Recent Posts of member spermkiss

Topics:

Short Pants -- An Encouraging Sign 02,Jun,18 19:09
"Relationship Goals", "Cute Couple", "Perfect Couple" etc. 24,Dec,16 13:12
The King of Thailand 14,Oct,16 14:33
Norway 12,Jul,16 17:06
Hong Kong 19,Oct,15 12:24
Gay Men in Military Service 24,Sep,15 14:05
Victory in Ireland 23,May,15 23:04
A Note about routemaster 29,Mar,15 14:18
The Evolution of Gay Sex 07,Mar,15 19:16
Things Every Man Should Do at Least Once 19,Dec,12 19:34
A Heartwarming Story for Christmas 17,Dec,12 15:26
Same Sex Kissing 18,Apr,11 18:13
Fishing for Compliments on the Forum 23,Mar,11 01:28
A Note to Japanese Members of SYD 16,Mar,11 18:08
An Appeal for Civilized Conduct on the Forum 07,Dec,10 01:52
A message from spermkiss 30,Oct,10 14:01

Posts:

By spermkiss at 11,Sep,19 13:31
Sexual orientation is hard wired into one's brain so the answer is "Born that way".

Whether one acts on that orientation is another matter. So many anti-gay people (men mostly) claim that being gay is a choice gay men make. That is, of course, nonsense. Writer and sex advice columnist Dan Savage makes the interesting point that these homophobes very well might be deeply closeted gay men who made the choice NOT to act on their gay tendencies. Chapter 5 "The Choicer Challenge" in his book "American Savage" is must reading on this subject. Indeed, the entire book is must reading.



By spermkiss at 10,Sep,19 19:22
My favorite things to do (in order):

1. Suck cock
2. Suck cock
3. Suck cock
4. Lick ass
5. Suck cock
6. Get sucked
7. Suck cock
8. Have my ass licked
9. Suck cock

By the way, have I ever mentioned that I really, really, really like to suck cock?



By spermkiss at 09,Sep,19 13:05
It sure is. Playing with you own dick is fun, but playing with another man's dick is more fun.



By spermkiss at 04,Sep,19 13:59
What if jacking off were your job? Think about porn stars. They report to work, punch the clock, have ass and crotch makeup applied, and spend the work day showing off their goods and having sex. It's a tough job, but someone has to do it.



By spermkiss at 03,Sep,19 15:27
Ah, yes, crabs. Another good reason to go hairless.



By spermkiss at 03,Sep,19 12:30
I'm old enough to remember when body shaving was virtually unheard of except for competitive swimmers and bodybuilders. But as sex advice columnist Dan Savage has noted in his column, manscaping has been around for more than three decades now and it just doesn't seem to ever go out of style. It started with gay men (we're oh so often the trend setters) and now has gone totally mainstream. Many, perhaps most, men do it to a greater or lessor degree.

What do I like? I can definitely go either way. There are some really attractive pubic bushes posted on this Forum topic and on the general pages of the site. But a totally hairless male body is ultra hot. One of my favorites is smooth-cock. Interestingly, I find hairy legs really sexy. A guy with really hairy legs who has shaved of his pubic patch is sexy.

What have I done myself? I'm totally hairless from the neck down. Permanently, with laser hair removal. And I wear a beard.

What should other men do? Begin by pulling up my Forum post "Things Every Man Should Do at Least Once". One of the items is shave his entire body, just to see what it's like. Do it, guys. You're not doing anything permanent as the hair will grow back.



By spermkiss at 01,Sep,19 11:39
What do you want? Oral service to climax? Sure, I'll give you that, no strings attached. All you have to do is lean back, relax and enjoy it.



By spermkiss at 26,Aug,19 14:39
Thank you, thank you, thank you. If only more straight men thought like you and made their cocks available to cocksuckers.



By spermkiss at 26,Aug,19 14:36
"The feeling of his cock spasming as he comes is intoxicating." Spoken like a true cocksucker.



By spermkiss at 26,Aug,19 14:31
Of course you are right. For two (or more) buddies to swap blow jobs and to swallow each other's sperm is the ultimate in male bonding. But as you also point out, it's also quite satisfying when it goes just one way. And it's a total win/win situation. The man being sucked gets oral service and gets his nut off. What man doesn't like that? The cocksucker gets the pleasure and satisfaction of having brought another man to climax. And he gets a load of man juice.



By spermkiss at 24,Aug,19 11:26
The risk of being seen is a major part of the appeal of an outdoor shoot.



