Further to my last post I received the reply below from an interested party from whom I requested a second opinion.

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" I doubt the individual is breaking out of ANY prison, as the individual is professing to want to engage in that which is known at times AS 'prison behavior'. My advice is keep things out of their ass, and start working on the identity issues. Placing things in their anus is not going to make that challenge any easier or clearly understood.

My advice, in the end is: You were born a male, start acting like one and be content with the life God has given you, in the body God has given you.

I cannot identify with this 'wrong body' perception. God doesn't make mistakes.

The issue is not what others or society thinks. From the health standpoint, it's the concerns over what the individual DOES, and this individual is considering engaging in potentially dangerous behaviors, putting HIMself, others and society at risk. We don't care about the personality issue, he can fantasize all he wants and diddle himself all he wants in private; when he starts engaging in potentially dangerous, degrading and deadly sexual behaviors with others and putting the consequences into the public realm, that is an entirely different matter. "

shybygui, forget about labeling yourself, it doesn't matter if you are straight or gay or somewhere up the mile inbetween! maybe it will take some years to discover your sexuality, it's not uncommon i think if you feel different from mainstream. it took me more than 10 yours to come out, and very happy i did. after that struggle, it's a piece of cake! there's no wrong or right, and certainly NO ONE should judge you in any way! don't let them!! take care in your struggle to BE FREE!!