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Started by #444014 [Ignore] 24,Nov,14 15:53
Right people....we need to put our heads together for the benefit of everyone here....

This site is slipping into a cauldron of shit,it is becoming epic....

We need to do what we can to save it before admin calls it a day....

The fucktards that have influence have sanitised this site to suit their own agendas....

This site is unique,admin is pretty liberal,go onto other sites such as this and you would get banned for the slightest infringement of the rules..

To the fuckwits who complain to admin all the time,grow a pair ffs...you offer nothing of importance when you crawl out from under your rocks....'you know who you are'

Get thinking,WE NEED IDEAS TO IMPROVE THINGS FOR EVERYONE,not just the few.

You don't know what you have until it is gone....

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By mr_blue [Ignore] 13,Apr,15 11:52 other posts 
Bump... ready for the dumpster...


By Sickboy [Ignore] 24,Nov,14 17:58 other posts 
one of the things that bugs me is that I can not watch videos ( I'm on a mobile) not even the ones that I uploaded!.

This was one of the things that attracted me to the site, but was gutted that I could not view them, but I stayed because I had so much fun, and made some cool friends👍.........would be nice if the viewing format on the video's could be changed, this would make the site more accessible to new people as a lot is done with mobile phones now.
By #23212 26,Nov,14 03:07
With a quick search you can find 'converters' and video players that will play the 'mp4' format usually used here--for Android phones. For iPhones, QuickTime should play the videos. I hope this helps.
By Sickboy [Ignore] 26,Nov,14 18:41 other posts 
I have tried a few but they all seem to lock up or not actually work!


By admin [Ignore] 26,Nov,14 13:40 other posts 
And I'm not sure if the site is in fact worsening. It's a fact that it has several times less visitors and it earns much less money, which is bad for me. But for members who stay here I don't know.

New pics and videos keep coming. Less than before, but does it really make a difference if you see 2500 new images per day or 1800?

And I can see that audience is changing. No one goes to chat anymore to spend time in useless verbal abuse. I'm sure there were members who enjoyed that stupid drama, but were they many? Less threads on forum, but you cannot see 20 "rate my dick" topics every day anymore which is not that bad. On the other hand, I see that blogs are increasing, people now write as many blogs per day as they wrote per week just 6 months ago. Which means more literate people appearing on the site. They should be more interesting for interaction than those "rate my dick" morons.

I think I should make another site. Targeted to adult conversations and blogs, not with accent on pics sharing and chatting as it is now. I think that would be more attractive for intelligent users. I kinda started making it, but with this google "attitude" I'm afraid it will be a lost of time and money, so I'm not sure if I'm gonna finish it.
By #85103 26,Nov,14 16:35
Hi Admin
I like your idea of your other site idea targeted to adult conversations etc. How much of a logistical nightmare would it be to code into this site instead of setting up a whole new one?
I've always liked the idea of having more options and features to edit and show on our profiles that focus on the social side of things here. I think having a section to share more information about ourselves could change how members want to use this site as a light-hearted adult social networking place. I've checked out other similar sites to this one, but not bothered with any of them because it seemed like they try adding too much and I like 'the vibe' of SYD.
I have a full friends quota on my profile, but I only ever actually socialise with maybe 4 or 5 at the most. All the others are simply there because I like their pics. I never hear from any of them and I hardly ever chat with them either.
Maybe add options for the 'level of friendship', which would detirmine what amount of personal information you share with them (just like in the options for who you allow to see your pics).
I've often considered creating some kind of image to add to my pics that is just text showing information about me and what I'm on this site for and what I'm NOT here for. I've noticed an increase in (mainly younger) members sending me private messages asking me to Skype or if I have Kik etc. It's very flattering, but I'm not interested in any of that and members being able to see icons or something on profiles that show interests or what people are looking for might help, both for the likes of me, who would rather not get these requests and stuff, and for the ones who are seeking it - keeping them on the site more because they're not frustrated about not finding what they want here.
I recently deleted my F@cebook account because I was so f#cking sick of all the garbage on it, but when I receive a message from a new member, I've often jokingly said something like, "Welcome to the F@cebook for naughty adults" or similar. That's because, even though I deleted my FB account, I am actually a sociable person and I like the idea of expanding that here.
I thought the private chatrooms on our profiles was a great idea, but sadly, I haven't had any opportunities to use it more than once or twice back when you first added the feature.
I've been on SYD pretty much since you started it (I think). I first started posting pics as a kind of confidence boost because I'm not exactly Mr Confident, but it's been more of a social thing for me over the last 4 or 5 years. I've even met a couple of great guys from here, one of which is from the USA! The first thing I do when I log in is check messages. Years ago, it was check out new pics.
I know this is a site for people wanting to show their naughty pics off, but I like to think I'm more than just a 'cock' in a pic and would like to share more about me to 'priviliged members' in my friends too.
For a free site, I love it! I'm not some old weirdo, who needs to get out more... well... OK, maybe I DO need to get out more, but I'd still be here every night to catch up with friends and enjoy some intelligent conversations too.