By spermkiss at 23,Aug,19 12:25
No matter how it's done, the most important part of cocksucking is to take the man all the way to climax and SWALLOW HIS LOAD.



By spermkiss at 23,Aug,19 12:22
"Big nose, big hose"

"big feet, big meat"

And for a man with large testicles and a small dick:
"All potatoes and no meat"



By spermkiss at 18,Aug,19 16:40
Bless you.



By spermkiss at 18,Aug,19 16:38
OK, as a cocksucker I'll give you some insight. First of all, as you say it's always men. These guys may be cocksuckers, they may be gay (and as you also wisely pointed out they may be straight), but they are still men and they know how good it feels to get a nut off. But there are only a finite number of times a man can climax in one day. So even for the most potent of men there are a limited number of blow jobs he can receive. But there is no limit to the number of blow jobs he can give. That's what makes sucking guys off my all time favorite sex act. There is no limit to the number of times I can do it. I've sucked off as many as twelve men in one evening. There is no way I could climax that many times myself. I doubt any man could.

Addressing now why cocksuckers like to do it. As I said earlier, they are still men and they know how good it feels to get a nut off. To know that I have given that pleasure to another man is enormously rewarding, satisfying and fulfilling. It's a real feeling of accomplishment. And I am rewarded for my effort with a nice creamy load of man juice. That's a living product of the man's body as there are live sperm cells swimming around in that fluid. That sperm will go down into my gut, be digested and turn into muscle tissue in my body. Part of him will become part of me. Eating another man's sperm gives a level of closeness like nothing else. True brotherhood of men.

I've kinda blabbed on here, but I hope my remarks give you some insight. And please, keep making your dick available to cocksuckers.



By spermkiss at 18,Aug,19 14:40
Enjoy!



By spermkiss at 18,Aug,19 12:55
Ah yes, rimming. Cocksucking, both giving and receiving, has got to be the number one sex act because that's what gets the nut off. But rimming has got to be the most intimate act. After all, when a man drops his pants his dick and balls are out there for all to see, but his asshole is still hidden away between his butt cheeks. It takes a certain effort to expose it. Licking that part of a man's body shows a level of trust and intimacy that no other act does.



By spermkiss at 18,Aug,19 12:48
You're just an all around great guy. Not only do you make your dick available for sucking, but you make your asshole available for licking. Cheers.



By spermkiss at 18,Aug,19 12:45
Make it happen, man. You won't regret it. You have a good physique and a fine dick so you shouldn't have any trouble locating another man to have a romp with. Do it and let us know how it went.



By spermkiss at 18,Aug,19 12:37
What an interesting post. No I've never known someone exactly like this and I've been with hundreds of men. The closest I've seen is a guy who specialized in hand jobs but did other things as well.

I notice on your page that while you self identify as straight, you are quite willing to make your dick available to gay cocksuckers. We cocksuckers thank you, man. I wish there were more straight men like you.
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I am going to presume that the two hand job videos on your page are of this gentleman giving you manual service. Correct?



By spermkiss at 18,Aug,19 12:23
Of course there are a lot of gay men here, I'm a long time member and I'm as gay as they come. But most members self identify as straight as does Mr thebeewolf. As he so correctly states, many men, perhaps most men, like showing off their dicks and like looking at other men's dicks. It's a guy thing, not a gay thing.



By spermkiss at 18,Aug,19 12:13
Exactly.



By spermkiss at 17,Aug,19 12:15
But you wish it were.

Years ago when I was younger and single and a lot more frisky, one of the things I liked to do was go to the baths and sit on the floor next to the door of the steam room and suck the cock of every man who came in. OK, I was a cocksucker slut.



By spermkiss at 17,Aug,19 12:10
Of course you are right. But pretty much any place it is socially acceptable for a man to be nude (nude beach, locker room, gym showers, etc) it is also acceptable to have an erection SO LONG AS HE DOESN'T FLAUNT IT. Sure, erections are a sign of sexual arousal, but as every man knows the penis has a mind of its own. Spontaneous erections can and do occur and they can happen pretty much at any time or in any place. If one happens in a public or semi-public place and the man continues going about his business as if he didn't have an erection without flaunting it or attempting to hide it, in all likelihood everyone will pretend not to notice.



By spermkiss at 16,Aug,19 18:13
One time when I was at a nude beach there was a guy there with a camera. (Yes, I know that a camera at a nude beach is a faux pas, but I didn't mind and he did ask permission before taking any photos.) In any event when he started taking pictures it got me very excited and it wasn't long before I had a standing up and throbbing hard-on. Others gathered around and I decided to put on a jack off show for them and the man with the camera. Fun.



