I was 13, discovering sex with three similar-age boys in the neighborhood.

Not "total", but... I prefer being fucked by a dominant man rather than me being a top. I prefer sucking cock rather than being sucked. I love to role-play being a faggot sex slave to a dominant man.

Did it with a boy. We were both 13. He introduced me to dominant/submissive play and we were playing "master and slave". I was the slave and we were in the woods. He commanded me to strip naked and suck his cock. I loved it. He didn't cum that time, but did numerous times on later occasions.

Plenty of times with my wife, mostly after she went asexual several years ago. A few times, she's agreed to "talk dirty" while she watches me masturbate. She knows I'm bi and teases me about my gay porn preferences, calling me a faggot and a cocksucker.

Smaller to suck; bigger to stroke in a handjob.

Mine.

My wife plenty of times. Three boys when I was 13. A lot of men in my 40s through 60s and going to occasional gay orgies.

Depends on the type of sex you and your partner(s) are into. If just oral, small-ish might be more desirable than large. If fucking (gay or straight), then not ideal. Handjobs somewhere in between.

"Strip dice". I love it!

It's partially a Dom/Sub (dominance and submission) thing. A fair number of men get aroused about being sexually submissive to a dominant partner, or being sexually humiliated. Lots of guys on this site post pictures on these themes. I've never done the cuckolding thing in real life, but I do love to fantasize.

I'd love this too! Masturbating while my wife gets fucked by a big-cock escort.

Did you ever lose on purpose?

I was 13 and was shy and naive about sex. Then I was invited to join a Sex Club consisting of three other similar-age boys in the neighborhood. We did a lot of "feel-ups", sword-fights, hand jobs, JO while others watched, and brief sucking.

Here's mine:

Here's mine.

There's no shortage of married Bi men (like me) who suck cocks for DECADES without the wife knowing.

Wow! An early start! I was around that age when several older neighborhood boys held me down and pulled down my pants and underwear. I don't remember getting an erection.

Me too! Discovering sex with other boys was a highlight of my youth.

I lost on purpose too. I was always the first to be naked when we played strip poker.

I was 13 and mostly naive about sex. Some friends were talking about masturbation (while we compared boners in the woods), but didn't demonstrate. When I got home, I locked myself in the bathroom and stripped. I was already super erect and started stroking. I had a firm grip in my penis... too firm for my cut dick. After a couple minutes of ecstasy I was spraying droplets of semen on the tile wall. My penis got a little swollen from the rough treatment, but I was at it again the next day.

I was 13 and hairless. So was he.

I had my first experience with dom/sub roleplay at age 13, being submissive to a very dominant 14-year-old boy in my neighborhood. The source of many fantasies.

Me too! I love to fantasize being a sex-slave for a dominant man or multiple men.

Here's mine.

I was 19, and I think she was too. We met at a mixer in college and she invited me up to her dorm room. She was sexually aggressive, which was a new experience for me. I'd been smoking marijuana and couldn't get an erection, so she asked me to go down on her. She came hard, and then she returned the favor, sucking me erect and giving me an awesome orgasm.

A couple weeks ago my wife walked in on me jacking to gay porn. She said "Anything you want to tell me?" I replied "No", but wish I had added "... but maybe I wouldn't be looking at blowjob porn if we had sex more than once a year."

I prefer the 'bottom' role too.

"Slide-show" is perfect for masturbating.

I would be tempted, but never in my 50-some years as an adult have I ever seen any sexual activity in a restroom, nor been solicited for sex.

I love my wife, but she has zero interest in anything sexual. As a bi guy, it's easiest for me to have occasional cock-sucking hook ups with other married bi guys.

They want to take us back to the time, not so long ago, when you could go to prison for having gay sex.

A solid "S" (4.5 inches).

When I was a teen, I got offered money three different times by men who wanted to suck my cock. $20 each time. I turned each of them down, but I fantasized what it would have been like.

Very submissive... but almost entirely the product of my kinky imagination and porn, rather than real-life dom/sub experiences.

I can only "edge" when I'm going solo. It's my current favorite. When I'm getting an edging handjob from a partner, I either cum too soon or lose my erection.

I went to a weekly gay orgy a few times. Around 20 guys of various ages and races, all naked. I spent a lot of time on my knees. Very hot!

When I was 13 and at summer camp, all the guys in the tent proudly showed off our morning boners. Actual "sex" happened almost as soon as I got home from camp. Three neighborhood boys around my age had formed a Sex Club and asked me to join. Naked feel-ups, hand-jobs, and oral.

Two wet dreams. I started masturbating soon after the second. Never had another wet dream.

Submissive

Not a contest... but my group of sex buddies - four of us in all - would put on masturbation shows, going one at a time while the others watched. We were all 13.

Me too. I spent a lot of time on my knees, sampling multiple cocks.

An all-male orgy. Maybe 20 guys. Having hot sex with multiple partners.
(A bisexual orgy would be hot too.)

That's one of my hot fantasies.

It depends on how talented the cocksucker is. A mediocre fuck is better than a mediocre blowjob. A good blowjob is better than a good fuck.

13 or 14,

Cannabis and edging masturbation.

FMM 3-way?