Does having a PA make you gay? And if so, does it make you a top? Going to a gay nude resort and need to know what to expect. Should I wear my PA and what am I saying to the guys.
Isn't it great the things we members learn from each other here on the Forum?
As you have so correctly stated, a PA is a Prince Albert piercing and as I stated above, it was named for Queen Victoria's Prince Consort, Prince Albert, who had one.
A little back story here. It seems Prince Albert was rather well endowed and when he walked his royal member was very visible flopping about inside his pants. This bothered Queen Victoria (maybe she thought it was hers and hers alone and she didn't want commoners eyeing the royal goods). So Prince Albert got what was then called a "dressing ring". Apparently quite a few Victorian era men had them (weren't they kinky in the nineteenth century?). A ribbon was passed thru the ring and then around one leg to tie down the equipment and hold it in place.
Doesn't this seem like a rather extreme solution? I mean did Prince Albert always go commando? Couldn't the flopping about have been controlled with snug fitting underpants? And think about when he had to pee. Instead of just opening his fly and whipping it out, he'd have to drop his pants and un-tie the ribbon, then tie it up again when he was finished. An awfully cumbersome procedure. Probably he had servants to help him with this, perhaps even hold his wienie for him while he peed. They were kinky in those days.
And another historical note, you've probably heard the term "The Gay Nineties". Well, before it meant homosexual, the slang meaning of word "gay" meant sexually promiscuous. Today we think of the Victorians is being so prim and proper, but apparently back in the late nineteenth century they did a lot of screwing around. And the men did kinky things like piercing their cocks, putting a ring in the piercing and then tieing their cock to one leg. Perhaps Prince Albert did indeed go commando and have manservants to hold his dick when he peed.
Since posting my last comment this afternoon I went on the internet and looked up the history of condoms. Low and behold the first rubber condoms were produced in 1855, so by the 1880s and 1890s they were readily available and inexpensive. Those Victorian folks could indeed do a lot of screwing around and still be able to prevent unwanted pregnancy. And apparently they did, so we have "The Gay Nineties".
Thank you very much "spermkiss". Very interesting and informative. I also think they where very kinky and perverse in that era (kept very ****). The erotic novel "Fanny Hill", 1748, kind of remind me how things were back then.
You're welcome and what you say is true. We twenty-first century folks did not invent and do not have a monopoly on kink. Obviously it's more visible now, what with the internet and other electronic media, but it's always been around.
"Moll Flanders" was written by Daniel Defoe of "Robinson Caruso" fame. I remember reading "Robinson Caruso" as a c-h-i-l-d (gotta watch out for the censors) but I expect the edition I read was an abridged and simplified edition intended for the c-h-i-l-d reader. "Moll Flanders" is a completely different kind of book. Very ribald and bawdy.
I must confess that I haven't read it but I'm familiar with it because "Masterpiece Theater" did a splendid television dramatization on PBS about 16 or 18 years ago. If you can find that, perhaps on DVD, it's definately worth viewing.
Found these on the pirate bay:
The Amorous Adventures Of Moll Flanders (1965) Kim Novak
The Fortunes and Misfortunes of Moll Flanders (1996)
Plot
An acclaimed mini-series adaptation of Daniel Defoe's
classic tale of Moll Flanders, one of the most
experienced heroines in literary history. From her
birth in Newgate prison, through her five marriages
and her years as a prostitute, Moll's fiery spirit
could never be dimmed. From the Mobil Masterpiece
Theatre series. Contains nudity and adult situations.
The Mobil Masterpiece Theatre production is the one I saw on television. Go for it. It's great.
There is a great scene in that production in which she has just accepted a marriage proposal from one of her husbands (fourth or fifth, I don't remember which). He told her that he and his family were Catholic and that if they were to marry she'd have to convert. She readily agreed. They went to see a priest and she was told that before she could be accepted into the Church she would first have to confess all of her sins. Needless to say she had a lot.
At first she was reluctant, but after she had been assured that the secrecy of confession was absolute, she got started. Then she got on a roll and told the priest everything. The weight of all her sins was lifted from her and placed on that priest's shoulders. The drama then cuts to her wedding with the same priest presiding at her marriage.
Having a P/A is not gay at all! Has NOTHING to do with sexual preferance or orientation at all! Yes!! Why wouldnt you wear it ? Only thing your telling them is I have a P/A!
Well, this really clarifies things. So you're bi and totally cool with man-on-man sex and have even done it. That's good.
Go to the resort wearing your PA and have fun. Take off your clothes, show off your body, show off your dick and show off your PA. The social interaction you'll have with the other men there will say more about you than the PA. Cheers.