By spermkiss at 16,Aug,19 12:23
So is your mouth like a police station with dicks running in and out all night?



By spermkiss at 14,Aug,19 11:37
Don't hide your erection. Erections are normal and natural and nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. If you get one in public just keep on doing whatever you'd be doing if you didn't have an erection. You should neither flaunt it nor attempt to hide it.



By spermkiss at 13,Aug,19 18:59
Getting caught is part of the fun.



By spermkiss at 12,Aug,19 11:28
That's not a fetish, it's normal male behavior. Men -- all men, not just gay and bisexual men -- like to look at other men's dicks. And men like to show off their dicks. These are guy things. The popularity of this site proves these points.

So guys, whip it out, take photos of it, post those photos and enjoy looking at other guys' photos without shame or guilt. Dicks are lovely.



By spermkiss at 09,Aug,19 11:46
Exactly.



By spermkiss at 09,Aug,19 11:46
A dick that looks like yours for starters. A well shaped "helmet head" glans, perfect proportion between glans size and shaft length and diameter. Your circumcision is a plus as that's the kind of dick I prefer, but I've also seen some really attractive intact dicks.



By spermkiss at 06,Aug,19 17:14
Oh the charm of innocent youth. If only more grown men would be comfortable getting a full standing up and throbbing erection in a semi public place like a locker room and go about their routine as if it were the most natural thing in the world.



By spermkiss at 01,Aug,19 14:15
That should be obvious. If you look at the full title it says "Most Popular for the last Five Days".



By spermkiss at 29,Jul,19 15:45
My dear Madam,

As a gay man who has done anal hundreds of times, both as inserter and as receptor, may I give you a few words of advice?

First, my own experience. As receptor if I'm not absolutely positive my ass is scrupulously clean, both on the outside and dick length deep on the inside, I just won't let guys go there. As a result I've never had an embarrassing moment like this.

However as inserter I've had guys practically beg me to fuck them and when I did, I ended up with a shitty dick. I don't know what's with these guys. They had to have known they weren't ready. It seems as though they wanted to get their skatt (I'm using your spelling to avoid the censor) all over me.

Moving on to your situation. My guess here is that Mike was so horned up he wanted your ass regardless of the consequences. Despite your warnings it was "Full speed ahead, damn the tor****es". That's thinking with his small head instead of with his big head and we men are often guilty of that. To his credit he did not try to shame or belittle you about this, but rather he laughed it off and you hit the showers.

An underlying question here is "Is he into skatt?" Distressing as it is to think about, some people are. That's a whole different can of worms that I really don't want to open because I don't think he is. But you know him better than I, and if you have reason to believe he is, it will be up to you to re-evaluate him and your relationship.

Regards, spermkiss
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Despite my attempt to avoid the censors, it happened. The censored word is t-o-r-p-e-d-o-e-s.



By spermkiss at 25,Jul,19 11:08
Of the things we men have to do for scientific research, getting one's cock sucked probably tops the list.



By spermkiss at 24,Jul,19 13:25
"...others wouldn't be able to get it up..."

That's when it really becomes a dream job. If your job is to measure erect penises and you come across one that is not erect, then you must do what needs to be done to get it that way. Nothing is off the table, be it hands, fingers, lips and tongue. Purely for the sake of scientific research.



By spermkiss at 21,Jul,19 13:31
I wish more straight men thought like you. We cocksuckers have been sucking off straight men since the beginning of mankind and as I said previously it's totally a win/win situation. The man being sucked gets satisfying oral service and he gets his nut off. What man doesn't like that? And the cocksucker gets the excitement, pleasure, satisfaction and feeling of accomplishment of having brought another man to orgasmic climax. And he is rewarded with a load of rich creamy man juice.

But every now and then some smart ass will come along and say that any man who lets another man suck his cock isn't really straight and it scares off the straight guys. Fortunately, they come back.

I want to add, too, that not all cocksuckers are gay. I certainly am; I'm as gay as pink ink. But there are a lot of men out there who self identify as straight but who like to suck guys off. In my personal life I've known several. See my exchange with RealTitsLover below.



By spermkiss at 20,Jul,19 10:57
And the cocksuckers of this world thank you.



By spermkiss at 18,Jun,19 10:35
Not any more but I used to be.



