I agree completely!! My wife and I have had may encounters with other men-friends,strangers,etc. Nowhere near as many times as I wold have liked, but we've had lots of fun never the less. I only wish she felt the same as you do. I've always encouraged her to have sex with as many men as she can- with or without me present. I think it would be awesome if we both could find well hung boyfriends and all live together in sexual bliss!!!