 | What would you do if you realise that your friend/****/cousin or girlfriend is an **** or a hooker?
I recently crush to this wall. Well pocket guys took my beloved away from me. She seems to enjoy it due tovthe enormous cash she gets and the life style of the high society. But i am in hell. I an thinking her every minute and all i get is 2-3 calls dailly when she is not dissapeared fir 2 weeks.... She is just 19. I can t be without her.  |
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But that does not make it easier or better...
Προσέξτε τι έχουν πει και άλλοι, απορρίπτουν το φθηνό πόρνη και να προχωρήσουμε. λογική και τη ζωή σας αξίζουν περισσότερο από ό, τι κάποια φτηνή πόρνη.
She started by saying "i am just nice to them so i can work to their bar/cafe/etc..."...
Then she start to say about she is goung to make company to business man for hundrends of euros. I was like " i do not belueve that they are not toyching you or fuck you...no way to give so many money just for company..."
And last days, she move to an other town. She was not answering for 20 days untill last monday. People around me say forget her. She was a hoijer here now she is a hoojer there...
Well pocket i mean reach!!!
Well i liked yoyr answer it is helping but... Here is the problem. It us nit just that i am in love. Here in my country we have difetent words to describe "being in love" and "really love" simeone...
It is not sexual my emotions. I care for her. It is the only girl i have ever feel something. I do not want to see her... You know...
It is difficult to deal with it because she does not share so many info wirh me. She lies all the time. And when i discover the truth she says "i lued to you because i dis not want to hurt you"...
She does not confess the hoker thing. Only the other part...
She tell me " there are so stupid people in the world with so many money, let me take advadage of them"...
But i can deal wirh it. First i can accept that they are fucking her. And secind i am afraud that someone is going to do something really bad to her...
Listen to your friends, let her go and if you were "meant to be", she will return to you and you will have to decide whether you want her back.
If you stand on that same corner, just like buses, women will pass by you as well. Let this 1 go, and wait a while and another will come along. 19,if she is making money for whatever she is doing without having to go to college or anything, she will get hooked on that lifestyle and when she gets to old to be on the market she will be to old to start over and you will have been lonely for all those years. It aint worth it, find another 1 or enjoy dating several. Life is to short for this crap of worrying over 1 that is behaving in that manner.
So, she became a prostitute and THEN she told you. This is a bad sign. First of all, from YOUR point of view, no matter what I or others tell you, you will keep denying it and keep saying "I love her, I care for her, she makes me happy, I want to be with her". That's normal. But place yourself, for a moment--I know it's hard to do--at the standpoint of an independent observer, like me, who's telling you "man, you're in trouble, you're gonna regret it being with her, if not now, then later; a girl who lies this way once will lie again; it's better to call it quits now, rather than wait for later; the longer you wait, the harder it'll be".
So, do some serious thinking. And, tell me, have you fucked other women while going out with her? Did you have an open relationship? If not, then what she did is even worse.
She's making money and she's enjoying the fuck, be sure about that. No girl at the age of 19 fucks just for fucking money. They like it too. And that contributes to your feeling. I'm sure it's in the back of your mind, and, even if it hasn't surfaced yet, it surely will.
GO out and find another girlfriend. I mean, NOW. Even if she's a fuck buddy. Just get a girl to fuck. Forget emotions. They're not real. Have fun, and, when and if you're ready, find another one to fall in love with.
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Generally she is so cinical, and brutal. There was this moment just before she left... We were going out at nigth in the car and i was (not shame i guess) crying. Then for first time she cryied to trying not to remember but.... She can not be so emotionalless so heatrlesss... And it is not like we were starving here. I mean ok her father left her years ago,noone from her family cares. The girl is oyt there in the hight life by the age of 12. But wheni came to the stage, she knew that things are going to be ok. The situation is complex and the story is long. Do not know if i am destroying my life but i can not let her go. I want her in my life.
Try to reread what was said above. Unless your life is worthless to you, don't waste another minute on this issue. Find someone new, and enjoy what life has to offer.
You've never been with another girl.
This, by itself, is the MAJOR cause of your feelings. Trust me. You need to fuck another woman, and do it NOW. Maybe more than one. You're confusing sex with care and love. Go ahead, deny that, I know you will, I know you want to. But it's a fact: your emotional state is precisely due to the fact you've only had sex with that girl.
She's using you.
She's had sex with lots of men. Yes, for money, but she's enjoying it. You are not. You think you've no alternative. You're trapped. Don't repeat mistakes millions of others (me included) have made. Please: go find a girl and have sex with. Do it a few times. Yes, you'll cry. And you'll think you're betraying her who's having fun behind your back. But think of your feelings as a kind of desease you have. Indeed, you have a mental disease. Because you're a man. Women don't suffer that much, you now. You're a man, and, moreover, you're greek, meaning that you can't behave like an emotionless Scandinavian, for instance.
Cry as much as you wish. And keep thinking that there's justice in this world. And that, if you're good to her she'll get back to you. WRONG. First, there's no such thing as justice. Second, she'll abuse you (at least emotionally) more when she knows you care for her.
To summarize: my recipe for you is this. Find a woman and fuck, as soon as possible. Do that as a treatment, as a prescribed medication from your doctor.
By the way, how many years have you been together?
Oh, something else too : I hope you've been super careful when having sex with her. Condom I suppose?
I'm glad that those who care about you tell you the same thing. They're right. Independently, I'm also telling you the same, and I have nothing to gain or lose. My opinion is based on experience and on what you've told me.
