Hitachi Magic Wand is a guaranteed orgasm! 100 out of 100.... as long as the power is on!

Don't tar all guys with the same brush. We are all not in that category, And yes some of us understand what it takes to turn a woman on and I don't mean buying her 1/2 larger & a kebab,& we all heard of the various %/statistics that you mentioned. Me personally I treat ladies on here as I would in the real world, A Pint of lager & 2kebabs

Lately, it hard to cum with the guy there. He distracts me and is too meme demanding to climax. I just wait til the man leaves and do it myself. So frustrating.

In real life yes the OP is right while in the virtual its very different and mostly all for fun. There are some women on here that that go with the virtual world in all its anonymity. Of course you know that in real it can take a whole evening to get a woman to reach orgasm that is multiple gaining extra intensity each time.

No thanks. I prefer men!

And sometimes a good, quick, heat of the moment get your dick out and into my pussy right now is a great thing too.

In general terms, I agree with our original poster. A lot of men think they control it. I, for one, am more interested in seeing the pleasure I helped create. When I'm with a woman, I want nothing more than to please her, because it is such a turn on.


I don't pretend to be the best at it, and I'm full of insecurities (as most men are). I'm not huge, but I'm by no means small. Still, I have insecurities about that. I don't want to be lied to. If I'm not floating your boat, tell me, show me, guide me, teach me. I'd rather learn how to please you than leave you unfulfilled and bored.


It's also worth noting that her clit is on the OUTSIDE and her G-spot isn't very far inside. I know...it's probably going to come as a shock to many men. Truth is, you barely need to have a penis to stimulate her, so stop telling her how hard you're gonna fuck her.


Guys: find out what she likes. It's that simple. It'll last longer, and it'll give you so much more of a thrill to watch her eyes genuinely roll back in her head when you get it right!

The sexiest organ in the human body is the brain. Women like to be romanced, courted and wooed. Women want to be appreciated as being unique and special. Lots of gentle verbal and physical foreplay before intercourse. Lots of intimacy, holding and cuddling in the afterglow. Too many men think with their dicks and not with their brains.

Guess I hit a nerve! And no my dick is nothing special I've found my tongue gets the job done quite well though!

Ya no offense but u kinda sound like a man hateing lesbian.

From Matt's Wife: Ok we were at a swing club a few months ago and we met a single guy that I was very attracted to. He was very fit and confident and well mannered. We all chatted for a while and then Matt and I told him we were going to go find a room and play. If he wanted to he could join. He was the best single male we have ever run across while swinging, between him and Matt I was very satisfied in every way. That man put me first and my sexual needs. After a few hours he asked for permission to cum. He didn't want to dissappoint me. Learn guys!!

Excellent point. "Making a Woman Cum" requires a lot more than inserting one's penis inside a woman's vagina. It takes work, which can also be truly pleasurable, but the physical act is just the stimulus.

The true sexual organ is between one's ears, either male or female. If you haven't stimulated a woman's interest she may or may not cum but a truly mind blowing orgasm comes from a combination of foreplay, experience, and knowing how to read a woman's reactions to your lovemaking and modify it to her desires.

It should also be noted that not all women cum from vaginal insertion, at least with a penis attached to a man. Everyone is different and everyone needs to have their partner find their favorite erogenous zones and concentrate on stimulating them; even if it's through active foreplay, conversation, or external touch.

As for the comments by men to women, I would like to believe that what they mean is that they would "like" to feel you cum from their ability to fuck a women. Although, the macho in many, if not most, males surely makes them believe they can make any woman cum.

Either way, I prefer to pose the comment to a woman in a slightly different manner. I like to say that I'd love to make love to a woman and make love to her till she is satisfied. Many women I've been with prefer to cum orally, digitally, or in rare cases, anally or by touching other erogenous places on their bodies. If that's how they prefer to be satisfied, hey, that's perfectly OK by me. The pleasure is in the journey, it's only punctuated by one's orgasm.

You've got to be kidding. I am the best lover ever, I am a regular Don Juan DeMarco. I have turned lesbians around.

Hear!Hear! Totally agree with you. Too many of us men are too focused on themselves. The biggest sex organ is after the brain!

Very well put, my wife and I we cum together

From Matt's Wife: Great thread luv

Well said