By spermkiss at 18,Jun,19 10:34
This is, of course, the world famous penis of the legendary smooth-cock. This gentleman takes such stunning photographs of his truly fine penis and I have spent many happy moments gazing upon them in total rapture. And they circulate widely. I have discovered them all over the internet.

I have to agree that this lovely penis is pretty close to perfection. A well shaped "helmet head" glans, a nice straight shaft, perfect proportion between shaft length and diameter and glans size and finished up with a fine pair of testicles. All told, a true work of art. We should all thank Mr smooth-cock for putting this beauty on display.



By spermkiss at 15,Jun,19 22:26
And you eminently succeed.



By spermkiss at 11,Jun,19 18:20
I know you are trying to get caught.



By spermkiss at 10,Jun,19 12:00
No I have not, but as I said previously I've been to several numerous times here in the USA. Virtually always they have pretty strict no drugs policies. I rather expect this is because they do not want to be raided. What happens in a private room with the door closed is another matter. And I have never seen drunks in one. I expect that the man at the door won't let them in.



By spermkiss at 10,Jun,19 11:47
Man, with the portfolio on photos you have posted, many fully nude and face showing, it ain't gonna remain a secret. Hey, you're a cocksucker. Own it and be proud of it. Real men suck cocks.



By spermkiss at 09,Jun,19 14:42
Do it, guys! Sucking another man off is something every man should do at least once in his life. You'll be glad you did.



By spermkiss at 08,Jun,19 12:53
It's not as grim as this gentleman makes it out to be and the free-for-all anonymous sex can be, and usually is, a lot of fun. Furthermore, in the hundreds of times I visited bath houses, I don't think I've ever seen a drunken person in one.

One of the things I always enjoyed doing was sitting on the floor next to the door in the steam room and sucking the cock of every man as he came in. Generally I wouldn't even look up to see his face, just suck his cock. These sucks were rarely to climax (though some were) because the goal was to see how many cocks, twenty, thirty or more in an hour's time, I could have in my mouth.

The camaraderie among the gentlemen in bath houses and at sex clubs can be, and usually is, quite lovely. Sure, it's sex, sex and more sex, but the attitude is such that one is having sex with the entire gay community.

So go with the right attitude and have fun.



By spermkiss at 02,Jun,19 12:58
OK, may I weigh in on this subject? I've worn a cock ring pretty much 24/7/365 for the last 20 years so I do have some experience with them. Yes, I wore mine to medical appointments, even with a urologist, and no doctor has ever so much as batted an eye much less commented on it, so I guess it's not harmful.

First, to answer your question about wide or narrow, stick with the wide. It was my experience with a narrow ring that it really started to "bite" and become painful after an hour or so, especially with an erection. In your "home made" photos the rings look like O-rings you picked up in the plumbing aisle of your neighborhood hardware store. Didn't they become painful?

Now about material. I wore both neoprene rings and metal rings and both caused my skin to break out, even a ring that claimed to be surgical stainless steel. This may or may not be a problem for you, for me it did not manifest itself until a few months had passed. My solution was to wear a chi-ld size jade bracelet. I visit Hong Kong with some regularity ('been 13 times) and they can be purchased in the jade market there for only two or three dollars each. I travel a lot and the jade bracelet has the advantage of not setting off the metal detector in airport security lines.

Finally, a word of advice. When you're wearing a ring and get an erection, don't panic when you find you cannot get it off. Your dick will eventually go soft and you'll be able to remove the ring if you wish. As I said at the outset, I wear mine 24/7/365 and it does not in any way interfere with the normal functioning of my dick. I get hard, I get soft, I can urinate and I can ejaculate. Everything works fine.



By spermkiss at 29,May,19 12:16
Years ago on a tour or Europe I had an overnight ride on the legendary Orient Express. The historic coaches had a sink in each roomette but no toilet. That was at the end of each coach. Well, I never make it thru the night without having to get up and pee at least once. Since I didn't want to leave the roomette and go to the end of the coach, I peed in the sink. In telling that story the next day, a woman on our tour was mortified that I had done that. So I went on, explaining that the coaches were more than sixty years old and every sink on the train had probably been peed in numerous times. That shocked her even more. Perhaps she had washed her face in her own sink that morning.



By spermkiss at 29,May,19 11:34
Exactly. A man should NEVER wear underpants when he's wearing short pants, especially short shorts or any length shorts made with thin and/or mesh fabric. Visibility of one's goods is the reason. Any SYD member should understand that.



By spermkiss at 28,May,19 12:07
Who doesn't? The vast majority of men like putting their potency on public display. Just look at the number of jack off videos posted on this very site.