| I've lost count of the number of times I've stumbled upon a group of guys on here comparing or complimenting each other on their dick size. You know what I mean 'oh wow, nice size xxxx' or 'you look 7"' etc.
As a woman my experience is much different. I've experienced enough cocks to know that size is really unimportant. I never measure a guy (honestly, has any woman ever done that prior to fucking?) you soon find out if he slips out that he's smaller and if it's uncomfortable that he's bigger and you change positions to accommodate. What you can't make provision for is a crap lover. I've found a few and each time they were larger than average. I concluded that there are a number of guys out there that genuinely believe having a larger dick will get a woman wet and that technique, passion and an active tongue / digit really have no merit. So I like most of my friends will happily favour average sized guys as they consistently bring all the benefits with fewer negatives.
So that's my view and here's the question(s). How many of you guys have actually experienced a 'big' cock? Did you like it? Is this the basis of your bigger is better philosophy? If you haven't had that experience then why do you think bigger is better? Why do guys believe that black guys have huge cocks (they fair no better than white guys in my experience). Do we blame it on porn again? Is it just engrained culturally? What do YOU think? |
The commercials mad adds make me feel inadequate and I'm just over six.
My theory is please the fuck out of your woman before you stick it in!
My goal has always been give here at least 3 orgasms with your tongue,teeth and fingers or a combination of the above, and when your finally inside her, let her tell you what she likes.
edit: wtf? I "replied" to my own comment below and it edited it?? fucked up... anyway, READ IT
Porn industry uses big-dick guys because it's much easier to shot this way. For the same reason they are almost always shaved or at least trimmed. Also, a dick usually looks bigger when it's shot close than when you are looking at your own. Porn, no doubts, makes people think everyone has a big dick.
And from some talks with women - yes, guys with big dicks often think being big is enough and not trying much in bed.
i did read once that porn actors are actually all very short to make everything appear larger. it seems logical that less hair also helps.
the last part has proven true on more than one occasion for me
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In big dick niche, however, actors may be short intentionally. Also, I've seen a lot of photos (usually with black actors) where dicks are obviously artificial, sometimes you can even spot a real small dick hanging.
If I may be excused for directing to another site, I've been collecting pornstar measurement/comparison pics/movies for years over at LPSG:
http //www.lpsg com/118629-measured-porn-stars.html
The most remarkable thing I've learned is that the vast majority of the "big dick" guys are in the 7-8" range approx., including most of the ones I mentioned above. Lex is measured (from the side) at 9.5" and is the biggest one I've found; he's often considered 2nd only to 'dingo in terms of length.
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*bumping for shameless--er, for science!!*
Size alone doesn't do it and any idiot with a big dick over the age of 17 will know that. I found that out VERY fast!
Skills can come natural or can be learned. Either way, you have them or you don't. If you don't then don't be surprised when pain never turns into any pleasure if you have a big dick.
Chemistry isn't something that can be learned. Some people fuck really well together. Many don't. You have to find the right matches for you. That means following your instincts and trusting what really attracts you sexually.
My 10 cents right there
chemistry? for love yes, i would agree but i don't think it necessary for sex. i think all you need is a willingness to pleasure another and the ability to communicate (although this communication encompasses many aspects, openness, sexual experience, etc.)
I've trained plenty of girls. Some of them just knew what they were doing no matter their lack of experience. But with another man who they didn't have sexual chemistry with they wouldn't have done the same or be nearly as pleasing.
And yes, size still matters. It can matter for better or for worse if the guy doesn't know what the fuck he's doing. Having a big dick should make you a lot BETTER at oral, not worse. When for many it's the other way around. Then they're wondering why the girl is sore afterwards and why some girls say "I don't like it big". Yeah right.
see what on earth would you do with this? (try not to look too hard or you'll see the join )
But it doesnt affect sex if the cock is atleast 15cm big. (15 cm my guess). Anything REAL big, you could say humongus, seem to effect only elderly women whose cunts are too wide to feel an usual cock.
So long story short - it doesnt matter if youre not smaller than average.
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