Started by #219847 [Ignore] 17,Apr,12 19:08
 | A rather dumb question, but really, what standards do girls have? |
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Women are programmed to be nest builders. Women get their self-esteem from their husband/lover. Men get their self-esteem from their occupation/profession.
Men have no problem with separating physical intimacy from their emotions. Women find NSA difficult or impossible.
In short, women are controlled by their pussies.
I find this very offensive!
Aaargh.
You're just wrong. Scientifically, there is no basis for your argument. Socially, it's also very misogynistic and backdated. Our outlooks may show a correlation with our hormones, but the difference between correlation and causation is a massive one. Also, men have hormones too which also fluctuate regularly (even monthly: h-t-t-p://w-w-w-.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0018506X02918155).
Also, the idea we have no control over our emotions whereas men do is disempowering and not true. First off, controlling emotions is foolish - understanding them and building emotional maturity instead is more rewarding. Second, if we want to get into gender categories men come with their own set of emotional issues that are a book unto themselves. Like trying to control their emotions instead of learning from them and then acting out of impulse or cutting themselves and others off.
Wooing, sure. It's okay, but unless there's something better after the initial superficial stuff (like wooing) wears off then I'm not sticking around for very long. Just saying. That's what NSA is good for: ditching men who are only good on the surface.
Most importantly FUCK NO I DO NOT GET MY SELF ESTEEM FROM A MAN. Often those who do wind up in abusive, misogynistic relationships where they feel they can't leave. Healthy women find self esteem from THEMSELVES like any other healthy human being. Even if we tried to get it from a partner, it wouldn't work because without proper self esteem relationships get toxic. I hope that men do not derive their self esteem from their profession either since it is an equally slippery slope to do so (might I add unfulfilling as well).
Most men have "trouble" separating physical intimacy from their emotions too (not sure that's such a bad thing either unless it's just a one nighter or something). I know this because I **** with them and they can be just as clingy, emotional and involved as women can. Also, NSA for me is also not very hard at all and I've had friends with benefits in the past with great success.
In short, no one is controlled by their genitalia and your opinions sound like an extremely male-biased PSA from the 1950's. Go get an update.
These are the truest words ever written.!!!
Do you mean sexually or for an overall relationship?
For a relationship: Love (of course!), honesty, trust, respect, support, fun, and commitment (if it's an LTR). I believe shared values are more important than shared activities. I mean, doing some things together is important, but we're all invididuals and don't have to do everything together. People w/shared values have a better chance of going the distance.
Sexually: Good to discuss what you each like so you can please each other adequately. Compromise where need be. We often need to be heated up first (though when I was younger, I was more "guy like": I wanted to skip foreplay and just get down! And I could, but with age, I need more time). Again, respect and trust are key so you don't cross any unwelcome lines. And, as far as many of us go, please don't roll over and go to **** right afterward. SOME afterglow/cuddling would be nice!
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