That red deletion message looks so angry, I want something prettier in my in-box now. Any girls that want to send me something sexy?

Here's another consideration too...as you are culling your list to 100 you might want to change your profile settings to adjust who sees your pics. If you had a large friends list and restricted the viewing of your pics to friends only, then you might want to change that so those newly "deleted" people can still see your pics.

Ah...so this is why I had alot of people delete me. Bummer.

well if there got to be a limit on friends why cant you fix it where it will not be in alphabetical order but where you can put your friends in any order you like. like maybe a top friends list because i have made a lot of friends on here and now if your name does not start an a b or c you cant be on my friends list

By wxmfun at 12,Sep,11 20:04

fuck u then bitch
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Uhhh....since you banned me now, I can't tell you that I didn't want to do it.

if the problem is the people with 10,000 friends, why not limit everyone to 500, and premium 1,000?

100 is kind of low if you've been here awhile.

you could even let people have 3,000 friends if the problem is really those few with 10,000.

It's been sad today. Most of my PMs have been from people deleting me or people wondering why I deleted them. Ugh.

admin you are right! But I lost thousands of "friends" Some are really angry!!

From Matt's Wife: It might be time to leave the site

You're going to lose alot of members here ADMIN ... I remember when this site was the greatest thing ever , but now it's gone by the wayside ! Like everything else in this world "Greed for money ... got the best of you" !!!

Well this sucks !!! Only because your forcing All the members here to become paying members ! I have been here since July 2009 and have made alot friends along the way , and I actually do know most by first name and have become close to most of them ! This new system really sucks , because now my good friends are being deleted from my friends list and I am sad to hear this site is going to force all there members to become a pay site !

ARE THERE OTHER SITES LIKE THIS THAT AREN"T PAY SITES ????

I guess nothing lasts forever , and I always thought of everyone here like family , one big happy family that has to all be weeded out because of this site going to become a Pay Site So to all the friends I have made along the way ... I want to Thank You personally for All the great conversations and friendships ! I'm probably going to get deleted myself for voicing my oppinion , so again Thanks for all the fun times here ... it's been great !

Love you all and I will surely miss you all as well , ....
Rob , the "CreativeOne" @}-;-'--- Now , "1XSpurt"

^..^_____!

I think everyone here is going to move on to other sites !

wish i would just say what your total number is rather than having to count it yourself.

where does it list how many friends u have added?

I add people as friends so that they can see the full resolution photos and I can see theirs, simple as that. Looking at my friends page, have a ton grayed out. I'll spend some time looking through and re-considering each profile, that could take some time!!! Ah well, in a way, you're all friends to me!

Maybe we can just unlock the full resolution photos to all logged in members of the site, then there wouldn't really be a huge *need* for "friends". All good whatever happens, still

Just some random thoughts......


The only thing that will satisfy some is anarchy and chaos!!


Quit whining! Friends should be counted by quality not quantity.


If you think you can run the site better.....get with admin and invest!!!!


Those who can, do. Those who can't, whine.


....care fore some cheese to go with that whine?

I have about 300 people on my friend list. I don't consider that a lot and planned to add maybe 100 more.

I understand your need to make this decision, and also that some people are disproportionate users of resources and bandwidth on this site. (10,000 friends is ridiculous!!!!) But I recommend that you rethink your decision to make the cutoff at only 100 friends. That's simply too low and will drive many to other sites, such as xhamster.

My advice would be to raise the cutoff to several hundred. That's all. Thanks for listening.

i know that much of the members who helped to bring the site this way like it was till last week, will maybe dissappear and search other sites, there are many members who liked talking with others and becomming "friends" with one or the other. good friendships we made here. As example we can take "facebook" i have more then 500 friends who i know personally by name and add still people on facebook, wwhy can't it be here like that?

I canceled premium because I want to add more people; I now have to go diamond as a result. It it supposed to kick in when the current membership expires.

I wondered about all the members in gray. I hope they aren't just going to drop off my list(?!)

I liked adding anyone whose pics i liked, so that i can just check my friends recent uploads for new ones by them. over a couple months, those friends can add up. i think i have like 500 friends or so. but that's just cause there are so many hot guys here! so i guess i'll try to trim down to just the guys i chat the most with. i my appologies to all i delete, it's nothing personal.

I believe everyone needs to understand , when the site has problems, we all have a problems, and most of us do not know the costs, or what is involved in even doing this, but i do know computers, (I build them for fun), it doesn't take much to create bottlenecks, so I feel maybe admin, could tell us all what things in excess could cause him problems, and lets see what we could do to make it more of a smooth operation for him and the site, and we could pass this on to the other members as well. Whether its friends or to many pics, favorite pics, etc. Let us know where to start where we can start a fall cleaning per say.

this kinda sucks for those of us members who've been forced by others into making their pics for friends only in order to prevent points from being burned by voting against pics. I think the burning of points by voting against pics should be taken away as well then we can all show our pics as was intended.