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By hypoboy [Ignore] 30,Jun,19 01:38   Pageviews: 188




when i see this recent picture of my own stiffy i ultimately think to myself "nice picture, great body but the fully erected penis looks so small!"

Especially comparing with many erected dicks on the syd frontpage it really looks tiny and it appears strange to the eye that it's not much longer on the picture. It kind of makes me feel unlucky and sad that on that big blue sky there's such a visual gap of nonexistent length and girth...

What do you think, with which mindset should or could i get over this shortcoming to think it should look so much longer? How can i feel more confident when comparing myself with much bigger guys? on which reasons can i build better self-esteem upon as a very sexual guy?

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By grttng69 [Ignore] 27,Sep,20 14:59
Just simply ENJOY what you have! I always did as I am not at all HUNG! I made up for the size by being an unselfish lover. NOW I WISH I COULD JUST GET HARD! Don't be so hard on yourself!
As others have said you're confident with your body and should be just as confident in your beautiful cock!
ENJOY IT!
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By new2day [Ignore] 29,Dec,19 07:54
You have a fine looking cock, you're clearly confident about displaying and sharing pics and experiences here, and that is to be appluaded. Yes sites like this attract the well hung guys who love to show off, but there are many more of us who are just average, and we too should not be ashamed to be seen. Porn is especially damaging to self esteem, and it's very easy to fall into a spiral of self pity and feelings of inadequacy.

I've had these thoughts myself, even though I am average in length and a little more in girth, seeing my shrunken cock when I look down used to get me down. I've spent enough time in gym changing rooms (when people used to shower together) to know that I am far from alone. I also enjoy going to nudist clubs and beaches where you see all shapes and sizes... mostly small and average I should add. It's a great environment to be in, there's no judgement, just enjoy the sunshine and be naked.

So I've learned to by happy and confident, especially while naked. Strange perhaps, but I often feel more confident talking to women while naked! Perhaps it's because I'm more relaxed.
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By #571593 [Ignore] 18,Dec,19 22:46
All these comments are helpful in a way! But let me ask you: "ARE YOU KIDDING ME?" You are very sexy with a beautiful body! Quit comparing and love what you have (Which is spectacular!). No matter what size, there are people that will admire and love your manhood!
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By #518391 [Ignore] 15,Dec,19 05:37
when I look at my own hard cock its size looks OK, but when I compare it with others I see how small and thin it is....but this site has given me much more confidence in being nude in locker room and shower situations....there are other guys with small cocks and generally nobody gives a damn whether you sport a 4 incher or an 8 incher...I;ve had a lot of positive comments here, so I now just strip off and don't worry...
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By #13898 [Ignore] 30,Nov,19 12:28
Lady friend of mine, who has been around a lot, is not shy to announce that she does not want to be injured by cocks that are over size. Experience has taught her to take a look as soon as the weapon is "out" and before she gets stabbed with it. Too long and she gets dressed and goes home. Investigation of porn sites where speculums are used for display reveals what a previous contributor wrote: The uterus is not very far inside. Professional porn stars get used to accommodating "exhibition" cocks with practice and for financial reward. My friend also has a distaste for uncut cocks citing hygiene.
From my bisexual perspective, the bigger the better provided it is stiff and hard. Above about 115-120 cm, the blood pressure required to achieve a standing erection (think weight and moment arm) is beyond human physiology and the result is almost invariably droopy and frequently needs manual assistance if used for penetration.
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By #588327 [Ignore] 03,Jul,19 06:41
We learn body shame I think. Because we are told our bodies are shameful. We are told we have hide our penis and balls because just seeing them is so shocking other people can't handle seeing them. We are told we are exposing ourselves if people see use naked. Then they tell use being naked in locker rooms ok. See the double standard. Plus how we are raised in family is factor. I wouldn't take my shirt off in front of family because the judge our bodies. Couple years ago I went to nudist place and was naked and felt more comfortable. I think it's kinda the same thing in locker room. Guys can be naked free from judgement for the most part and and guys can enjoy that freedom. Plus seeing everyone naked is fun.
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By #582402 [Ignore] 01,Jul,19 03:22
You have no reason to be concerned. Over the years, as I wished I had a bigger cock, I kept hearing comments about it, like" you have a really sexy cock" or " I could touch and suck your cock all night cuz it looks so nice" and that has taught me it doesn't have to be big, but good looking is a big thing too and now I'm completely content with mine. You sir, have a very nice looking cock and therefore should be quite happy as well!!
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By hypoboy [Ignore] 01,Jul,19 05:12
"you have no reason to be concerned" sounds so gooood :-)

Actually, with guys and ladies, both seem to find me and my body to be attractive and once my cock is out & hard nobody has ever rejected to play with it hehe... Thankfully, in addition to that i have found a great wife who adores my body and loves my penis exactly the way it is. Even that i am cut was her preferred condition - and i had no choice over that when i was a 4yo boy o.

Thank you for your charming penis appraisal - you just made me happy about my dick


By #518391 [Ignore] 01,Jul,19 02:18
As I get older I have come to terms with my small cock and have no worries about showing it off in the locker room and showers...people can think what they will- so what and I don't feel humiliated as I did when I was younger. It has served me well and done a good job of satisfying my wife and producing children and I still have a lot of fun with it. I also feel better about its looks since my circumcision 10 years ago ( and, by the way, sex and wanking now also feel better too!) So, let it all hang out and don't worry about size!
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By hypoboy [Ignore] 01,Jul,19 04:11
wow Sir, i am really happy to read you have come to much better terms with your cock and like your late circumcision so much! Glad you show it off with pride - after all your penis managed a lot of things in life, provided pleasure and created new life - just as my own dick as well.

