My ex wife(also my Mistress)used to love humiliating me,especially over the size of my cock,and I use to love the humiliation:

My ex wife(also my Mistress)used to cam our B.D.S.M sessions on an adult dating site.We met and became friends with a local guy(a Master) on there and would cam and chat with him.One evening She invited him to our house and when He arrived I was ordered by my Mistress to strip.Although He had seen me naked on cam I found it humiliating to be stood there naked (except for my cock cage and collar)in person.I was tied face down by my wrists and ankles bent over a table.The Master then had sex with my Mistress with Her humiliating me by saying things like 'He's much bigger than you'and 'He can last a lot longer than you' etc.When they had both had their orgasms my Mistress came over to me and shoved her dripping pussy in my face and ordered me to lick it clean.Once done She put her strap-on on and started to fuck me in the arse(She had used this before as well as dildos and butt plugs).The Master shoved His cock in my mouth and told me to clean it and get it hard again.Once I had got it hard He told my Mistress that He wanted to fuck my arse,so they swapped places and He gave my arse a good fucking.After He had cum in my arse I was released,cock cage removed and told to masturbate over the table whilst They watched.So I stood there cum dripping out of my arse masturbating(both laughing and making humiliating remarks at me) and when I had shot my load over the table,They ordered me to lick it all up.

[deleted image]go ahead tease me I like it

I get turned on by dom/sub role-play, with me being the submissive one. Being called a faggot cocksucker while I have a stiff penis fucking my mouth is a definite turn-on.
I get off on being bare-ass spanked by a dominant man or woman too. I guess that qualifies as "mean".

No, sorry.
Each to his own, but I'm not into the whole 'humiliation for pleasure' thing.