Growing up nobody says what sex is, so we all put a twist on it. If we define what having sex is then we change the way people think.


If we say sex is helping another person feel good or helping them reach an orgasm. Wouldn't that change the way we have sex with people. If that's sex then a guy just getting himself off by cumming in a pussy is not sex. A wife who has no sex drive could still have sex with her husband if we define sex as helping the other person feel good or having an orgasm. Because she can do all kinds of thing to him to help him get off, even if she has little sex interest


We can all masturbate anytime we want, but having sex or having someone touch our bodies in a way that help us have an orgasm is way more fun. Having someone that wants to make our body and mind feel good is someone special.