Bicurious is a common description given by men but we never get to know whether they just stay curious. Or,if they do have a connection, how they liked it and whether one session was enough to satisfy their particular curiosity. I am curious to know!
Excellent question and one that has given many thoughts!
I am straight/married but admittedly bi-curious.
I LOVE the look of cocks and like dude porn, especially twink porn. I have never had the opportunity to suck a cook or be sucked but would LOVE to have the opportunity to experiment with a dude. The thought of sucking a limp wennie and have it get hard in my mouth until he cums makes me so horny!
I’m 68 but am attracted to younger dude porn (hairless twinks) but love the look of smooth dudes with nice hairless chests.
[deleted image]I think most men are bi-curious by the way my work buddies stare at my cock in the shower at work. It turns me on, so I put a show on for them now...i shave my balls and everything else in the shower now hehe...I was bi-curious for a long time. I have been naked with a few good friends and it was sooo fun.
I consider myself bi curious. But Im not really attracted to guys. I like dick not dudes. Lol, if that makes any sense. Granted you typically "like" something about a guy to put his dick in your mouth but for me, I appreciate a nice cock. Thats kinda where Im at with the topic.
It's like just looking at nice penises, but not wanting anything sexual, or relationships!! It's like WOW, his is nice, and maybe a little fantasy, when masturbating, thinking about that one?
It's OK to identify as STRAIGHT, but still, sometimes have some feelings, some thoughts and fantasies, and it's TOTALLY OK to Identify as STRIAGHT, but sometimes jerk off to some cute penis!! It doesn't "make you gay" at all!!
Sometimes, we identify one way, and for some unknown reason, feel things, and it is OK to explore those!
Why is the social expectation that we are all either one way, or another?
Life is shades of gray (No pun intended, I didn't read the book, yet) and you can love women, in your 'real' world, and still be 'normal' thinking about what it might be like to do things that you wouldn't really do with guys!!
Just let your imagination go, and feel what you feel, and know that it is normal to wonder, or image it, and get off to those fantasies!!
You should probably keep it private, unless your girlfriend/wife/other is ok with it!
There is another little known fact that relates to what you just said. Men of one sexual orientation often have dreams/fantasies of the other. In other words straight men have gay fantasies and gay men have straight fantasies. I'm as gay as they come, but I often have straight fantasies. And no, that does not make me bisexual.
Generally, we gay men are better at taking our straight fantasies in stride. But straight men often freak out when they have a gay fantasy. Relax guys, it's alright and you're completely normal. Even if you take it to the point of acting on your fantasy that's still OK.
Well, relax and don't hold back. It's highly unlikely that she will freak out and/or be put off by the knowledge that you sometimes have gay fantasies. Indeed, it will probably be a turn on. It has been my experience as a gay man that being gay is a Major Babe Magnet.
For what it's worth, I once had a straight friend with whom I had a dalliance from time to time. Our first encounter began with a kiss and boy, did he like to kiss. After that his standard greeting when we met was a kiss, no matter where we were or who was present. And not just a quick buss on the cheek or peck on the lips, but a full on wet French kiss. I think he enjoyed the shock value of doing this.
One time I ran into him when he was out on a date with a lady. After his usual French kiss greeting, he introduced her to me. She offered her hand and I shook it. I kissed him and shook hands with her. Go figure. The next time I saw him he told me that she was so turned on by seeing men kiss that when he got her home she fucked and sucked like a wild woman.
OK Ananas2xLekker and any other straight men who might be reading this, if you want better sex with your girlfriend, lay a big, wet French kiss on one of your buddies while she can see it. It WILL turn her on.
Having buddies who would not completely freak out if I french kissed them would be nice. I have tried if she would be open to it, with bisexual porn. She didn't like it.
Still, thanks for your insight.
For further insight you might want to pull up two of my Forum posts: "Same Sex Kissing" and "Things Every Man Should Do at Least Once". An easy way to do this is to click on "other posts" next to my name. This will bring up all of my Forum posts and my recent comments on others' posts.
Yes many, probably most, straight men would probably freak out at the idea of French kissing a guy. But there is movement in this direction. See my Forum post. Some, not many but some, straight men now greet each other with a kiss. And members of the Hell's Angels Motorcycle Club have been doing it for decades.
Moving on to your girlfriend, you cannot let her dictate how you run your life. If an occasional man-on-man contact is important to you, then you've got to be able to do it. With or without her permission. It would be nice if she could join you in this and you could have a nice MMF three way, but if she won't, you'll just have to go it alone. If she cannot accept this, then she's not the girl for you.
And pleas do not try to smother this desire. It will not go away and if not satisfied, it could drive you to doing risky things. Let it happen in a safe and controlled way.