All men should be able to say such strong and convincing words like you just did. It is sad that humans can be so brutal sometimes and make fun of other people's body parts - even though nobody can chose them. Keep it "coming" Sir!
By #518391 [Ignore] 01,Jul,19 04:50
Thanks for your kind words...I have found this site has given me much more confidence in showing off my cock and accepting its size...I've had some nice comments about it so I don't feel shy when stripping off in the locker room. I wish we men were more open about discussing subjects like this among ourselves...after all women seem to do so without any problems!


By #569341 [Ignore] 01,Jul,19 02:50
I know nothing of sexual intercourse with men, but i see that you classify yourself as bisexual. The average woman is only 14cm deep and the G-Spot is usually only 6-7cm deep. The old saying “it’s how you use it” applies (i’m rather large and can “use it”, but there are plenty of big guys that can’t) - you say you are sexual and you look like a fit guy; sex is more about confidence/skill/endurance than size. The down-curve on your head would be perfect to stimulate a G-Spot in “doogy-style” too!
I honestly applaud you for going through what you’ve been through and still radiating confidence. That’s pretty much what i see when i see your pics and read your story - a sexually-confident guy who has dealt with adversity; and has a cooler dick than most of us.
Chin up, brother - never lose that confidence and realise being good sexually is skill-based (((: 👍👍👍🤝🥃
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By hypoboy [Ignore] 01,Jul,19 04:29
whoaa, what an awesome post my friend, when can we meet and compare our hard cocks - oh sorry, you're straight... ;-)

if feels really flattering and warm when someone who is even hung himself is writing with such a great perspective for my special situation. Especially the imagination of a vagina of 14cm and g-SPot at 6-7 cm helps a lot to understand that you really don't need a longer penis even though it is so desirable by society and media.

Thank you very much! Your words are encouraging and they bring me to a level of understanding that no matter what size, we all have cocks that eventually get hard and do their jobs - even when your super X-large or micro-tiny - the ultimate goal is your next fat cumshot and that's all that matters! In such perspective and when taking care of the climax of your partners as well (be it by your cock or hands, tongue etc.), size becomes entirely irrelevant!

Let's say you watch 2 couples having sex at the same time. both have a great time and a orgasmic ending - was it better for couple B as Mr. B had a BC? I guess no, both guys had some great orgasms and a great time fucking around.


It is what it is, nobody can change it and nobody had the power to even chose it - so better use it like there's no tomorrow

A cock is a cock no matter what size: as long as it get's hard, you have some stamina and use your passion you are doing the right thing
By #569341 [Ignore] 01,Jul,19 04:40
Mate, i’m a realist. This site is very little to do with anything sexual for me - we are not formally friends, but i don’t think you have anything to worry about - stay confident, keep your stamina up and keep studying sexual anatomy. If i really made you actually smile and take in my genuine encouragement and respect, that’s my job on the site done for the day (((:


By up-for-it [Ignore] 30,Jun,19 02:44
Comparing ourselves with others is normal,not Always a good thing!

When we look around on this site we do see many well hung fit guys, being not that type of man we feel a little down.

I'm not fit, not even young anymore and certainly not well hung. But when i visit the sauna i do get atttention from guys who are fit and well hung even younger sometimes. They have a choice there still some choose to have fun with me.


I still could do with a bigger dick but i can be sexually attractive to others even when in my head i am not. Some guys tell i am just the type they are looking for the type they are are attrackted to.

So be sure our dick may not be standing out for the obvous reason, he is still standing out for some, even if we don't think so ourselves.

Concentrate less on what you think, more on the fact that people are sexually attracted to you, they go for your smaller dick because they want to!
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By hypoboy [Ignore] 30,Jun,19 22:49
that is an awesome sentence which you wrote and every man should learn it be heart:

Concentrate less on what you think, more on the fact that people are sexually attracted to you, they go for your smaller dick because they want to!

the hottest thing about this very wise sentence is to acknowledge that yes, i don't have a large or extra large penis, yes i have a smaller and thinner penis than what i would have wished for - but i have a penis that is catching some sexual attraction of others and they want it!

You created an amazing penis size confidence booster, thank you man!


By #588327 [Ignore] 30,Jun,19 07:29
One thing guys never get to do is, be naked and relaxed. Guys never see each naked because we are told it's wrong. We are told even by parents our dick and balls need to hidden because just seeing them is shocking to them or anybody. That wrong.

People are told to to judge each other for no reason or their body including dicks. Instead we should look at each other naked as equals. That's what people never learn or experience. You can't experience it unless your around people like that. I found out were those people are. They are nudists.

Most people don't want to be seen as equal. So they make the other people feel less about themselves to make them feel better. People judge each other and bodies for no reason.

You have a great penis and balls. I would hope you feel comfortable taking your clothes off around me or any guy. We guys can handle seeing each other naked and relaxed and see each other penis. That's the fun part, seeing each other naked and see how our dicks look
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By hypoboy [Ignore] 30,Jun,19 22:45
Very nice contribution, quote: "Instead we should look at each other naked as equals."

i totally experienced this as well, when you are with nudists, nobody cares how you look and how large or tiny the penis and balls are. Everybody gets the same respect and is taken as the human being he is - which is a very fantastic approach.


By nekekal [Ignore] 30,Jun,19 14:53
It is what it is. Most people interested in sucking or fucking cock don't really care what size it is. Smaller cocks are easier to suck. There is suck a thing as a cock too big. As is there a two small. But anything between the extremes will get the job done fine. You will feel great, deliver some cum, and make the other person feel good.
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By hypoboy [Ignore] 30,Jun,19 22:42
thank you man, just a few words - but they make me really feel more confident as they com from your heart and make total sence!


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