| Bit of a serious issue. Ever since highschool, I've wanted to visit a nudist club/resort/beach, and be a part of the nudist life style. However, my family is very judgmental, and let the common missconceptions about nudisim fuel their opinions. Though he may not remember this, the last time I spoke with my fa*ther about it, he threatened to kick me out of the house and/or disown me if I pursude it. And I curtainly don't want that.
I haven't given up though. Its been about ten years since then. and I'm planning a little vacation to Spokane WA next year. But what they don't know is about the nudist resort I found near the city.
I hat*e the idea of keeping it a secre*t from them, but I feel its the only way. And out of respect for them, I like to keep them informed of my whereabouts during trips like this. I don't know what to do.
(And please don't say anything like "Move out of your parent's house" or "you're 28 years old its your life" Becouse first of all, its not that simple, and second, that doesn't help me. at all) |
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My first time going I spent the day. Then I went back later and spent the entire weekend, they would let you s l e e p their. The showers were kinda open. The idea of people might see me washing my body felt weid at first. Because at home it's basically a private thing but it just seemed normal and no big deal since everyone was already nude.
The funny part was leaving the nudist place after spending the weekend. I actually felt weird to put clothes back on. Plus all the clean clothes I still had from not wearing anything the entire weekend. I was like I don't have to any laundry. I don't know if my experience was different then other people because stuff like taking a shower to me was always seem private. That's just how it was in my family growing up. We never walk around in say just a towel from shower to bedroom.
We have found the people there very friendly and accepting. It is simply no big deal, after you've gotten used to it. We like the freedom it gives. Go try it and relax.
And no, do not tell your family. Not required, and in fact would be kind of stupid to do. Good luck!!
I would just keep it to yourself for now. Maybe after you go a couple times and actually experience it. It almost something you have experience to understand. Because we have been told it's wrong or shameful.
When I went to nudist place and everyone wants you to take clothes off, it so revealing about ourselves because we are letting people see things we never show about ourselves. The reason we never show our bodies is because we have been told they are shameful or even obscene. That's the freedom of being socially nude, you lose all that shame you have been told. I was so amazed how once I was around people that did not judge me how nice everyone is. They are more nice then my family. I would say now looking back I can see why I was so shy. It was not me, it was my family and society.
Just to give you an example I remember in highschool how we all dressed to impress or look cool. We were using clothes to make ourselves look better.
And think of the consequences if you do not go. This desire for social nudity isn't going to go away. If it is not satisfied it will just grow inside you and it could drive you to do risky things. Things far worse than going to a nude resort.
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