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Started by #252079 [Ignore] 20,Aug,12 13:52
Some of you may remember a while back when I was asking about a friend of mine that acted curious but I wasn't for sure. Well he finally come out and said he didn't care if I wanted to give him a bj. We got drunk together a few weeks ago and I made it obvious that I was purposefully touching his dick. Next day I asked if he remembered me doing any weird and he said no. He then tried to get me to tell him what i was doing and I told him I didn't want to say cuz did not want to lose him as a best friend. He left it alone then. Well this weekend we got drunk again and he told me he knew what I did and he wasn't weirded out about it and he didn't care if I gave him a bj. Well my question is should I go ahead and pursue it? I'm afraid things may get weird afterwards and we stop being friends. Or we may be closer friends. What are y'all experiences with this kind of situation. Btw we are both straight with gf. By no means will anyone know but us. Thanks for any input on this situation
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By #181566 10,Sep,12 18:00
I'm going through nearly the exact same thing. I have a friend I've had since we were 13. We're 50 now. He has said he wanted to try being curious (I'm bi, and he knows it), but he doesn't talk about wanting to experiment with me. He wants to dabble in the life. I'm not about going to bars and the life and stuff, more like a spider with a bi web. lol... but years ago he said to me that he wished I was a girl so he could F the Sh*t out of me. He has also told me "if you were a girl I would fall in love with you." He has never made a move, but he has, when he was drunk, asked to see my cock. He has also said to me years ago "can I cum on you?", but said he was kidding - he was drunk then too. When he's sober, he's all about women, never talks about experimenting. Won't even mention it slightly. Acts completely straight. Oh yeah, he's also received head from a guy before, when we were about 18. He asked me once if I wanted to watch him get sucked, but dropped the subject after that. Should I try? I get a feeling it will ruin our lifelong friendship. He's confused. I'm not. And p.s. - gay guys: just because YOU aren't bisexual and don't know what that feels like, does not mean there's no such thing as bisexuality. If I were gay, I would identify as such, but I'm not, I like both. Not in denial like many of you think. Not afraid of being gay as many of you think. If you want people to be open-minded with your lifestyle, try being open-minded with people like me.


By #287980 09,Sep,12 11:17
Just go for it!
By #252079 09,Sep,12 21:46
Oh I'm planning in making the move next time we are back roading by ourselves.
By spermkiss [Ignore] 10,Sep,12 11:46 other posts 
We're egarly awaiting your report. We want a "blow-by-blow" account.
By #252079 10,Sep,12 12:06
Lol. Ok I'll let you know as soon as I swallow.
By spermkiss [Ignore] 10,Sep,12 13:26 other posts 
You're my kinda man: a straight man who sucks cock and SWALLOWS. Hey, if you're gonna give a blow job, do it right. Take him to climax and swallow his load.


By #299180 10,Sep,12 13:25
I suggest that perhaps you both start out by watching a porn together; or at least bring up the idea of jacking off with him. Then if gets to that first step, while y'all are jacking, obviously if he'd let you grab his dick while it's in his jeans, he'd let you grab it when it's out and hard. Grab his dick and jack it off, and then take it to the next step and try to suck it. More than likely, at least from my experiences, it works quite well.


By #298733 08,Sep,12 21:45
I think you need to stop worrying so much about how he's feeling and deal with you. You are bi or at least bi-curious. Go for it. Maybe with him, maybe some other hot guy you meet.
By #252079 09,Sep,12 21:44
Well by definition I'm straight. My preference is women but I've dabbled with the "darkside". Lol. Convincing him everything will be ok and that he's not gay if he lets me is where the issue is. I **** societies rules.
By spermkiss [Ignore] 10,Sep,12 11:44 other posts 
I am presuming that the censored word is h-a-t-e. Yes, overcoming social "rules" can be a difficult nut to crack. But as you know yourself, no matter how straight a man is, playing an inning or two for the other team can be fun and exciting. I've done it myself, but the other way. I'm as gay as they come, but I've played on the straight team. Good luck.


By #252079 22,Aug,12 19:04
Thanks again guys. I'll keep y'all updated.
By #134591 05,Sep,12 18:03
any more development dude?
By #252079 05,Sep,12 19:07
Not yet. The both of us have been really busy the last couple of weekends. We have seen each other at work and he acts like it doesn't bother him knowing that I want to suck his cock. We still text and talk on the phone. I think that when he's drinking it's easier for him to talk about the subject. On top of that he is very shy and not very talkative to begin with. We are hanging out this weekend though. Keep your fingers crossed for me. Lol. He seems to be more interested in me too. I honestly think he wants it but is afraid.
By #252079 05,Sep,12 19:10
I'm curious though how would other "straight" guys react to their best friend telling them that they want to give them a bj.
By #134591 06,Sep,12 02:28
ah good man at least it isnt all lost :p

ja dude its difficult. some guys are very shy and each will react differently. civilization has indoctrinated us to believe it is wrong. i've told a few of my friends that i'd like to 'help them out' and with half of them i got lucky. this one friend though more recently - i know he wants to and the few times we actually got close to that point, he reacted with i'm going to **** now, good night. he is dead scared of being labelled gay. fuck labels.

