try a three some mmf . i has a gf first but like that i lost interest in her. but when we broke up she saw this hot older lad and when she talked about sex with him got i all turned on.. so we got back together and all i wanted to hear during sex was wat she got up 2 wit him ! literally really annoyed her and one night we almost had a threesome/ but she saw the light and left me knowing i was really gay as it was him turning me on not her ! 4 real i learned the hard way !

Get a new girlfriend or turn gay, that's an easy fix

Welcome to middle age, though at 32 you're a bit young to hang that tag on you.

Every man remembers those days of youth when his worst fear was getting an erection while nude in a semi-public place such as the locker room, changing room or showers at a pool or gym. Or out in public and having to go about with a tent pole in one's pants. When one gets to be my age (79), or even your age, one realizes that there are a lot of things in life that are worse than having an erection. One of them is not having an erection. It's one of the cruel ironies of life that we men spend the first 30 to 40 years of our lives trying to keep our dicks soft and the rest of our lives trying to get them hard.

Turning now to your ED situation. As I said above, it might be due to the normal aging process. Or it might be because of your closeted gayness coming out. Only you can answer that. If ED manifests itself when you are with your GF but not when you are with a man (or even thinking about a man), you know the answer.

Well going by your pics you seem to have no problem fking your gf,