profile.
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