I, too, think I'm a nice guy, despite the fact that I'm being attacked by morons here simply because I like to fuck and show and watch. The drink is in me man, a nice cold beer while we're enjoying a warm summer evening.
I'm glad you did too.
It's really sad that this society makes us think positively about destructive things (wars, nationalism, etc.) and negatively about pleasure, especially pleasure that benefits those indulging in it.
You're lucky you can go to an all men's sauna and enjoy it. I can't do the same with a mixer sauna (I only like girls). So, for me, and, in general, most of heterosexuals, finding themselves in the company of many naked women remains an unfulfilled dream. Older, mostly pre Christian societies, knew that this was something people should experience in their lives and had no qualms about restricting it.
So, count your blessings that you're homosexuality inclined and that this gives you the opportunity to enjoy yourself, especially now that you've convinced yourself that you do nothing wrong by being in the company of similarly minded men. Sorry I'm not one of them, but I fully support you.
Here's a good way to masturbate.
Rub your cock against her pussy, paying special attention to her clit.
Immediate and intense benefits for both.
Why masturbate alone when you can benefit someone else at the same time?
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It's impossible to implement your (rational, reasonable) plan. Not in the US. The NRA runs the country. It's more likely that you wake up tomorrow morning with 100 billion dollars in your bank account than the US getting rid of guns. The chance is zero.
But now you feel much more free, right?
Can you go to a men's sauna and enjoy it?
I used to be very reserved too when I was younger.
I've always had a HUGE libido. But I couldn't approach girls. I missed so many opportunities because I thought I was worse than others. I'm trying to make up for the lost time now.
We grow up in societies that repress us,
so much so that we don't understand that
what's normal shouldn't be suppressed.
Isn't this really totally embarrassing?
If I were in his place I'd have to resign out if sheer embarrassment. To feel that everyone in the world is laughing at your ignorance is something that would be intolerable.