Im glad for you that you had your “come to Jesus moment” when you got a dick up your ass, but really! Speak for yourself about what is sex and what isn’t. And who the fuck cares if you call it “gay” sex or any other kind of sex? There’s something very liberating about letting go of any other person’s dogmatic ideas of what’s up and what’s down. I am for mutual masturbation and edging and cocksucking. I claim it to be the best and believe me, I have fucked plenty over the last 60 years. Just don’t make absolutes about anything as personal as sex.