By palunko [Ignore] 26,Nov,14 16:57 other posts 
I can sign myself under this text that member NWcock wrote.


I am also here for long time, 4 years at least, this is my 5-th, or 6-th account (I always come back...)


It is hard to expect some higher level of intelligent interaction on sites like this one, but I use only this one and only here I have some good friends, and I also log in and see if some of my (few) friends are online and talk about everything...


For me it is important to have place like this, I like to take pics and post them here, love to see others pics, but most important it is a place where I can speak free about my sexuality with friends because I don't have a chance for that in real life at all...


So for me it is ok the way it is (more or less...)


And about new ideas i think NWcock gave some good ideas, I like the idea of options for the levels of friendship for example..


* just to edit and give one idea.


It is about this discussion forum. I would like to see some visually different forum, I mean, here I never can tell which comment is first which one is last.. it is a bit confusing for me.
By admin [Ignore] 26,Nov,14 17:25 other posts 
There is no universal message organization that would be convenient for everyone and for any kind of discussion. Some work better on small discussion but look messy on big discussions, some vise versa. I cracked my head over it trying to make a most convenient structure (not just here, I had several conversational sites).
By admin [Ignore] 26,Nov,14 17:21 other posts 
There is no way to implement what I want here. This site is totally oriented to pic posting, all those forums, blogs and groups were added later as a response to users requests and it seems that many people can't even find them.

I knew about facebook style of informational organization, indeed. It's something that first appeared in early 2000 in Live Journal. It was much simpler than facebook now, but principle is the same. But I never thought of implementing it here until now. But now it's too late to try to lay it over all what's already here.

Recently I figured out, that facebook style is actually what many people expect these days and more than that, if done correctly, it can be very efficient. I don't think that on facebook it's exactly done correctly. Well, I mean it may be exactly what they wanted (probably to connect people that already know each other) and therefore it's correct for them, but it's not what I want. I'm thinking about something that would have all in one feed - messages, blogs, images but with more advanced filtering and targeting using sex, age and location of the members as well as their interests and preferences. I.e. make it connect people that yet don't know each other but may have a lot of common.

It's actually a pity how alone many people still are in this world with all this information technology already available.
By palunko [Ignore] 26,Nov,14 17:40 other posts 
Some advanced filtering would bee surely great stuff.

And what to say about orientation to pic posting ... This is SYD after all hehe, but I understand problem to do something different on site like this one is...

People can easily find forums, blogs and groups , although I don't understand the sense of member groups , I don't see neither forums neither blogs on some specific group interest, just members list...

Also I don't know if that group chat like it is now hit the target, for sure I don't have to read all that idiotic arguments like it was before, in one big group chat, but somehow, I miss that crazy thing (just kidding, I don't miss it!)


By soundsgreat87 [Ignore] 24,Nov,14 16:02 other posts 
Um. Do you have any actual evidence that the site is "slipping into a cauldron of shit" or are you just gonna say that and not back it up?

Maybe you need to get off the forums for a while. It doesn't matter what site you're on, forums ANYWHERE are mostly gonna be a cesspool
By #358797 24,Nov,14 16:14
Uhm... Isn't it obvious enough that this place has changed? You've been here a while, as have I...
I've been on plenty of other sites, and their forums aren't nearly as annoying as this one can be at times... Maybe if the narcissistic fuckwits quit thriving on drama for a while you'd realise how bad it gets...
By soundsgreat87 [Ignore] 25,Nov,14 00:07 other posts 
That's the thing.. I don't frequent the forums here. So.

What I'm saying is that I've never seen a sex-oriented forum that WASN'T mostly drama!
By #477919 26,Nov,14 09:28
Since i left a year ago, there are 20,000 less members.......
By bella! [Ignore] 26,Nov,14 10:30 other posts 
I'm not sure if admin would be able to or interested in commenting and confirming, it is my thought that of the 20,000 "members" that site might be missing since last year, there were not only inactive accounts but members with multiple accounts.
By admin [Ignore] 26,Nov,14 12:07 other posts 
Most of people create an account and abandon it during 1st week on site. So most of those 20'000 were not active members anyway.

