From Matt's Wife: I would suggest that you not look for help on the net from strangers but rather find some good professional help

All I can do is join the previous reactions. We could tell you anything but I think it's most important in this situation that you adres to professional help. I'm glad you have decided to do so.

All we can do here is give you all the support needed.

And like 'Routemaster' stated, a relationship is more then just sex. I think your new relationship has a good base to build on.

Maybe it's soft-hearted but I think a good relationship with mutual love is more satisfying then a relationship that depends on the amount of sex. Just enjoy the presence of your new partner and every time you can spent together, even if not face-to-face.

You've been given good advice about getting professional help. It's pretty easy to find for little or no cost here in the USA and I expect that is also the case in a modern developed nation like Australia. Look in your telephone directory or on the internet. Or if you have the means, you could see someone privately. But get help, you'll be glad you did.

I agree with matt's wife. Also everyone is defferent. U have to accept urself and that u r unique. And when u find the right person it will all work out. If u wanna talk just PM me I will more than glad to help u through any of ur problems.