The number one question I get asked is why I haven't posted any photos. The short answer is that my husband doesn't want me to and I honor his wishes.

It's not that I don't want to. When I was younger, wilder and single public nudity and public sex were very much a part of my life. There were periods when I didn't often have sex in private. Thousands of people have seen me nude and engaged in sex. And the thought of putting my sex organs and sex acts on public display is still very exciting to me.

But I left that behind when I hooked up with my husband more than twenty years ago. He doesn't want me to expose myself to anyone but him and he wants to keep our sex private. I abide by his wishes. And yes, he is indeed my husband. He and I are one of the 18,000 same sex couples who got married during the five and a half months it was legal here in California.