With a girl I like it from behind, the spread arsehole is a massive turn on. With a man I like him on his back so I can wank him, and the same when I'm being fucked myself.

Since I gave in to my bisexual urges about 12 years ago, I've visited quite a few gay saunas. I always have fun, but I think the best time was when a guy asked me to fuck him, which I did. He asked if I'd like to be fucked. I'd never done it before, but I don't want to die wondering about anything, so said yes and got on all fours. He used plenty of gel on his cock and figered me first, but it still hurt a bit when he pushed all the way in. Once past the initial discomfort I really got to enjoy it. I turned over onto my back and he wanked me off as he fucked me. I've been back to that sauna many times but never saw him again.

There are several parks around my area where you can get naked. They're not fenced off or anything, and clothed people can wander or cycle through. The biggest and best one is over a kilometre from end to end, with a nice lake and a large gay cruising area at one end.

Cleanliness is essential. I love it. Licking my girl from arsehole to clit and back again is a massive turn on, but I think having her on her knees and just concentrating on her arsehole is the biggest for me. I've licked a few men's arseholes as well, but much prefer a lady's.

I love to be watched, whether it's at the sauna, or in the "cruising" area at the local nude park.