Boston boy brings up a valid point. if your **** is still around don't even think about it! use the big head, this is family your talking about.

You often get hard when you think about her? hmmmm........ This is a tough one to call however this is my suggestion; the next time you gather together for a family holiday, do this, look at her, really think about fu@king the heck out of her. Get into the moment don't hold back, it's all about YOU. When your brotha notices the bulge in your pants, tell him what got ya hard. Then let us all know how your brotha feels about your feelings/fantasy.