My wife and I entered our relationship with total disclosure of each others lives. Admitting my bi-sexuality was the hardest thing to do. but I did, she accepted it and we now have the most fulfilling sex life I've known in years. Do you lie to yourself, her, and or your relationship? If you love each other, then honesty is the ONLY policy.
Yes, you are. But eventually, you are the only one that can decide whether of not to act on those emotions. You need only know, that there are those out here who will be willing to help you make that transition, ONLY when you are ready to.
Yes. Lol. You might as well give it a try (most guys have in pretty sure), and keep in mind its not like you ever have to tell anyone if you don't want people to know or whatever.
Long before I tried it, I acknowledged to myself that I was attracted to other men's cocks, even if I wasn't romantically attracted to men. That feeling of liking other cocks has only grown over the years and I find that I want to look at gay porn as often as hetero porn. I haven't had a first-hand experience with another cock for many years, but continue to hope it'll happen. I'm not sure if I can call myself bisexual but I'm definitely something more than just straight.
There is no 'sexual orientation, in Fantasy play!! How many guys play a female character in online games?
In fantasy, just relax, and it is FANTASY!! Enjoy it!!
I was the same. I was a member of a couple of adult social network sites, which have since closed down. I used to enjoy reading comments on my pics from men and women, and I would look at other men's pics and sometimes comment on them. I would also masturbate to cock pics and vids, and exchange messages with men. I wondered what it would be like to suck another man's cock, and one day, I got an opportunity to find out. Read about it here:
I been bi curious for a long time since i was a teenager i remember sucking my old child hood friends dick in the back of my house in the summer of 1990. An I'm happy and proud to be bi curious i mess with both girl's and guy's.
I am married and never been with a guy. I do however have my wife fuck the life out of me with a strapon, maybe once a month (not enough 😂. We share our fantasies and the main one seems to be joining another couple for a night of ‘all holes’ action! Everything goes hope that happens soon
I am like that me too I like to see photos of cocks and buttocks of men but I never had relations with them even if sometimes the photos excites me a lot...
I am straight/married but admittedly bi-curious.
I LOVE the look of cocks and like dude porn, especially twink porn. I have never had the opportunity to suck a cook or be sucked but would LOVE to have the opportunity to experiment with a dude. The thought of sucking a limp wennie and have it get hard in my mouth until he cums makes me so horny!
I’m 68 but am attracted to younger dude porn (hairless twinks) but love the look of smooth dudes with nice hairless chests.
I love hard tanned dude nipples.
There is no romantic attraction and I would not kiss as man.
Sometimes, we identify one way, and for some unknown reason, feel things, and it is OK to explore those!
Why is the social expectation that we are all either one way, or another?
Life is shades of gray (No pun intended, I didn't read the book, yet) and you can love women, in your 'real' world, and still be 'normal' thinking about what it might be like to do things that you wouldn't really do with guys!!
Just let your imagination go, and feel what you feel, and know that it is normal to wonder, or image it, and get off to those fantasies!!
You should probably keep it private, unless your girlfriend/wife/other is ok with it!
Generally, we gay men are better at taking our straight fantasies in stride. But straight men often freak out when they have a gay fantasy. Relax guys, it's alright and you're completely normal. Even if you take it to the point of acting on your fantasy that's still OK.
For what it's worth, I once had a straight friend with whom I had a dalliance from time to time. Our first encounter began with a kiss and boy, did he like to kiss. After that his standard greeting when we met was a kiss, no matter where we were or who was present. And not just a quick buss on the cheek or peck on the lips, but a full on wet French kiss. I think he enjoyed the shock value of doing this.
One time I ran into him when he was out on a date with a lady. After his usual French kiss greeting, he introduced her to me. She offered her hand and I shook it. I kissed him and shook hands with her. Go figure. The next time I saw him he told me that she was so turned on by seeing men kiss that when he got her home she fucked and sucked like a wild woman.
OK Ananas2xLekker and any other straight men who might be reading this, if you want better sex with your girlfriend, lay a big, wet French kiss on one of your buddies while she can see it. It WILL turn her on.
Still, thanks for your insight.
Yes many, probably most, straight men would probably freak out at the idea of French kissing a guy. But there is movement in this direction. See my Forum post. Some, not many but some, straight men now greet each other with a kiss. And members of the Hell's Angels Motorcycle Club have been doing it for decades.
Moving on to your girlfriend, you cannot let her dictate how you run your life. If an occasional man-on-man contact is important to you, then you've got to be able to do it. With or without her permission. It would be nice if she could join you in this and you could have a nice MMF three way, but if she won't, you'll just have to go it alone. If she cannot accept this, then she's not the girl for you.
And pleas do not try to smother this desire. It will not go away and if not satisfied, it could drive you to doing risky things. Let it happen in a safe and controlled way.
Good luck.
In fantasy, just relax, and it is FANTASY!! Enjoy it!!
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