I love 3somes and I love it when everyone is equally turned on and attention goes around. But my partner is significantly bigger than I am and he always "steals the show" in 3somes. I am not usually self-conscious, but it's a pretty big turn off whenever this happens and it has become annoying to me. Is there anyway to avoid the resentment? i just would like to hear others comments on this. Anyone else experience that?