As most of you who have read my blog posts know, my much beloved Mona and I used to be HEAVILY into the 'swinger' life. OMG where we.... We hosted all MANNER of group gropes, gang bangs, 3, 4-ways you name it with the one constant being SEX.. Sex sex and MORE sex... LOL!

Now over the years, I've talked to a lot of people who think that they would love to experience that sort of thing and the one thing I ALWAYS ask them up front is this.....

How would you feel about watching your beloved partner, significant other, girlfriend/boyfriend, husband or wife getting fucked silly by somebody else?

As always, the fantasy is quite a bit different than the reality and it's NOT easy watching that sort of thing my friends unless you're 'built' that way to begin with.

I've seen the 'green monster' rear it's ugly head right in the middle of a good group grope and it's NOT PRETTY..

By 'green monster' I mean jealousy.. Plain and simple...

In any of it's MANY forms...

It spells disaster to ANYBODY even thinking about 'swinging'.... It WILL destroy a relationship in a heartbeat my friends....

I'm VERY fortunate in that I do NOT have a jealous bone in my body and in fact, I'm the exact OPPOSITE! I LOVE watching my much beloved Mona get a good fucking at the hands (or dick actually) of some stud! There's almost nothing that turns me on MORE.. Hell, I'll be the #1 cheerleader in the room, urging him ON!!

Now I'd be lying if I said Mona came by this immediately and naturally because she didn't.. It took her a little bit to a) understand that I LOVED her and enjoyed watching her with other people and b) for HER to get over her OWN jealousy watching ME fucking some nubile woman or even more so, sucking on some guys dick!! (There's a post for another day right there!)

It also took a bit for her to come around to whole idea of just having sex with others in general actually..

But we talked it out thoroughly and she finally came around and understood that I do IN FACT LOVE her very very very much and want NOTHING more than her happiness..

That's the KEY my friends.. COMMUNICATION!! Open, honest, direct communications and if one of you is NOT willing to go for it, then DON'T risk your relationship...


Thoughts? What has been YOUR experience?