You're welcome and do HAVE FUN socializing nude with all those gay men. And if you score some sex, we want a FULL REPORT. All the ins and outs and a blow by blow account.
no having a pa does not make you gay being gay makes you gay, a married friend of mine with two minors has a pa and he is definitly not gay.what do you think is going to happen to you at a gay resort just because you wear your pa and if you are that worried about some thing happening then why are you going in the first place,are you affraid others might think you are gay?if you go to a gay nude resort,you cant have a gay nude resort but you can a have a resort for gay people who like to go nude, then i would guess that most of the people there would be gay and they would assume you would be gay too.as for what to expect at a "gay nude resort" what do you thinks going to happen?orgies of homosexuality?
I gotta agree with you here. This guy is going to a gay nude resort and he's concerned that other guys there might think he's gay because of his Prince Albert. How bizarre is that? Of course other guys there are going to think he's gay, with or without the PA, JUST BECAUSE HE'S THERE.
1. No a PA does not make you gay. A lot of straight men have them. Indeed, it was named for Prince Albert, Queen Victoria's Prince Consort. He had one.
2. No, it does not make you a top or a bottom.
So why ARE you going there if you're concerned that other men there might think you're gay?
Having a Prince Albert piercing doe not indicate or influence your sexuality. It is true that the PA gained popularity initially in the gay/bi community, but the general consensus for this is because the gay/bi community were more willing to experiment and try something different. But when the straight community found out how the PA can make sex feel better then a lot of straight men started to get them too.
As you have so correctly stated, a PA is a Prince Albert piercing and as I stated above, it was named for Queen Victoria's Prince Consort, Prince Albert, who had one.
A little back story here. It seems Prince Albert was rather well endowed and when he walked his royal member was very visible flopping about inside his pants. This bothered Queen Victoria (maybe she thought it was hers and hers alone and she didn't want commoners eyeing the royal goods). So Prince Albert got what was then called a "dressing ring". Apparently quite a few Victorian era men had them (weren't they kinky in the nineteenth century?). A ribbon was passed thru the ring and then around one leg to tie down the equipment and hold it in place.
Doesn't this seem like a rather extreme solution? I mean did Prince Albert always go commando? Couldn't the flopping about have been controlled with snug fitting underpants? And think about when he had to pee. Instead of just opening his fly and whipping it out, he'd have to drop his pants and un-tie the ribbon, then tie it up again when he was finished. An awfully cumbersome procedure. Probably he had servants to help him with this, perhaps even hold his wienie for him while he peed. They were kinky in those days.
I must confess that I haven't read it but I'm familiar with it because "Masterpiece Theater" did a splendid television dramatization on PBS about 16 or 18 years ago. If you can find that, perhaps on DVD, it's definately worth viewing.
The Amorous Adventures Of Moll Flanders (1965) Kim Novak
The Fortunes and Misfortunes of Moll Flanders (1996)
Plot
An acclaimed mini-series adaptation of Daniel Defoe's
classic tale of Moll Flanders, one of the most
experienced heroines in literary history. From her
birth in Newgate prison, through her five marriages
and her years as a prostitute, Moll's fiery spirit
could never be dimmed. From the Mobil Masterpiece
Theatre series. Contains nudity and adult situations.
There is a great scene in that production in which she has just accepted a marriage proposal from one of her husbands (fourth or fifth, I don't remember which). He told her that he and his family were Catholic and that if they were to marry she'd have to convert. She readily agreed. They went to see a priest and she was told that before she could be accepted into the Church she would first have to confess all of her sins. Needless to say she had a lot.
At first she was reluctant, but after she had been assured that the secrecy of confession was absolute, she got started. Then she got on a roll and told the priest everything. The weight of all her sins was lifted from her and placed on that priest's shoulders. The drama then cuts to her wedding with the same priest presiding at her marriage.
Im bi and have had my share of male experiances. Going to a gay nude resort is new to me and I just wanted to know what to expect.
Thanks everyone for the great comments.
Go to the resort wearing your PA and have fun. Take off your clothes, show off your body, show off your dick and show off your PA. The social interaction you'll have with the other men there will say more about you than the PA. Cheers.
1.Generally is having a PA make you gay
2. And if you have a PA it it top or bottom.
I get that I'm going to a gay resort...
1. No a PA does not make you gay. A lot of straight men have them. Indeed, it was named for Prince Albert, Queen Victoria's Prince Consort. He had one.
2. No, it does not make you a top or a bottom.
So why ARE you going there if you're concerned that other men there might think you're gay?
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