No sex is now maybe once a month if I don't piss her off. My female younger friend moved and I don't get jealous sex anymore. Her work affair is apparently over after he divorced his wife he remarried pissing my wife off. I'm glad when she goes off on business trips and I know she fucks around with guys that have had a vasectomy. So I have SYD and a few other sites. I have my set of friends and a couple of friends with benefits. So I don't really miss it as long as I can jack off in peace. Sometimes I jack off in bed and cum on her if she won't fuck me. So I figure this is as good as it gets, or maybe one or more of her younger girlfriends will seduce me.

I enjoy masturbation and fornication with or without my wife. However, if I have to choose one over the other, I would always rather have sex with my lover than with myself. As for secretly masturbating, it isn't an issue in our house. If either of us wants to cum and the other isn't able or ready, we simply do ourselves. There's no secret about it.