ok this is "normal " love session between me and my gf. we are in bed, we are kissing...she is in tshirt and panty. according to her this should be enough for me to get hard on my own. she most of the time refuses to touch or otherwise help me get my cock hard. she also does not like me touching or stroking myself to get hard. again she thinks i should be getting hard from the kissing or that she is almost nude and laying next to me ( even though i cant really see her as she is under the sheets and it;s usually dark.) If I don't get hard there is no screwing...it just ends with the kissing and we go to ****. all my life, when i masturbate i have had to play with it to get it hard. i was never the type that could just look at a photo of a woman and get hard. My gf will grab my cock when we are in public places..or stroke it over my clothe or shove her hand inside my pants...i've told her its strange that in public she will grab my cock but in bed she won't even touch it. she also does not like sucking my cock...it's a very rare occurrence. but it's not just because of my cock she states she has never liked sucking any other cock her entire life.( they taste like piss she claims ) so there is no foreplay when we are in bed...its heavy kissing, and feeling her breasts. if i dont get hard, forget fucking. ( hard without her touching or me touching my cock ) does this sound normal? anyone have any comments? is she crazy or am I?