Am I BI? - page #1

By JackinKing [Ignore] 16,Nov,24 11:09

Interesting question. I see a lot of men on here identify as straight yet say they are interested in both men and women. To me that makes you Bi. But who cares really? Women are beautiful, men are beautiful. It all seems perfectly natural to me.

By Raypark [Ignore] 29,Sep,22 10:15

Very similar situation as you except I have acted on my impulses thru the years secretly. Do I consider myself bi? Depends in what context. If your asking me if I could see myself in a loving relationship with another man, the answer is 90% no. If your asking me on sexual performance, definitely bi. So, what am I ? I’m a man who cohabitates with a women, has a family, several children, enjoys all of it but also enjoys having sexual gratification with men. Label? A family man who has many sexual interests. Bi? Yes. Straight? Yes. All depends of the context of your question.

Does it really matter? No. Wether one prefers a loaf of bread over a bagel and vise versa makes no difference, they both like bread. I think the more important question is monogamy or open relationship when it comes to sex.

By #661510 [Ignore] 17,Feb,22 06:33

kind of similar situation here. i confided a few years ago in a trusted friend... who is straight. his response was eye opening and brilliant.

he said, "just because you like to eat a salad once in a while doesn't make you a vegetarian.... so, why get hung up on a label?"

I haven't been concerned with boxing myself in with a label ever since.

By Mylimastuff [Ignore] 18,Feb,22 18:36⤴

Great statement! Thanks!

By #654552 [Ignore] 17,Feb,22 23:06

Im in a great marriage also but have known I was BI since puberty. When it comes to sex I prefer men but for living with someone I like women. So every now and then when I get the urge I find another man to scratch that itch. So to answer your question yeah your BI, not that theres anything wrong with that.

By chubbyloves [Ignore] 10,Feb,22 16:58

think you are just thinking about it. Until you have cock in your hands or mouth you will not know. Nothing wrong with that.

By Mylimastuff [Ignore] 15,Feb,22 22:53⤴

Kinda what I was thinking too. Thanks

By CircPlay [Ignore] 15,Feb,22 14:54

Sounds like similar childhood experiences but I had a tough childhood and teen because I was different and was uncircumcised. I did meet a wonderful woman who was interested in exploring my foreskin as she had only been with cut guys and we got married. She made me become one with my foreskin and I found myself not trying to hide it and show it off more being proud. Because of this I realized I was getting approached by a lot of curious cut guys inviting me back to their place so they can examine and play with my skin. I began to wanting to venture out of just playing and soon I realized it’s okay to explore further and so I have gone further and consider myself bi.

By Mylimastuff [Ignore] 15,Feb,22 22:52⤴

Thanks. Food for thought

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