And you overestimate amount of duplicate accounts. Even when I was not deleting them, only a few people had more than 20 accounts and several more had 2-4 accounts. Overall that number was never big.


By admin [Ignore] 24,Nov,14 16:32 other posts 
Main problem with this site is people do not find here what they want. And I have no idea what they want. It was always so. Amount of accounts abandoned in first week was always too high. While I managed to occupy good positions in search results this site had constant flow of fresh members, but it was never growing. It's growth always corresponded to its positions in search - it the positions grew amount of members grew, if positions worsened the amount of active members was also dropping. But any good social site is supposed to grow exponentially (to the certain point at least) because people tell one another.

So I can only conclude that this site is not good for most of people.
By #444014 24,Nov,14 16:40
I put ads up on craigslist in the uk advertising this site...it is the best I could do ,as I am in the position as the majority here,in that I do not tell my 'real life friends' that I am a member.


You could maybe consider the dating section of this site as a way to get new members...a lot of guys want to hook up..

How you could make this work is something to ask the members.

If you had a dating section kinda like craigslist with ads it could maybe help get revenue and new members...

I still like this site,but as you state new bl00d keeps things moving...
By #460403 24,Nov,14 16:46
The dating section is a good idea, but it will be overwhelmed if not with spammers and pimps then with countless number of requests which I consider a negative point in credibility!
By #358797 24,Nov,14 16:53
If it's in its own section, those not interested in it can ignore it.
By #444014 24,Nov,14 17:00
I am saying improve on the 'deviant sex' section and make it a totally separate personals section...like the forum instead of at the top of your page...

m4w etc...
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btw did Dev get a commission on the 'deviant sex' section?
By #460403 24,Nov,14 17:12
I have to say this is the first time to click on it
By #444014 24,Nov,14 17:22
You are not a deviant :p

Guys are horndogs...if they are looking for a casual hook up and they can't get one,the next best thing is a five knuckle shuffle and a look at some naked people....

So having the dating/personals/casual encounters section separate would help in google searches ,admin wouldn't be deceiving anyone,as it would be separate,but you could access/get prompted to syd/syc/sio...
By admin [Ignore] 24,Nov,14 17:43 other posts 
I'm not sure what you mean. It is separate. It's on separate domain with separate registration. But since I did not have money to promote it it's not coming up on google at all. This site I was promoting, that's why it was on google. Don't fool yourself, it was not a lucky coincidence.

But then google decided... well, I don't know what they decided, the best I can guess they decided they are not a search engine anymore, but a hand-select catalogue. They now have a huge division that manually blocks sites according to their own taste. So no matter how many links you have to your site it can be buried deep down if they don't like it.

But anyway, at least this site was up. Deviantsex never came up at all and I doubt it ever will. No matter what you do, you are fucked up now. Only if you are a big company with lots of money that can purchase ads heavily for years, you can do internet business now. Honestly, small investing in sites is now more risky than speculating penny stocks...
By #444014 24,Nov,14 17:51
It is separate,but it is located on members pages, I am suggesting moving the location of 'deviant sex'to along side the forum...if that helps make it a bit clearer.


Sites are built on reputation,if people are getting hits/visits google will find a way to get in on it to make money....google is shit anyway..been snooping on peoples private info for too long....google built itself on porn,now it's sticking two fingers up to it...fuckers
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P.S.
I know that 'deviant sex' is on the main pages of syd/syc.
I am saying that making more of that part of the site,should help a little,well I hope...I dunno...just coming up with ideas....that's dangerous I know...
By admin [Ignore] 24,Nov,14 18:17 other posts 
But it was there. Except for showitoff. It was in the menu on main page of syd/syc all along.
By #444014 24,Nov,14 18:18
I apologise for not explaining better...my bad.

'Deviant sex'/hook ups should be the same page style/format as the forum.
By admin [Ignore] 24,Nov,14 20:48 other posts 
If you want a good place for conversations that should be a totally different site that has nothing to do with showing your genitals, dating or sex chatting...
By #358797 24,Nov,14 21:49
I think he meant more along the lines of making it look neater.... More like an organised, forum style appearance instead of its current classified ad look....
By admin [Ignore] 24,Nov,14 22:19 other posts 
I don't know how that would be possible.


By #460403 24,Nov,14 16:06
First thing to come to my mind, put some games on here lol
Tuning for ideas...
By #358797 24,Nov,14 16:15
Oooh. Games are fun... There should be something for those who don't wish to play the dom game...


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