Okay Thanks all for contributing, seems that it's very simple, I guees it's me then lol...

Not hard at all

This is a great site with some excellent people,..of all sexual persuasions and interests,...I'm completely straight but I enjoy exchanges with all people provided they are polite and friendly.

I've found that most guys that send me mail or comments are gay or bi here...which is cool with me...but I would like some females to a [deleted image] lso comment and chat with me too...

Where is the partie?? From what I have found here all are welcome! Just some times we get the troles and fakes that try to (so called ) bullie us That is one thing the members here dont tollirate, My advice would just be your self,talk to people,involve yourself in the fourms and be friendly,You will be amaised how fast people will befriend you

As for being or becoming popular; be kind to everyone. How could or would anyone then want to dislike you?