I agree it's a win win situation!

Still they are so hard to find!

That really amazes me! Anyone got any idea why it is so difficult to find?

I'm very lucky, my wife's boyfriend uses my holes whenever he gets the opportunity when my wife is not available

Sometimes they can be very silly:

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One can rely on good friends:
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Well I have to say my only real fwb was lots of fun. She and i used to have fun together. Back in the day,once she called me and said hey I need a little visit what are you up to. I told her nothing really just laying in bed watching tv right now. She said hmm well I have a dare for you then. I said ok what's that. She said how about this I dare you to come over and once you get in my elevator I dare you to get naked in the elevator and ill leave my door unlocked. Just walk in once you get here. I said ok. She lived in an old building and it had a few shops downstairs that closed around 9. She worked until about 1-2 am at a bar. There was only like 3 apartments upstairs so it wasn't like a lot of people lived there. So I got there hopped on the elevator only had on a shirt and shorts to start with and flip flops. So I pushed the button to go up and got nude. I walked off the elevator down the hall past both the other doors. I opened her door and just thinking that I was going to get some anyway plus the excitement of being naked in public and nigh be seen I was nearly erect when I walked into her apartment. I walked in and low and behold there she was in nothing but panties and another woman there only in panties and a bra. She said oh there you are I have a gift for you look here. The woman looked at me and said oh my is this for me. She said no this isn't for you just a minute. Then my friend hot on her knees and sucked me until she had me rock hard. The other woman by that time was naked and playing with herself watching. Then my friend said there now thats your gift. There I am rock hard and then my friend pushed me over in front of her. She immediately started sucking me and she had such a beautiful body she was gorgeous. Then my friend said hmmm see I told you I would get you a realm nice cock didn't I. Then she said lets go in the bedroom. So we moved to the bedroom and the woman was so hot and beautiful I started eating her while my friend sucked me.. Then I said damn your so hot I have to fuck you. So i rolled her over and started fucking her from behind. She was very tight and so hot but she got super wet in seconds. My friend said to me whispering in my ear fuck her as good and as hard as you do me she needs it bad she hasn't had any in a long time. So I fucked her in all types of positions my friend she just watched while she played with herself. The woman came over and over so much there was a puddle under her on the bed. She cried and moaned and screamed and nearly passed out. Then I started to cum. I pulled out and put my cock in the woman's face and she said oh I want it give it to me. And as I shot off she sucked me off and swallowed every drop. My friend then came watching us and said oh this is so hot you look like that when you fuck me. The woman then she laid back and cupped her twat and said oh thank you you just dont know just how bad I needed that. Just then my friend said ok are you good,the woman said oh I'm good now for another year or more ohh that was good. My friend then said ok well now go your drunk ass to sleep and ill wake you in the morning. My friend walked me out to her door and said oh yeah I forgot you came in here naked where are your clothes. I told her they are in the elevator. She said really oh let me walk you out. We walked to the elevator and on the way she told me,look that woman is a friend of mine and she is married to a state senator but he is gay and they are only married for looks. She has to go out every so often and get her some because a vibrator only does so much. I think she might come back again and want some can I call you. I said hell yeah anytime. My friend rode down the elevator with me nude because I told her ok now its your turn to be dated. So she did it. She kissed me and rode back up while I left. Man that girl was lots of fun. She got me laid by four other women while we were fwb's she was a very good friend.

I have commented here before that i hadn't managed to find a friend with benefits.

In the mean time i have found one. A guy who has become a good friend. We chat almost every day, meet up from time to time and always have a good time together.

He has been in a relationship with a man since his early twenty's but always kept having fun with other men. His friend knows about this and is fine with it.

We constantly share the things we do with other guys, and enjoy hearing what the other has done. From time to time we do things together like sauna visits sexparties etc

I had an idea about what a friend with benefits would be, but this has turned out much better.

I addition to my post below...
I have had a few and every time the "No Strings Attached" idea falls flat. Making love to someone regularly always seems to lead to an emotional connection and the longer you meet with them the stronger that connection becomes. The stronger the connection the better the sex and so it snowballed. Most of my
FWB's were from the local university so the arrangement had a finite term coinciding with the academic year end. All of them are still good friends and look me up whenever they are in town.

Its not just societal , I just don't like every guy I come into contact with. Now women that's a totally different story. If I don't want to fuck them its because they are so huge or smelly or ugly in a non physical way. But not to worry they usually don't want anything to do with me anyway. Men like to fantasize about sex with other men but even though they are constantly horny, they seldom commit to having sex. In order to find that FWB you have to increase your odds by meeting many people. The internet helps but their are also a lot of men who are players and waste your time. The biggest problem with internet connections is men who are local. Most of my contacts are from some where far away.

i have many friends with benefits. it works great and im never lacking for some great fucking

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Here is one of them

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I'm a married bi guy, in the closet but very familiar with casual M/M sex. I've never had sex with a friend (unless you count some sex-play at age 13)... or become a friend of a guy I'm having discrete sex with. I'm emotionally monogamous with my wife... but physically I'm a cock-sucking slut.

Somewhat of a tame version of friends with benefits... an old co-worker of mine (she was actually my boss for a while). Good friend and we both got laid off from work the same year (about 6 months apart). We stayed connected and often visited each other nearly every week just to hang out.

Sexual teasing between the two of us kept getting more and more daring, till she was flashing her tits every time I stopped over. After a while it got to the point where she’d let me jerk off with her as she flashed me and we viewed my personal set of pix and vids of my wife and I.

Great fun!

i agree that it is hard to find this cause in many cases one of the ppl involved wants more. i did this with a girl i knew - we had a one night stand once, some time passed and we decided to just keep doin it....even tho we were in a relationship with someone else at the time. we still hook up from time to time but she lives far now so not as easy as b4. have not been able to find this with a guy yet but would love to

I've not had a regular FWB but in my blog I talk about a buddy of mine. We still get together and I'm going to keep trying to convince him it could work just fine. One of these days. In fact he is coming over today. I haven't made the pitch in a while. I keep practicing lines to pitch so I don't make him uncomfortable, any ideas?

I have had some FWB over the years. It's great to have someone you can trust when you are horny and looking to have some fun or spend the night with a guy. It's just as great to be that someone who another guy can approach in his time of need. It's just two guys who enjoy having sex.

Yes, they are hard to find but they are sure worth nurturing when you find them

I have several friends with benefits. These are people i've hooked up with and formed a long time relationship. We get together when life throws us together but we don't seek to live together or even have "an understanding". Many times we have cried on each other's chest about some other relationship and we made love while talking about someone else, then we continue with our lives until the next time we meet. Some are very long time friends,,others are casual encounters that i like to keep as friends

l think you do get emotionally involved, just at a different level, you can love the with out being in love with them and you can care for them, once theyre your friend, you get attached, just means you don't want to live with them. *lix*

I had one guy friend when I was 19.He was my friend from childhood and we touched each other before. So there was a time we would meet only for sex.One evening he would visit and without talking as soon as he in my room we get naked and he blows me.I would blew my load and he enjoyed swallowing my cum. Then I would suck his dick and let him give me a facial.Then he just left and we won't talk about emotions. Next evening I visit him and we blow each other again. If we were in a shower after gym we would always give each other a handjob. IT all ended when he got a girl and started dating.

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I have two FWB, both black girls and both much younger than me. I dont think you can make love to a girl and feel absolutely nothing for her, there is in my mind always going to be an emotional connection but without the commitment. My friends are both bisexual and we have had a 3some on a few occasions.