I've put this discussion off for too long but I'm finally at a place where I need answers. Several years ago I was in a really bad accident on my Harley; ground off half my foot, broke 20 bones, and had to pick my arm bone off the street after it came totally out during the accident.

My problem is, I'm now, and will always be, on really heavy pain killers which have rendered my ability to get an erection and hold it almost non existent. And, I'm the exception in that little blue pills don't work for me - maybe because of the other meds. My wife and I are still able to have sex but not from intercourse and I worry that she's not very satisfied.

So, this brings me to the question... I'm considering a penile implant and have done a fair amount of studying to see if it's a viable option. However, I'd like to hear from anyone who either has one, or has had sex with someone with an implant and hear your comments on their effectiveness and the pleasure it gives both the one with the implant and their sexual partners.

Here's hoping someone has some experience in this area. And please, no jokes; this is a serious medical problem and not one where we're looking for sexual partners to fill the gap, no pun intended. Only those with serious experience with implant surgery and it's effectiveness are encouraged to reply.