Ok bella, I see your point. In my mindset when I answered I was thinking from a different perspective than hornybrat, in that if done correctly sex does not hurt. I didn't see where noname12 implied that that was all he was concerned about. It's an honest question. Regardless of your orientation, sex should not hurt. Disease, drain on health system and all that other stuff about ruining lives, families, finances, etc seems a bit much to lay on someone who asks if "it hurts the first time". And for the record, I'm not talking shit about horybrat. You, bella, know I don't talk shit about anyone on here. I respect everyone.

yes but....

" If all noname12 is concerned about is whether it hurts, then it would be safe to say that noname12 is not ready for the first time and hornybrat has given him more factual information to consider. "

is driving a car scary ?.... well sure you can get badly injured, and that consequences put a drain on the health system plus it can ruin lives, families and finances.... sound silly right? well so did that answer.
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yes we all know that ANY sexual activity whether it's heterosexual or homosexual runs the chance of getting a disease. he just wanted to know if it hurts the first time...

bella!, I checked out that website, and I have to say that I found it pretty offensive.

Before you just write me off, let me explain myself. I understand many people aren't interested in anal sex. I also understand that there are many ways for two men to experience a sexual encounter without any butt play involved. The site just has a incredibly militant and derogatory to tone to anyone that might actually enjoy it. Most of the prose discussed that it's actually really normal for a man to be attracted to another man (which statistically speaking is true). It also talks about how sexual identity is complex and, for most people, spans a wide array of different kinds of people (something I also believe to be is true). The part I just found hateful was the tone they wrote about "the gays" have ruined male-to-male intimacy and how being effeminate is somehow a crime.

Honestly, I probably be more attracted to the kind of guy that would stumble into this site than most guys at gay bars. I am attracted to masculine men. It's just misogynistic to lump all anyone interested in the actions of penetration together as a bunch of weak, sissy, half-men.

An example from the site: "Most guys have a few buddies that they'd enjoy a long bout of nude physical contact with. However -these same guys would never consider buttfukk'n a bro. That offensive concept doesn't even enter their mind. So, while outwarly they're "anti-gay", --they're actually "anti-emasculation". They'd NEVER BITCH-A-BRO. And they don't want any ASSociation with any group of "guyths" who would. Get it? "

If a fake lisp isn't disrespectful and at least a little hateful, I don't know what is.