Men are better. The feeling is different too...

I have been a bottom on only a few occasions and I liked each time however short it was. I would like to go a little longer than 5 or 10 minutes and see how much I like it then. I have been a top more times then a bottom. It seems most men want to be a bottom. I have cum without touching my dick while being bottomed and I didn't have to worry about Cumming too quick or keeping an erection.

I think it's personal and not related to gender.
Some people like it a lot, some just don't!

I want to enjoy it, but so far my feeling is: Is that it, really?

This is due to hormones,if a male will regularly take estrgen pills there asshole sensitivity and athor body parts become more sensitive,also women orgasm is 10 times stronger than male orgasm, women can enjoy inner, outer, clitorical, boobs asshole, and full body orgasms.

from what I understand after talking to women and then from my own experiences being a man, it is different. I once knew a woman that wanted anal all the time. I knew (and know) that men enjoy mostly because the prostate gets massaged as you're getting fucked though that's not the only reason. The anus and rectum have thousands of nerves and when we (men and women) are sexually excited and have are getting fucked or using a toy, it is all very pleasurable.
Anyhow, I didn't understand at one time how women could enjoy it because I thought it was only because of the prostate that anal was enjoyable. But that's not the case. For us men the prostate is a bonus when we're getting fucked. For women, it's the sensation of having the asshole filled. And most women will rub their pussys as they are getting fucked and have intense orgasms that way. For both men and women, once you're in deep there is that sensation that is exciting. For men, once you get in deep, you're no longer only against the prostate so you feel sensations in many different ways.