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Started by RealTitsLover [Ignore] 06,Aug,17 14:34  other posts
So I can speculate, I have my theories, but I figure where better to ask than somewhere where I see comments like...


"I desperately want to be on the receiving end of some intense small penis humiliation and teasing for having a very adorable, petite, little dicklet. Please come see for yourself and let me know what you think! "

"A cum shot video of my tiny cock was made by a friend that was watching me wank my little cock on cam..... He said my dick was so small that it needed to be shared and exposed.......so he posted it online...It's a turn on knowing others have seen me cum."

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By #536019 16,May,21 15:06
SPH is an aspect of Dom/Sub sexual play. Since a large penis is associated with power and sexual dominance, likewise a small penis implies sexual submission. I get aroused by SPH porn and submissive fantasy, but only rarely experienced it in real life.

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By small_dik [Ignore] 09,Aug,17 02:48 other posts 
SPH is a sexual fetish like any other, and is a form of BDSM. There are many guys out there who cringe at the idea of SPH so don't ever assume every small dick man likes SPH. Some do, many don't, and the people here who say they do are not representative of all small dick men.


The allure of SPH is it makes your dick the center of attention. SPH also have elements of exhibitionism/chastity play/Femdom/feminization etc that can be included. Some men even say SPH helped them accept their small penis and grow to appreciate it.


Also, SPH from a consensual partner is one thing, but getting when it's unwanted can be very traumatic for a guy. Sure, there are some guys out there who seek totally to degrade and humiliate themselves, but again, these are the exception not the rule.


Body shaming men for their small penises can lead to depression and suicide for some men, so please think carefully about how you treat your fellow human beings.


By leopoldij [Ignore] 06,Aug,17 19:06 other posts 
Small penis humiliation could, perhaps, be a way to attract interest towards one's genitals that might otherwise remain unnoticed. If I advertise I have a small penis and like to be humiliated I might attract larger audience than if I don't. Perhaps. That's what I think.
By #493361 06,Aug,17 20:38
Thats worked for me for sure
By leopoldij [Ignore] 06,Aug,17 23:29 other posts 
Ha Ha, fancy that, I got it right, even though I'm not an expert. (I have a rather small cock though myself, but I'm not into humiliation. However, if one or more women wanted to laugh at my cook AND let me play them, fuck or masturbate or oral, etc, i wouldn't mind being humiliated. Without explicit sexual reward however, no thanks, I'll pass. )
By #493361 07,Aug,17 18:08
For me these days even just the humiliation itself would be a sexual reward
By leopoldij [Ignore] 07,Aug,17 19:03 other posts 
Cool. So you get them often? Or do you get them at all?
By #493361 07,Aug,17 21:08
I've never actually explored it live. I'm too embarassed by my size
By leopoldij [Ignore] 07,Aug,17 22:45 other posts 
But I thought that this is the whole point of penis humiliation!
By #493361 08,Aug,17 18:59
Well fantasy is one thing, real life another
By leopoldij [Ignore] 08,Aug,17 19:06 other posts 
True, but if you need to live your fantasy you can make it happen.
By #493361 08,Aug,17 19:07
Perhaps one day but unfortunately I'm a very shy, inhibited person


By admin [Ignore] 06,Aug,17 17:16 other posts 
It's just a variation of general desire to be degraded. Not the worst one. Some want to be toilet slaves or be tortured for real.

I remember one guy who owned a BDSM porn site and he was modeling himself as a bottom because he had it for real in him. He actually had to visit doctors several times after shootings. I remember once he got his ear almost detached. Otherwise he was a nice funny guy, good sense of humor. But at those shootings he had girls to stomp on his body parts including his balls and penis with hi-heels. There were often bl00d and read bruises. That's how he got his ear damaged. He was saying he's doing this to earn money from his site, but no way a person can get that real with this stuff if they do not like it. I admit that people who like this were crazy about his site. He was one of the few who understood what they need and provided real stuff. Most just do pretended fakes and customers can tell it.

