By Jakestheman [Ignore] 01,Aug,22 06:59 Pageviews: 180
 A LOT of you guys on this site are married and a LOT of you married guys have wife's who have either stopped having sex completely OR are slowly trickling down to nothing in the sex department and/or are lets just say less than enthusiastic about having sex period..
I'd venture to say that the MAJORITY of the MARRIED guys on this site are in this boat... Prove me wrong.. Over the years I have witnessed this play out soooooo many times for real.. Guys who's wife's stop having sex who THEN turn to other men for sex... For real sex, not just virtual.. I tell a story in one of my posts below of a group of us guys who used to get together in the mornings before work at a no-tell motel for guy-sex... It was a BLAST literally. We ALL were married, professional guys who with the exception of yours truly, all had found themselves in sexless marriages.. I was there because I enjoyed having sex with guys! I was still getting plenty-o-sex from my beloved wife mind you.. She knew what I was doing and didn't care as long as I was still MORE than interested in her and NO GIRLS were involved. Anywhoo, these guys' wife's all stopped having sex for various reasons.. Some claimed menopause, others just lost all interest, some said that sex became painful as their cootchie's aged, others just flat out no longer found their husbands sexually desirable.. Some of these wife's were never 'sexual dynamos' to begin with.. Frigid is the word I'd use, from the start.... Brrrrrr... It happens... Not to me, but it does.. It's REALLY hard not to feel sorry for a guy in this situation. I mean really, what IS a fella to do... Here he is, a middle aged man who if he's LUCKY, is still capable of getting an erection and his wife shuts him OFF? He really doesn't have many options now does he? 1) Wacking off. That's kind of where this site and others comes into play right? 2) Having sex with others, men or women.. This will TYPICALLY not end well my friends... Loretta Lynn has a song about this.... 3) Celibacy I SHUDDER to even write that word 4) Possible professional help and/or counseling for you AND especially the wifey... I highly recommend this BTW. At the first sign of this, get her in front of a professional sex therapist. A REAL one. A GOOD one.. Pay the $$$ Get in there and find out what the REAL problem is and fix it, just fix it.. (Who let Ross Perot in here?) You might be surprised... She might just think she's too ugly have sex and that YOU think she's a giant rodent or something... Women are fickle beasts when it comes to sex. They look at sex completely different than we men do.. Remember the old adage about how women and men view sex: Women need a REASON to have sex, men just need a place. |
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She is perfectly happy being sexless and doesn't care enough about me to want me to be happy and enjoy myself if it involves her. It took me years to figure this out. But the last example was about 10 years ago. She was at her yearly check up and must have mentioned vaginal dryness as the Dr. Prescribed a cream with estrogen to lubricate her cunt. But the tube cost $100 and she didn't pick it up. Having a nice soft flexible cunt, suitable for fucking, was not worth the money for something she didn't care about anyway.
Here's a question for you, did she EVER like having sex?
But as soon as we were married, she was not in the mood. I have come to believe that she was faking it. She knew what she had to do to get what she wanted. She really hates everything about cock.
Getting married is on me. It seemed like what people were expected to do. Different reasons and expectations. We agreed that there were no children.
For years, I thought it was just me. So I kept trying. But nothing was ever enough. Then it seemed too late to leave. Like a battered woman, I felt I could not do any better anywhere else.
Besides she isn't a terrible roommate, just a terrible sex partner.
Left to jerk you own dick for 20+ years is a mighty sorry way to go my friend....
BTW, I happen to LIKE your gherkin.... If you're EVER in the Indy area, look me and my girls up. We'll be MORE than happy to take that lovely dick of yours for a ride down memory lane so to speak and make sure it's and YOU are put the uses the way to good lord intended...
Hey, men can be fickle too.... but you know, having had lots and lots of sex with both men and women, I've found men to be a whole lot LESS fickle than woman... Of course, part of that depends upon HOW you're defining fickle.
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