I've been so so horny lately. I need to satisfy myself, but I find it difficult to simply ask for sex. I would love to hear how all of you ask for sex or to fuck. It just seems too bold to blurt right out LOL.
"Do you wanna fuck?"
"I definitely do!"
Tell me how you all do it!
Thank you!!
It’s old but true, dropping a direct F request and hoping not to get a NO can stall the bravest of people… that’s why we humans came up with code 😆 it goes like this Q: want to? (Come back to mine and… this line is optional and a suggestion in itself)
A: Coffee
B: Ramen
C: Netflix & Chill
If you get a YES but the guy in question is later still only interested in the actual subject on offer at least you never got to hear a NO.
And if the initial offer is turned down? You can walk away ego intact or say chill I only wanted an actual A,B or C
Shyness and any embarrassed averted
Btw I do like #silverjim1224 ‘s idea very bold but no misunderstandings ever!
As a woman 90% of all men want to fuck you. Some may not be able to for different reasons, but if you just say do you want to fuck? 3 out of 4 will say yes please. The ones that can't will be flattered. Where's the problem?
Yes if you find 1 that is not ready to fuck strangers and ses no then you can have your ego hurt. Maybe just ask if he will sit on your face and feed you his cock to start then move to anything else you want to do next!
Time to put the ego aside lol. I guess more so it's a shyness, but I still wouldn't want to be turned down. Good ideas that I will keep in mind.
Thank you
No one likes being told no I guess for sure. Most of my life I have got the dreaded NO from most gals! After we went in to swinging we got a lot more YESes! But might be so they did not get a NO themselves I suppose!
But for every NO you might get that might just be a very bad fuck you did not have to go thru!
But if you find things you are good at nd things you like the most you could try doing just those things with people!
Met a few gals and guys that only did oral for the first time with someone new. That is usually ok on a guy or a gal. Then if that is fine then move on to trying other things for your pleasure and theirs too! Maybe 69 most everyone likes that and most everyone can do it ok at least until they do a lot of practice!
GOOD LUCK GAL!
It seemed in swinging that some only did things to pleasurer themselves and the other person possibly
But I found that if you tried to please yourself each time doing whatever you really liked to do then everyone got pleasure to the max. This way no matter what you get pleasured
Then if the other person was not good you had fun and do not need to do anything with them again based on your own experience
If you like th eperson but they still are not so good maybe you can teach them how you like it. If they try and do it that way then have some continuing fun . If they do not even try to do a better way of pleasing you them do not do them again. Too many folks willing to try and give pleasure not just rcv itI am sure!
A lot of us don't ask because some women like to crush your ego. I wouldn't expect a woman to say yes but there are better ways to say no. You are an attractive woman and you don't have to blurt out that you are ready to fuck. Maybe mention in conversation that you are not wearing panties. I only had one woman ask if I was interested in having sex and of course I said yes, only to find out she wanted to be paid. Which was ok with me, since she was a ten and that kind of woman doesn't look twice at men like me.
I couldn't just blurt it out like that I'm generally more shy than that, except if it was right 😂
It's good you got to have some fun with your 10 though so it was worth it.
Thank you for your input
depends on the situation when the subject is "ready" to be breached. Are you at dinner? the bar? Is there a dance floor? Or on the phone...texting or talking?
Be adventurous and mysterious. If you just can't ask...go to the ladies room,...drop your panties,...take a pic of your pussy and send it to him back at the bar or table. Tell him,...I want your __________ (penis, cock, dick, man-stick...your choice of words) in this. I put my panties in my purse.
I’ve been extremely horny for quite a long time as I’ve gone without since February 2020 so I definitely need u to have some very fun and fucking with mmmmmm wish u were here I want to fuck with u lots sooo much
I do it poorly. I used the tried and true "Would you like to come up to my place to listen to music and have a drink?" . But my success at getting fucked was pretty low.
