Started by #197878 [Ignore] 11,Oct,11 14:33
 | Married but love to get head from a dude. They are easier to find then women. Does that make me gay? |
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And they are certainly not gay.
We cocksuckers have been sucking off straight men for millennia, since the dawn of mankind. And it's totally a win/win situation. The straight man gets the oral service he craves with a satisfying orgasmic climax and the cocksucker gets the pleasure, satisfaction and feeling of accomplishment of having brought another man to climax. And he is rewarded for his effort with a nice tasty mouthful of man juice.
But every now and the someone will come along and throw a monkey wrench into this fine situation with the suggestion that any man who gets head from another man has to be gay, or at least bisexual. And for a time it scares off the straight men. Fortunately they come back.
I make it as clear as possible that my interests are me, giving them oral pleasure only, in various calls and text messages in the days before we meet. You have to be smart about things nowadays. I'm not looking for a freak or someone abusive, or isn't discreet like I insist upon, or who has serious tho hidden reservations about allowing another man to give him oral pleasure. If any of this is the case, we don't meet, and I move on.
But its about 50/50 in the types I've met who are interested in reciprocation, some say it upfront, the rest keep it a secret until we've met.
A friend of mine from college told me a guy gave him a blowjob once, and it caused him to question his sexuality because, in his own words, it was the "best blowjob I've ever had in my life." The guy made him cum and more than likely swallowed his load (which I'll bet he's never experienced since then). When the same guy propositioned him later on for a repeat performance, my friend declined. I asked my friend if he felt an attraction to this guy and wanted to do anything to him in return, and he said no. Then I explained to him that no, he wasn't gay or bi; he just happened to get a REALLY good blowjob, and it just happened to be from another guy.
I know others will disagree, and that's fine. I also know there's a lot of bullshit out there, especially from guys who love to contradict themselves when it comes to matters of sexuality. But to me, this is one of those things that's simply not cut and dried or black and white.
The fact that the OP had to qualify his question with "since wife doesn't give any" is an example of that.
If his wife DID give head, but he still got BJs from guys, would that make his sexuality any different?
Think about it for a second.
What this (departed member) is saying--in a round-about way--is that he believes it is possible for a guy who enjoys getting head from another guy to be LESS gay if he has a wife who doesn't give blowjobs.
Would he be MORE gay if his wife liked giving head, but he still got hummers from guys any way?
Is the WIFE the deciding factor in this "my degree of gayness" equation?
Are UNMARRIED guys who enjoy getting head from other guys only gay because there isn't a WIFE in the picture to hetero them up?
And we cocksuckers thank straight guys for dropping their pants for us.
Definition of BISEXUAL
a : possessing characters of both sexes : HERMAPHRODITIC
b : of, relating to, or characterized by a tendency to direct sexual desire toward both sexes
: of, relating to, or involving bothsexes
Right out of Websters. Notice it says sexual desire and not feelings.
WTF?
Straight men dont suck or get sucked by other men!!!
What is funny is when two bisexual men suck and swallow every drop of each others cum and then protest that m2m kissing is "Way too gay!"
However, I would carefully consider whether you want your marriage to last and decide whether having your wife find out your getting blow jobs on the side from men is worth the pleasure you get from it. I would imagine that if you're keeping it a secret from her it means it's a big problem in her eyes.
So, the answer to your question is; you're not gay, you are bisexual and playing a dangerous game with your wife's affection. Here's hoping this helps.
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