My wife had a complete hysterectomy 4 years ago. She has no interest in sex. We have not had sex in 4 years. She says she loves me but being treated like this only reminds me of the end of a few relationships I've had. I sometimes think she's telling me indirectly to move on. I mean I'd think she'd try to keep me satisfied with a hand job once in a while anyway.
Send her to the Doctor, I have several friends who have had a hysterectomy and they are still very active sexually. Perhaps she has some feelings of not being a complete woman any longer and needs to work through those feelings. Nonetheless, she should be seeing to it that you get some of your sexual pleasures (hand job, blow job, screwing).
Thanks for the replies. I've been playing it cool for a while now. I was told to be aloof and not to grab her ass, etc. She's got other issues too and hormone treatment is not an option. She is going threw menopause too. I guess I'll wait it out and see what happens. I'm not getting any younger though. I saw a little side shot of her Mom's boob today. About blew a load
Well I'm not a lady but it's worth asking what you mean by "complete hysterectomy". If her ovaries were removed as part of the procedure then she will have effectively been 'spayed' to use a vetinary term, which means that her sexual hormones will have been removed. When this is carried out on human females there is usually provision for hormone replacement for the rest of the patients life or until it can be discontinued. In some cases (I know of two) this is overlooked so your first task is to get some medical advice and help. Please remember that if your wifes ovaries have been removed she WILL loose sexual urge and interest so she may not want, or see any reason, to go for medical help.......
........However, you should keep reminding her that IF she does indeed still love you she will try to make you happy.
Please note that removal of the ovaries (spaying) is NOT the same as menopause because when a woman reaches menopause not all of her hormones stop flowing and her ovaries remain, albeit without producing eggs.
........However, you should keep reminding her that IF she does indeed still love you she will try to make you happy.
Please note that removal of the ovaries (spaying) is NOT the same as menopause because when a woman reaches menopause not all of her hormones stop flowing and her ovaries remain, albeit without producing eggs.
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