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 | Which straight guys would jerk off with another guy? nothing else... |
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Virtually all men during adolescence have jacked off with their buds. With many men this continues into adulthood. Some kick it up a notch and suck each other off.
Does this mean that they are not really straight? No, of course not. It's the gender of the person or people with whom a man forms his romantic and living attachments that determines his sexual orientation, not the gender of his sex partners.
If I were into that I would at least classify myself as bisexual.
But believe me there are a LOT of men who self-identify as straight, who call themselves straight and who live as straight, but who have some interest in man-on-man sex.
I feel more 'normal' having read so many of your posts!! I have a gay cousin, and a 'Redneck' type family, and I was concerned, for a while, occasionally liking looking at the penis pictures, on this site, comparing, and maybe feeling some things...
I have always hated 'labels' and why a person has to be this, or that, and you really just kind of laid it out, and said that sometimes these 'sins' were perfectly fine, and I am OK, just as I am, maybe liking jerking off with another guy, or even to the image, or another guy as part of being human...
I personally am gay. Not because I am unattracted to women or couldn't be with a woman, I just am more attracted to men. At the end of the day I want to come home to my boyfriend. Doesn't mean I wouldn't pass up the chance to have sex with a beautiful woman. And that doesn't make me any less gay. Its all a matter of greater preference. I am a firm believer in that. Social stigmas need to just go away.
And I don't jerk off to the pics around here or don't care about jerking off with another guy. If something should happen, it must be "all the way". It's about making contact with another person.
I just hope I'm not alone on this. Well, now I know I'm not! Thanx!
This works the other way too. I'm as gay as they come, but I've had sex with women. Most gay men have. Why? because we have so much opportinity. Being gay is a Major Babe Magnet. If you want to get laid more, act gay.
The one thing he's right about, however, is that it's easier to bed a man than a woman. With most women a guy has to wine them and dine them and say all the right things and do a lot of coaxing to get them in the sack. But just say the word "sex" to a man and he'll start opening his pants. Men are sluts, not that this is bad, mind you.
Finally, as a gay man of mature years (I'm sixty-nine), I cannot begin to count the number of women who have come on to me, sometimes even thrown themselves at me. And it still happens, even though I'm now an old fart. Talking with gay friends I've found that my experience is far from unusual.
As for women coming on to gay men, I think there are a lot of women out there who still see gay men as a challenge to them. This is one reason I'm very wary of so-called "fag hags" because I've encountered several who not-so-secretly have tried to "convert" the gay men they hang around. One even brazenly hit on my boyfriend right in front of me years ago, and I found out from a mutual gay friend that this kind of thing was common for her.
Women never hit on me, but if one ever did, I'd probably laugh my ass off and say, "Honey, you have GOT to be kidding!"
And with women: for some it might be a challenge to get a gay guy into bed but I donīt think they want to convert. They think weīd be closer and more sensitive to what they need. And somehow itīs true because we like the same, but itīs only - we canīt give it. Only bisexual men can do.
My best girl friend once said to me: if you ever like to try, just tell me. I didnīt and what happened was that she has married my best old school friend. We all are still friends and Iīm happy for them.
Same happened with a straight friend of mine at a birthday party. Both sligthly drunk and he started to kiss me. I would never dared though I liked him a lot. It just happened. I still think that kissing is much more intimate than sucking a cock and thatīs what I never did with that friend. So just to explain: I didnīt do both because in the end I canīt change my sexual orientation - but what was left anyway was a feeling of: all labeling is so stupid and we could learn so much more if we only were able to let things happen without that. I was not and sometimes regret it.
I agree with you that kissing can be even more intimate than any sex act. Maybe this is why I love kissing my husband so much.
As for women trying to convert gay men, most aren't like that, but I've encountered a few who definitely were. The friend I described earlier aggressively hit on almost every gay man she knew. She was much more homophobic than she led others to believe. I saw through her pretty quickly and am really glad I decided to distance myself from her.
First about women who like to have sex with gay men, a female friend of mine who liked to bed gay men (myself included) once said that gay men were better in the sack. She went on to say "You might not get it as often with a gay man as you do with a straight man, but when you do, it's better."
About having sex with straight friends, I've had several straight friends over the years, and with most (but not all) of them we eventually had sex. In no case did it ruin our friendship. Indeed, it generally brought us closer together.
Finally, about same sex kissing. There is something about two men kissing that drives most straight people, especially straight men, absolutely bananas. I find this hard to understand, because the mouth is a gender neutral part of the body. Men's mouths have beard growth around them, but other than that, one mouth is pretty much like any other mouth. It would seem that any two people of either sex and any orientation can kiss. We gay men kiss each other all the time and think nothing of it. But very few straight men will kiss another man. A straight man may be very happy to suck another man's cock and lick his ass hole, but he won't kiss him. Go figure. I guess kissing is indeed the most intimate act between two people.
I like to see nice specimens here and can admire them when I do but I have never "jerked off" to any....or ever had the urge, come to that!
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