| According to wiki:
Exhibitionism is the act of exposing in a public or semi-public context those parts of one's body that are not normally exposed – specifically the genitals or buttocks of a man or woman, or the breasts of a woman. The practice may arise from a desire or compulsion to expose themselves in such a manner to groups of friends or acquaintances, or to strangers for their amusement or sexual satisfaction or to shock the bystander.
To my understanding, desire to show our naked bodies to the world in a safe setting, is the main reason why we all participate in this site. I'm a nudist and I don't like to wear clothes, if I can get away with not wearing it... When I lived in Hawaii, I had a secluded beach just couple miles away from my house and I would visit that sacred spot quite often. I wasn't doing it, to get attention from random spectators or fellow nudists, I just liked being naked under the sun, plus swimming naked is simply divine... I would pick spot where I couldn't see anyone, and would enjoy my solitude with the nature.
I attended several other nude beaches in Europe, where there was a ton of people around me and nobody cared that I was naked. Nobody tried to hit on me, or even start a conversation with any kind of sexual implications. We would talk about the weather, politics, economy, travel, etc, but again, nothing sexual.
On this site, it feels like about 95 percent of people think that your sole purpose of being here is to find sexual partners for virtual or cam sex. And if I respond in a manner that doesn't support that statement, I get an icky comment, something along the lines "if you reply like this, you shouldn't be on this site.". Once in a while, virtual sex can be fun, but when you are married and have your horny husband readily available, like Little Caesars pizza, to do whatever you please, virtual sex looses it's excitement...more than that, it becomes simply lame and annoying, well, to me, personally.
I don't understand why 95 percent of people that contact me, assume that all I want is to spread my legs for them to stick something in there, and the nastier it sounds, the better. Especially, while omitting any kind of social interaction beforehand. Why in real nudist communities you wouldn't expect to get fucked, just because you are naked, when online, it seems to be the only acceptable norm by majority of users, that I come in contact with?
I understand, that in real life, most people simply won't have the guts to say that to my face, especially in front of my naked husband laying besides me, and here, everyone is brave and super horny. So people, just try to be all they can't be in real life.
My question to you, fellow forum folk, do you think exhibitionism and desire to be fucked 24/7 by random dicks all over the world, should go hand in hand, or should one be reminded the difference between nymphos and exhibitionists?
Question #2: Are you always ready to virtually fuck someone, just cause your pics got them hard or wet, or do you exercise the same civilities that you would in real life?
Question #3: If I don't want to engage in virtual sex, should I even be on this site?
Question #4: What are your motives and intentions to visit this site almost everyday? What do you get out of it?
Question #5: What's the point of the profile, if most people don't even look at it before contacting you? |
Women are much more selective than men, because if we do get pregnant by one of your swimmers, we'd be stuck with you for the rest of our life bonded by parenthood, that's if you choose to stick around. Men don't have to deal with consequences of whoring around if they simply choose not to leave any contact information after having sex.
Subconsciously, women see a potential father of their **** in every sexual encounter... and if before, just being strong, able to run fast and hunt the prey was sufficient. Nowadays, in the world where everything can be purchased, rather than acquired, we look for other qualities that will help to build a good family, a strong household as well as physical traits that we want to continue in our offsprings.
There are plenty of paid web cams, where hot women would take their panties off for anyone, who is willing to pay some gold for their show... they'll tell you, what you want to hear too... maybe you are simply on the wrong site, dear.
Personally, I think you are just seeing what you want to see.
What she is kind of saying is:
If a woman shows you her hooha, points to it and says "Please stab my baby-hole with your throbby man-junk", she probably wants you to fuck her.
Any other time you see a vagina, it is better to ask permission first.
Always keep in mind that "no" means NO, and begging very rarely helps...
Let's try it this way:
Contrary to what most men think regarding women, most females have brains, and they tend to lead with their minds rather than their cooters.
It is always safest to assume that a woman places more importance on her mind than she does on her hooha.
That being the case, opening with "I want to stuff my jizz pipe into your juice box" (or any variation of that) is probably not the best way to win a lady over.
Most wOmEn do not mind comments on their pics, even if they are quite explicit. Most people on the other hand, mind explicit private MAILS (or conversations) if you are not yet familiar with that specific person. Please don't twist my words to your benefit, I ha_te it when I have to correct other people's mess.
1. I have a penis
2. My penis is my favorite thing in the world and I focus much of my attention on it
3. Rubbing my penis or sticking it into things feels good
4. I want to do item 3 as much as possible and I think about it ALL THE TIME!
5. Women have places to stick my penis in
6. If I see a vagina, I will want to put my penis in it
7. Any woman who shows me her vagina WANTS me to put my penis in it. This is the ONLY reason a woman would show me her vagina.
8. If a woman WON'T let me put my penis into her vagina, there is something seriously wrong with her.
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Justwill u kinda remind me of that dude sheldon on big bang theory.... don't mean that in a bad way!
If I suck at something important to me, I'd take all steps to improve and reach excellence in it... can you tell English is my third language out of nine?
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Better?
I bet you had good time in high school picking at nerds, don't ya?
You see, I was an ugly duckling growing up, and I chose a logical path of a nerd, when I got out of school it appeared I was sexy enough to be a dumb blonde, but it was too late
Otherwise it's just a dry fuck, might as well slap a dildo to the door and have my way with it.
I think the line gets a bit blurred on a site like this because while it's for showing ourselves off, it's about so much more as well. Some come here solely to show themselves, some to seek sexual relationships, virtual or otherwise, some to discuss sexual topics and interests, etc. I have, in my status line, "a little bit of everything" or however that's worded.
Sometimes, I engage in virtual sex, but mostly, I prefer to simply interact with friends. I've made some true friends here, and we discuss various topics, and care about each other (family and health concerns, for instance). I don't come from a nudist background, but I like the idea that the big taboo, showing ourselves nude to strangers, is just like background noise, in a way. Like, "Okay, I've seen your beautiful naked self; now lets talk about life!" I think I would fit in well in a nudist community because I don't think being nude and being sexual have to go together, as you have expressed.
I come here for different reasons, in the end. I enjoy showing myself, talking to friends, interacting in the forum, sometimes virtual sex, sharing sexy comments in PMs and, well, comments! It's all good.
I prefer, when someone first contacts me, that they be respectful. I welcome sexual comments, but I'd rather they not be of the, "Hey bby wanna cram my big cock down your throat and cum so hard in your pussy that it comes out your ass!" variety! lol
I DO wish people would pay more attention to people's reasons for being here in the status line. It's only a couple of lines, folks! I try to follow a person's lead that way.
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