Like I said, you're probably a typical mediterranean guy who believes in some kind of meta-justice. There is none. Regardless of how good you are to her, she won't change. She took this path, she'll stick to it.
It's time you took your own path too.
You've already started.
Run don't walk away from this and move on with your life. Having the balls to do it is 1 thing, but having the brains to do it is another.
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Thanks to everyone that replied... I read and reread your thoughts almost every day... When sonwthing extra happens or when i feel weak...
Well you all were helpfull in a very strange and difficult time of my life...
Do not know what is going to come next but thank you. It was unexpected for me to find such a good response in a site like this. I find some thoughts in here much deeper than mine.
[A] “What would you do if you realize that your friend/****/cousin or girlfriend is an **** or a hooker?” As it were I have had a couple of friends that either were before I met them or became escorts or exotic dancers afterwards. While I liked them both that alone determined that I wouldn’t be interested them as lovers but as FIBs they were great. It took all the pressure of any relationship we had. In fact, being the combat vet I am I actually came to their rescue when they called and made sure they were safe more than once.
[B] I’m guessing that your ESL (English as a second language) issues can be translated as: [1] reverse the letters..."tuls"; and [2] translate “Well pocket guys” as "Rich Guys" (not reach).
[C] As for the rest, you’re STALKING her. Calling her numerous times a day and not getting responses is the sheer definition of stalking. Stop it!
So here we are. Sadly, "the heart wants what the heart wants" and we don't always get the opportunity to choose who we fall in love with. Sometimes we fall in love and then find out it's going to be a rocky road. That's where getting to know one's potential partners should take some period of time instead of hurriedly jumping in "feet first". However, one needs to be mature enough to know the difference between healthy and destructive relationships. Since you can’t do that on your own, get some professional help (preacher, psychiatrist, etc.) to help you deal with these feelings and actions and, to learn why this relationship is truly unhealthy for you.
In my opinion, the only true way you’ll ever get past this will include finding a healthy relationship to invest your heart into so that you can realize how bad this one is and so you can enjoy the benefits of having a great partner that thinks like you do.
In the end, good luck. You have a hard road ahead of you.
By the way, why the smiley face after your topic description? It seems your emoticon should be either crying or in pain. Or, does this mean your blowing smoke here and just seeing if you can get a reaction? It’s a curious conundrum.
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OK Greek, where do I begin?
[A] “What would you do if you realize that your friend/****/cousin or girlfriend is an **** or a hooker?” As it were I have had a couple of friends that either were before I met them or became escorts or exotic dancers afterwards. While I liked them both that alone determined that I wouldn’t be interested them as lovers but as FIBs they were great. It took all the pressure of any relationship we had. In fact, being the combat vet I am I actually came to their rescue when they called and made sure they were safe more than once.
[B] I’m guessing that your ESL (English as a second language) issues can be translated as: [1] reverse the letters..."tuls"; and [2] translate “Well pocket guys” as "Rich Guys" (not reach).
[C] As for the rest, you’re STALKING her. Calling her numerous times a day and not getting responses is the sheer definition of stalking. Stop it!
So here we are. Sadly, "the heart wants what the heart wants" and we don't always get the opportunity to choose who we fall in love with. Sometimes we fall in love and then find out it's going to be a rocky road. That's where getting to know one's potential partners should take some period of time instead of hurriedly jumping in "feet first". However, one needs to be mature enough to know the difference between healthy and destructive relationships. Since you can’t do that on your own, get some professional help (preacher, psychiatrist, etc.) to help you deal with these feelings and actions and, to learn why this relationship is truly unhealthy for you.
In my opinion, the only true way you’ll ever get past this will include finding a healthy relationship to invest your heart into so that you can realize how bad this one is and so you can enjoy the benefits of having a great partner that thinks like you do.
In the end, good luck. You have a hard road ahead of you.
By the way, why the smiley face after your topic description? It seems your emoticon should be either crying or in pain. Or, does this mean your blowing smoke here and just seeing if you can get a reaction? It’s a curious conundrum.
Yes my english are bad, but some of my mistakes are by typing...
Well all of you ate helping...
The professional help is suggested more than ones by my friends. I seriously thinking about that...
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And about the calls... Well we are calling each other several times or talk to facebook... Untill she has sone work to do... And yes then maybe i stalking her by...waching her check in with the rich guys in rich and glamorous places...
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I don't quite understand what you mean by "an **** or a hooker"? You used a censored word that I cannot guess. Please post again by inserting a dot or something in the word so that we can read it.
I also don't understand what "Well pocket guys" means.
Now, back to your problem. It seems that your girlfriend decided to become a prostitute right? I guess this is because of the financial situation. No jobs, and so easy cash via the oldest profession in the world.
Question:
1) does she still want to be your girlfriend?
2) did she actually tell you that she is becoming a prostitute or you found out from others?
If, say, the answer to the 1) is that she doesn't care and to 2) that you found out what she was doing from others, then, clearly, you must stop the relationship.
Otherwise, you can try to negotiate.
Whatever it is, my gut feeling is that you should not have a relationship with a prostitute. It hurts you and, like most men, can't deal with the fact that she gets fucked daily by strangers.
To start the healing process, you must correct one thing. You say "I can't be without her." That's stupid and wrong. Of course you can be without her and of course you can find another girlfriend. And, if you think you're in love with her, be certain that this a temporary feeling, one that eventually goes away. Love is a mental state that fades but it can also be renewed by meeting another woman.
So, please answer to my questions above. And please correct your last sentence. Talk again, if you wish.
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