I had a friend in collage that just used the "hi, do you want to go up to my place and fuck?" And while he heard a lot of " no", he also got a lot of yes.
I had a friend in the army who got fucked a lot. He had a knack for picking women who wanted to fuck. He fucked married women, one of my girlfriends, etc. He would just ask but he had some means for selecting prospects. I never knew how he did it.
But I am sure that asking is the right way. Find someone you would like to fuck. Get them alone and ask if they would like to fuck. My guess that you, as a woman, with have an incredible success rate.
Thank you, yes some people have a knack for picking people who would just want to fuck and say yes. I just wouldn't want to hear a no! Lol, I know that's not how it works but it is wishful thinking.
I just get shy when it is time to ask. Then I go mute. Sure in my head I'm repeating the question "do you want to fuck?" But obviously they can't hear that.
No doubt asking is the right way, now to find the "yes" crowd and take em on! Haha
I need to indulge my pussy!
A guy has "no" in his life all the time. He has to get used to it. I think that guys who get fucked a lot get used to it earlier than some of the rest of us. It turns out that being told NO isn't life threatening. It is personal, I mean it is ego crushing, but not lethal.
But I cannot imagine that some guy would ever turn a woman down. At least without an explanation. I think the real answer is to find a guy who seems friendly, like at a park, who seems willing to talk and might eventually get around to trying to fuck you, and just ask him to speed things up. If he says no, ask if a blowjob would be ok.
A: Coffee
B: Ramen
C: Netflix & Chill
If you get a YES but the guy in question is later still only interested in the actual subject on offer at least you never got to hear a NO.
And if the initial offer is turned down? You can walk away ego intact or say chill I only wanted an actual A,B or C
Shyness and any embarrassed averted
Btw I do like #silverjim1224 ‘s idea very bold but no misunderstandings ever!
Thank you 😁
Thank you
But for every NO you might get that might just be a very bad fuck you did not have to go thru!
But if you find things you are good at nd things you like the most you could try doing just those things with people!
Met a few gals and guys that only did oral for the first time with someone new. That is usually ok on a guy or a gal. Then if that is fine then move on to trying other things for your pleasure and theirs too! Maybe 69 most everyone likes that and most everyone can do it ok at least until they do a lot of practice!
GOOD LUCK GAL!
But I found that if you tried to please yourself each time doing whatever you really liked to do then everyone got pleasure to the max. This way no matter what you get pleasured
Then if the other person was not good you had fun and do not need to do anything with them again based on your own experience
It's good you got to have some fun with your 10 though so it was worth it.
Thank you for your input
Be adventurous and mysterious. If you just can't ask...go to the ladies room,...drop your panties,...take a pic of your pussy and send it to him back at the bar or table. Tell him,...I want your __________ (penis, cock, dick, man-stick...your choice of words) in this. I put my panties in my purse.
Yeah I imagine scenarios do matter.
Thank you for your input 🙂
I had a friend in collage that just used the "hi, do you want to go up to my place and fuck?" And while he heard a lot of " no", he also got a lot of yes.
I had a friend in the army who got fucked a lot. He had a knack for picking women who wanted to fuck. He fucked married women, one of my girlfriends, etc. He would just ask but he had some means for selecting prospects. I never knew how he did it.
But I am sure that asking is the right way. Find someone you would like to fuck. Get them alone and ask if they would like to fuck. My guess that you, as a woman, with have an incredible success rate.
I just get shy when it is time to ask. Then I go mute. Sure in my head I'm repeating the question "do you want to fuck?" But obviously they can't hear that.
No doubt asking is the right way, now to find the "yes" crowd and take em on! Haha
I need to indulge my pussy!
But I cannot imagine that some guy would ever turn a woman down. At least without an explanation. I think the real answer is to find a guy who seems friendly, like at a park, who seems willing to talk and might eventually get around to trying to fuck you, and just ask him to speed things up. If he says no, ask if a blowjob would be ok.
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