If a person has a relationship that is working, I can't see much need for a person to escape here in the first place.
I came here during the time I was dating what turned out to be a nut case because she kept me stressed out and this was a good thing to take my mind off my troubles.
Now it is about the only relief I get,rather I take matters into my own hands so to speak or just to sit back and stare.

Well it's complex. I had a friend that I had a casual relationship with mostly friends and infrequent sex over the years mostly to fill a lonely night. I was at her house to fix a plumbing problem and cleaned her plumbing as well. I was checking in to SYD and she came in and starting sucking me and was annoyed when she made me reveal my secret life. She hasn't called me since. Oh well
it was going downhill for years and the last few times were desperately forced.
So was it SYD or just the end who knows, but the last time I ran into her she totally ignored me Humm... Bitch!

From Matt's Wife: Hmmmmm, he left. I can't imagine anyone having that bad of a relationship that they have to come on here and hide it. That is not healthy and if the female is that frigid then shame on her for not taking care of her husband.

From Matt's Wife: I'm with luv on this one

It has made ours better, and by posting some very generic photos here for a period of time (at the persuasion of my guy) it helped me overcome the idea I had of myself as not being desirable at all. I went from reluctance to looking forward to our 'photo' time, and at times get very turned on by many of the compliments and attention my photos bring. This has made my guy and I even closer. After 23 years of marriage to Satan's Spawn....this has been a great recovery for me. I found myself.