It was funny how he had problems with finding models. Girls were coming for porn and some were ready to get fucked in all their holes, but when he was telling them they don't even have to get fully naked but need to torture him hard, most were getting scared. Some even tried to call police.

Back to the desire - I'm not a psychologist, but I guess it grows out of some guilt or low sense of auto-esteem. Often infused by parents at early ages. I suppose it's similar to what some monks and religious people did to themselves in past. Like auto flagellation.
By leopoldij [Ignore] 06,Aug,17 19:02 other posts 
I don't think that religious flagellation is similar to bdsm. In the first instance, the person expects a metaphysical reward whereas in the second he/she may enjoy it while being tortured. The latter ones don't expect long-term term rewards. The former ones do.
By admin [Ignore] 06,Aug,17 20:46 other posts 
I think it's more complicated than that. But I'm afraid I'm not capable to formulate it adequately in English.

Some people think they deserve to be punished and desperately want a punishment as forgiveness of their guilt of some kind. The guilt may be real or imaginary or may not even be articulated, just subconscious.

People who feel guilt and are religious are often paranoid, because they expect that god will punish them any minute. So they may chose to punish themselves and achieve temporary peace through that. I doubt they actually think god will forgive them or reward them for that. And even if they do, that is rather rationalizing of their actions than a motive for them. They may not even realize why they do that, they just notice that they feel better afterwards.

People who are not consciously religious and have some kind of guilt basically feel the same, just without rationalizing it via god. And they also want punishment for the same reason - to feel psychologically relieved. But since there is no god for them, they may substitute auto-flagellation with BDSM. I doubt that many of them actually feel physical pleasure from the abuse. Some may feel it, but most just feel relieved when they get the punishment. And that translates as pleasure, despite that real physical sensations may be very unpleasant.

And don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that all who practice BDSM are like that. BDSM is more about control and giving up control, not so much about pain and punishment as many people think.
By leopoldij [Ignore] 06,Aug,17 23:27 other posts 
No problem with the English at all. I'm fact, I found your analysis fascinating. And interesting to read. You're right. You convinced me that these behaviours are more complex than what I thought.
By leopoldij [Ignore] 06,Aug,17 19:08 other posts 
A propos BDSM, does the following constitute BDSM?

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A man who shot a woman in the vagina while enacting a “sex fantasy” has been jailed for 10 years.
The victim suffered life-changing internal injuries and has undergone extensive surgery since being shot by David Andrew Jeffers in Stockport.
By admin [Ignore] 06,Aug,17 20:51 other posts 
Also in spite of what many people think, BDSM is usually consensual. At least within the community. They have clearly predefined limits and stop words. That means people who practice BDSM would not do anything that partner does not approve. I doubt that woman asked him to shoot her into vagina. That was his fantasy and not hers. He's just a sadist and probably a psychopath.
By leopoldij [Ignore] 06,Aug,17 23:25 other posts 
That's true. The shooting was accidental. Inserting the gun was not. It was probably consensual. Why the fuck would they use a loaded gun is another matter. Perhaps they thought it's more exciting this way.
What is utterly disgusting is that, as far as I remember by glancing at the story, the guy left the woman bleeding and fled.
By admin [Ignore] 07,Aug,17 08:11 other posts 
I did not look deeper into it. If what you say has happened then he probably got 10 years not so much the the shooting but because he fled. Accidents are not punished that severely, but conscious leaving gravely injured without attempting to help can be.

If you are fascinated with connection between sex and vi0lence, you should probably try to read some of Farmer's "Tarzan" books. If I remember correctly "A Feast Unknown" is dedicated to that. Or may be the entire bunch but I'm not sure, I did not read them all.

What I'm sure of is that I have seen some psychology-related articles that mentioned subconscious connection between penis and guns. It was long ago, so I don't remember how it goes. I think Freud first mentioned something like that, but I do not consider Freud a serious specialist, despite his fame he only had few patients, so his theories lack statistical basis. Anyway, you can google "penis and gun psychological connection" and something will come up for sure.


By #493361 06,Aug,17 15:32
When you're me, humiliation is to be expected so why not make myself enjoy it.


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