Sir, I agree with you that many of the actors doing gay porn are straight in their private lives, but I kind of doubt that the vast majority are. Of course we cannot know what the true percentage is because it would be really difficult to get good numbers here. Many are truely gay and are putting their heart and soul into the sex they are having with their scene partners. The sex is real. Others are straight and are just acting. But they can be really good actors and put on a really good show. Reese Rideout (real name Nick Dent) comes to mind. I just saw an interview with him and his wife. She goes to work in an office and he goes to work at a porn studio.

As to the appeal for women, as I said in my comment on January 7, most women find man-on-man sex to be a major turn-on. You've probably noticed that yourself. Since you're a gay man, haven't you noticed the number of women who are attracted to you? I certainly have. Being gay is a Major Babe Magnet.