again, good luck!
By #177050 06,Sep,12 23:05⤴
I consider myself bi ,but when asked If I would like a BJ ,I can't get hard. I could suck cock all day long,but receiving feels to "gay" for some reason. Go figure.
By spermkiss [Ignore] 10,Sep,12 11:34 other posts 
Your situation is not unusual. You consider yourself bi, but there are also many men who identify as straight but who still like to suck cocks. Often they do not wish to be sucked in return. Since they identify as straight, they want to get their own sexual gratification with women. All they want to do with a man is suck him off.


By #252079 08,Sep,12 09:01
Ok a little new development..... We hung out last night and I didn't say anything almost all night but then the beer kicked in really good and out of no where I said "would you ever let me? " and he said I don't know. Like he'd been wanting to say something all night but was waiting on me to bring it up. He knew exactly what I was talking about. I then said that I would if he'd let me and he just smiled. A few minutes later he made himself open for a good crotch grab and naturally I took the opportunity. I grabbed his dick and held on for a good while and he let me but then someone started to come up. FUCK. So now I really feel he's just scared.
By #134591 08,Sep,12 16:07
dude that is fuckin great! development into the right direction then. come, you have to get it further. i'm sitting here in anticipation. it may take a bunch of beers more, but by the sounds of it you'll eventually get there. and the reward will be just indescribable


By #252079 22,Aug,12 10:14
Update.... I've talk to him sober and now he says he was joking. Well the night he told me that he didn't care if I gave him a bj he admitted he remembered that I was touching his dick and that it didn't bother him. Now given previous events and conversations I think he is definitely curious but is afraid when sober. Also he says he is completly ok with me taking him serious and willing to. I'm freakin confused as hell. Any thoughts? I definitely will let him make the next move cuz I don't want to push it.
By spermkiss [Ignore] 22,Aug,12 11:45 other posts 
Wise move. Since posting my comment of August 20 it occurred to me that I probably should have added that it would be a good idea if neither of you was drunk when you had sex. One or two drinks would be OK to provide social lubrication and to help both of you relax, but no more. You should both be in full command of your faculties and go into the sexual situation with eyes wide open and knowing what you are doing. What you don't want is scorn from him the next day. ("You took advantage of me when I was drunk! How dare you?")

It's also a very good idea to let him make the next move. It's fine to let him know that you're interested and that you'd be willing if he is (it sounds as though you've already done that), but don't push him. When he's ready, he can make the move. This could take weeks or months and it might never happen, but if you rush him you'll scare him off, it will never happen and it could spoil your friendship. Good luck.


By #134591 21,Aug,12 02:33
ive had sexual encounters with at least four 'str8' friends (well at least, they are married with 3/4 have ****). and we are still friends today.

and no we arent weirded out by what happened and are still good friends even though it doesnt happen anymore nowadays.

so i think the most important thing is to keep it between yourselves... dont go and tell everyone then you should be fine.

as far as getting drunk is concern, that is just to get the courage. some of my first encounters with specific friends started out drunk, but later we become comfortable enough not to only do it when drunk.

and if you do eventually do it, then please share here!!!

good luck.
By #252079 21,Aug,12 09:56
Oh I will share but no where else.
By #134591 22,Aug,12 01:39
thanks... ill be watching this space :p


By #62682 21,Aug,12 23:41
Get sucking man!


By #291618 21,Aug,12 13:25
u should try


By stroker11 [Ignore] 21,Aug,12 10:10 other posts 
Do it sober and privately.....sounds like a positive step in a great friendship!


By #266252 21,Aug,12 04:35
Had sex with an old friend and it turned out wonderful. Both of us are straight acting and I don't think anyone suspects. Anyway this has been going on for years. We love each other and have had many great sexual encounters. I say go for it!


By #150239 20,Aug,12 16:53
You want an engraved invitation maybe????
By #252079 20,Aug,12 18:58
No. I get he's wanting me to. That's not the question the question is should I. Im asking others for their experiences. Did they do something with a friend and did it make their friendship better or worse.
By spermkiss [Ignore] 20,Aug,12 19:45 other posts 
Yes, this man definately wants to have sex with you and you obviously want him?

So will it make things weird between you or will it spoil your feiendship? No guarantees, but probalbly not to both questions. Over the years I've had sex with several straight friends and in no case did it spoil our friendship. In each case it brought us closer together.


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