Ive a couple of married guys i see.... ill never use names so ill just call him J.... we met thru grinder..he is 41... he joined it as for some time he thought about going with another man... just wank buddies really... but as most people know... its a shag app...and even if yr handsome and 41...your over the hill in gay terms !! ...but he messaged me as my info states i dont do random shags... well we arranged to meet at my place... we had exchanged face pics...nothing else... and he was even more better looking than his pictures... 6.4 tall...just an inch bigger than me... but just massive in body size...i do mean muscular... a gym bunny...also massive hands and feet...size 13 !! ... we chatted and talked about his likes etc...tbh he had no idea... just wanted to be wanked off and maybe wank me... i was not going to do it on the 1st meet...just not me... and did not want him thinking i was easy !.... so we arranged a second meet... and was better as he seemed more relaxed...he really suprised me as after a few beers he took his clothes off... and as well as being fit he was totally shaved... legs.. arms... pubic area... and spray tanned... his wife is a mobile beautician.. so hence the good work... but was shocked to see the size of his cock... around 8" uncut... i stayed dressed as i just wanted to sort him out our 1st time... he sat on the sofa... and i held his cock and started to lick and suck it... he was hard in seconds... also took a bollock in my mouth one at a time and gently sucked on them... i started to lick under his nuts down to the crack of hs arse... he suddenly jumped a bit and asked what i was doing... said id really like to rim you... turns out he had never even done 2 his wife... but he lifted his legs and i got in there... like the rest of his body... no hairs... and he just started groaning... id found his spot ..lol... so carried on... also wanking his cock at the same time... was only doing a few mins when he shot his load.... hes a big cummer but not a shooter.... thick cum trickling down his shaft... so i started to clean up... this got him even more excited as he told me the wife had not swallowed his junk sinnce his 20s !!! ... bloody best part.... even squeezed the base of his cock to get the last drops out...after my clean up i sat on the sofa facing him... we chatted... him still naked... and just could not stop looking at him... then proceds to tell me he can cum a few times a hour if turned on... he asked if i had any gay porn he could watch...i had to think what tame stuff he could see...did not wanna scare him off... so a put a triga film on...just average lads english..having fun...was only on a few mins and he was hard again... he started playing... and i really like mens feet ...no idea why..but they turn me on...so i got down and started playing with his feet and sucking his toes... this really got him going..which was good for me... then again he said im gonna cum..this time i got up there and took his cock in my mouth as he started to pump his cum... nice tasting cum...not funky spunk !!... i stood up to sit back down on my chair again and he asked to see my cock.... he pulled my shorts down... and it popped out...very wet due to all the fun... and to my suprise he held it...pulled my foreskin back... and started to wank me... all to much to quick and i shot my load over his cock... he was like man thats hot..i made another man cum...he wiped his hand on the towels id left out...but thought id see how he would react to me licking up my own cum off his dick...totally blew his mind !! ...the only thing i had not done was kiss him...most men do... some dont... so he got dressed and as he was leaving i lent forward and kissed him !... and he was a bit shocked... but i said i really cannot make love without kissing....that was 4 years ago... we still see each other now... he works nights...so he has a key to my flat and comes round at 4am for two hours... misses kuch and breaks so he can get out and wife non the wiser... our sex life is a bit wilder now... hes more experimental than me... that stuff ill add in another blog later.... due to the covid lockdown we have not been able to see each other..but we cam... he goes to his campervan and we chat and wank together...not the same... but in these times we have to.