...inner and outer beauty have a strange continuity that comes to the surface sexually... aroused erogenous flesh is enlivened by blood, which is just liquid spirit... through flesh a window is open to the soul; passion is beauty being born intimacy/love is our natural home and those who see only flesh here are sadly confused
I would think that physical attraction plays a big part in your initial attraction with a new person. Is it that her legs are long, or a beautiful and engaging smile, ample breasts, a curvaceous body OR is he tall, do his eyes twinkle when he flashes his smile, is he well toned, is he beautifully bald? Only YOU know what phyically attracts you and what you find attractive might not be what your friend(s) are attracted to.
After the initial physical attraction, there has to be more substance to that person. Are they intelligent, witty, compassionate, confident, affectionate, reassuring, nurturing and/or uplifting? Again, only YOU know what qualities you find sexy and important in your significant other.
It is just my opinion that relationships built solely on physical attributes are built on an unstable foundation and are subject to fail..... unless of course, a physical relationship is all that you were looking for.
It's strange, I've known several people (well, guys) who I never would have given a second look to if I just saw pics of them, but I find them attractive now that I know them personally. So it's like the love I have for them has turned into a physical attraction.
I find intelligence beautiful.
Ironically, I am not very smart.
After the initial physical attraction, there has to be more substance to that person. Are they intelligent, witty, compassionate, confident, affectionate, reassuring, nurturing and/or uplifting? Again, only YOU know what qualities you find sexy and important in your significant other.
It is just my opinion that relationships built solely on physical attributes are built on an unstable foundation and are subject to fail..... unless of course, a physical relationship is all that you were looking for.
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